From shock to heartache, 466 Weibo of Heilongjiang's newlywed wife described itself.

At first, no one cared about these hundreds of self -descriptions.

It wasn't until someone accidentally walked into her Weibo that she saw a wife's inner world.

One year ago, on the day of the wedding, the husband took all the gift money to pay off the debt.

Shortly after marriage, he took the money at home and asked his friends to squander.

And she has only 5 yuan on her body.

Her husband asked her to ask her, swiping her credit card with her flowers, and changed all the payment password to what he could remember.

She was tossed and ran back to her mother's house. Her husband rushed over and took her away, saying "I will kill you again."

In front of her mother -in -law, her husband was still trembling and no one dared to control it.

The elders have persuaded several times, and they all feel that the little couple are not sensible and contradictory.

She also thought about it, because her husband occasionally showed that she would feel "sensible, get good, and be saved."

From time to time, beating will force her to face the marriage of this marriage.

"He hit me a slap today, fists three times, three times around his neck, and said countless times."

"Today, I have tortured me again. I always tortured me. I handle my palms, smashed with my fists, and covered my face with a pillow to press down, so I should not cry."

She said that she did not send any social platforms when she got married, and she turned off, for fear of receiving the blessing of "a hundred years of good" by others, because for her, this was a curse.

The parents -in -law of her parents did not support her divorce. She was a husband who was painful in front of her, but none behind her could support it.

Watching her in the early morning, she wrote the text that "whether to jump off the building faster or drink pesticides to liberate the quick point", for fear that she would really do stupid things one day.

I don't understand why she entered this marriage, and she did not respond, but she still updated her fatigue every day.

June 19: "Get off quickly, can't afford it, if you can automatically divorce."

June 16: "It is the most uncomfortable dragging and delay."

June 15: "Dreaming is to break through all obstacles, not affected and troubled by anyone, work hard to make money, and work hard to live."

One by one, the more you look, the more silent and palpitations.

Someone distressed her encounter, and the comments said:

"No matter how much you have experienced, no matter how much grievances and complaints you write, complaints are never the way to relieve you from the difficulties."

In a word, it is persuasion, and it seems to be loyal to experienced by myself.

If a road is covered with glass tunnels from beginning to end, it should not be stepped in at the beginning.

When marriage becomes a burden that can only be grinded and only makes people tired.

Then leave early and refuse internal consumption is the best antidote.

Many posts on the Internet say that the husbands are like an outsider, shouting at home, and disrespect at all.

Some readers also gave me a private message saying that her husband was too masculine, and always called friends and friends to come to the house as a guest. chatter.

I think she is this toil and born.

She obviously can be very good, but she has to wait for the grandfather at home after a day of class.

A friend advised her to divorce, she dared not, just sighed, "Boom, forbearance, it's all like this."

There is also a woman in the reality show. After giving birth to a child, her husband is very disgusted.

One time she took her child out, and when she met her husband and colleagues in the restaurant, she went in and greeted.

Unexpectedly, her husband turned his eyes in front of everyone and turned his head and didn't want to look at her.

She escaped with a smooth way, and her husband continued to make trouble after returning home.

"Why are you going, it is not good -looking, it makes people come to Taiwan!"

His wife was grieving and crying. She was not as long as she was, bloated, and her face was embarrassed.

Not because she gave birth to 3 children, no one helped her bring her baby, she had no time to condition her body.

When she married him, she was also a "little fairy" who was naive, smiling, and gentle.

How many women, like them, took their longing and hopes to marry, but they were pushing and unbearable in the day after day, and the chicken flying dogs jumped and finished their lives.

Marriage is just a starting point, not the end.

If the rest of your life is foreseeable loneliness, depression, and indifference, then it is better to end early.

Just like this question on the Internet: "When did you start determining and give up a marriage?"

The most resonant answer is:

"It is not suffering, not twists and turns, or even derailment, but when the energy given by this relationship is far lower than that of you."

Because the most terrible thing in the world is not a person lonely, but the old man who makes him lonely.

Do you remember the aunt Su Min who left home two years ago.

Before escaping the family, 56 -year -old she was a "free nanny", washing and cooking for housework, and hurried as a gyro.

It was her husband who left her head without returning, because in her opinion, "we seem to never be a family."

When they got married, the two were separated from the two places.

Later, the work unit closed, and Aunt Su took her 2 -year -old daughter to her husband.

This man who only met her with her three sides was selfish and picky.

He was reluctant to spend money on his wife, but his wife did not work and had to give some living expenses.

So the amount of 500 yuan per month is set, and next month, I will find Aunt Su for the consumption list of the month. Aunt Su couldn't bear such a day, so she made money.

She swept the road, made a tailor, sold dumplings on the side of the road, went to the supermarket as a promoter, and sent newspapers.

Riding a bicycle every day, the basket is full of newspapers, and the daughter is sitting in the back seat of the car.

Since her income, her husband has not given money again. After many years of marriage, she has been AA.

Take a gift from relatives and buy each.

Aunt Su bought medicine and used his medical card, he changed the password the next day.

The daughter's tuition and living expenses from childhood to large are also aunt Su for alone.

The husband is just a stingy, and his temper is still bad.

With a little unhappiness inside, he shook his face. Aunt Su moved for 30 years and catered to his taste for a lifetime.

But quarreling and fighting are still commonplace. The husband always insults her in extremely harsh words. In a word, the slap was thrown on her face.

There was a scar on her chest, and after quarreling with her husband, she stabbed herself.

At that time, she couldn't say that her husband was so angry that she was so angry that she took the knife on the table and scratched her arm, and then inserted into her chest.

After being sent to the hospital for treatment, she found that she had moderate depression, so the idea of ​​escaping began to emerge.

She has gone through 10 provinces and autonomous regions, including Sichuan, Shaanxi, Hainan, Yunnan, Tibet, Xinjiang, and more than 100 cities.

Two years ago, she compared her life to "a long and uninvited tunnel. In the tunnel, people live like an old cow."

Two years later, she said, "So far, I feel that I really got out of the tunnel of my life and lived in the sun."

She used a video infection with fireworks all the way and warmed many people. She had been interviewed by Ni Ping, took advertisements, and appeared on the New York Times.

After choosing a person and a life who consumed her, she was now reborn.

Someone once asked her relationship with her husband, and Aunt Su said without concealment:

"Actually, he only called me for a long time because I walked the wrong way and was deducted from more than 80 yuan to pass the toll. He asked me to transfer it to him."

She didn't care much about everything, far away from the internal consumption marriage. At this moment, she was only immersed in the happiness and satisfaction of living for herself.

It took 56 years to get the most precious lesson in this life:

Low -quality marriage is not as good as high -quality single.

Marriage is just a state. The important thing is not to get married for marriage, but to find a truly comfortable and true self. This is a subject that is born.

Wilder said a paragraph:

"Do yourself, other positions have been occupied. Instead of hard work to change others, it is better to sit well.

"Even if you encounter difficulties, don't forget to quench yourself into a bright look. When you go forward bravely and master the ability to control life, years will not live up to you."

Evaluating a relationship is good or not. The most important criterion is whether it has turned you into a better person, and people who love themselves and love life.

The past is in the past. If the life of the past is unbearable, then don't look back. Looking forward, we have half of our lives to live.

Light "watching", there is only one way of happiness, that is, to have the ability to choose, and live a lifetime in the way you like.

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