Linyi Xiaoshan daughter -in -law Yang Guanxiang: Twenty -six years of true affection, accompaniment to write the song of filial piety

Yang Guanxiang, female, Han nationality, the masses, born in March 1970, staff member of the Finance and Economics Service Center, Linyi County, Linyi County, Linyi City. In the past 20 years, she has taken care of her in -laws without regrets, and explained the traditional virtues of Chinese traditional Chinese virtues with persistence and tenacity, kindness and hard work. In 2021, Yang Guanxiang was awarded the title of "Most Beautiful Respect for the Elderly" in Linyi City.

"Unconsciousness is not filial piety"

Yang Guanxiang and her husband married in 1996. The in -laws live in the countryside. There are 6 children, and the family is as poor. Therefore, she and her husband's economic conditions were also very difficult to get married, but every time she returned to her hometown, she would use her money to save money and save money for her in -laws, and to spend money on her in -laws. This habit has persisted for 26 years. In Yang Guanxiang's opinion, filial piety is not only to buy things for his parents, but also a filial piety of respect and obedience.

Due to the differences in the heating conditions in the countryside in winter, Yang Guanxiang's in -laws who were extremely cold in the family had a question where the New Year should be in the New Year in winter with Yang Guanxiang's husband. The husband proposed to pick up his parents to the New Year in the city, but his parents insisted on the New Year in rural areas. In the face of this situation, Yang Guanxiang persuaded her husband: "Filial piety and filial piety. How big is this? We are all cold and cold. If we do n’t go home for the New Year, the old man should be deserted. We must follow them. You can't make your in -laws unhappy because of this little thing! "There are still many small things like this. Yang Guanxiang feels that obedience is the most basic respect for the elders. Yes, there is no contradiction that cannot be solved.

"Lu Yao knows horsepower, seeing people's hearts for a long time", Yang Guanxiang used this method to deal with the problem, which not only ushered in her in -laws' respect for her, but also ushered in her husband, 妯娌, and aunt's respect for her. Since she married In the past 26 years, I have never had a red face with my in -laws. Between the crickets, my aunt had been very harmonious. His great family has been rated as "five good families" for many years.

"I hit another daughter again"

In 2017, Yang Guanxiang's mother -in -law was detected by bile duct cancer, and soon the father -in -law was detected by obstacle anemia. This is like a thunderbolt in a rural family. On the bed of the county people's hospital, two old people lived on the 5th floor and one lived on the second floor. The entire big family was shrouded in a cloudy cloud. The expensive surgical costs and thousands of hospitalization costs every day made it difficult for Yang Guanxiang. The husband was under great pressure at the time. He usually loves to laugh and laugh, and he is in silence. Yang Guanxiang read her husband's mind from her husband's silence. She comforted her husband: "It is not the problem of considering money at the moment, the life -saving is tight, and the money can be earned again. What is the use of people? If the conditions are poor, we have to go up first! "He said to help the husband make up his mind.

After paying for the money, Yang Guanxiang became the "nanny" of her mother -in -law's life. In order to make her mother -in -law dry, Yang Guanxiang prepared a few sets of clothes and bedding for her mother -in -law, and often disassembled and replaced it; she knew that her mother -in -law was lonely. After a day of tired, she would tell the old people about some interesting anecdotes in the community and relieve the elderly boredom. At night, she would put her mother -in -law's bed, put it in front of the bed, and watched her mother -in -law sleeping down, and her heart was solid. As for diet, Yang Guanxiang is more careful. She often improves the food for her mother -in -law. The dishes of each meal must not only have nutrition, but also not repeat it. Rice, noodles, steamed buns, dumplings ...

After taking care of Yang Guanxiang's careful care, the mother -in -law lived more than one and a half years than the doctor's expectations. When the mother -in -law left, she said infinitely to the loved ones around me: "I hit another daughter!"

"This good daughter -in -law is really rare"

Who knows that because of his wife's death and his own illness, the healthy father -in -law's life can no longer take care of himself. In the face of this situation, Yang Guanxiang looked in his eyes and was anxious. In order to solve the loneliness of the elderly and take care of the elderly more conveniently, Yang Guanxiang can only run back and forth in the home. When the father -in -law was lonely and most painful, she comforted the enlightenment of the elderly in time. Yang Guanxiang's father -in -law was bed for 4 years, but never had bedsores. Relatives and friends said that this is due to the careful care of Yang Guanxiang.

If the problem of taking care of the father -in -law's meal is just one end of the burden, then the other side of the father -in -law is the other. Due to the low blood function of his bone marrow itself, the red blood cells in the body's blood are seriously lacking. In order to maintain life, every 1-2 months, he will be hospitalized to lose blood at the county people's hospital. Undertaking all the shuttle tasks, one connection is four years. Yang Guanxiang did not complain. She never disgusted in laundry, meals, pouring water, and urinating in the hospital. Many patients mistakenly thought that this was her daughter to take care of her father. When she learned that she was a daughter -in -law, she really admired her. Once, clinically patients and their families saw Yang Guanxiang's move, and they were excited to say, "Such good daughter -in -law is really rare!"

Do one thing with your heart, respect your in -laws; live with your life for a lifetime, and work hard. Although the body is small, he can carry a home. For 26 years, Yang Guanxiang used his weak body to support the wind and rain. She wrote a touching song of filial piety with her own selfless adherence and sincerity, and told the world in the most rustic way: as long as there is love in her heart, there is goodness in her behavior, happiness is around.

Source: Linyi City Civilization Office

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