Children's stars jumped up by bullying on campus?Response of the Education Bureau of Shanghai Minhang District

From June 17th, You Yongmei, the mother of Tong Xing, Shao Yibu, posted many times on her daughter's social account, saying that Shao Yibu was jealous of her classmates, slandered maliciously, and suffering from campus bullying on campus. Shao Yibu jumped off the building on November 7, 2021. Fortunately, the doctor was dedicated to the danger of life.

Shao Yibu was hospitalized after being injured. Source: Red Star News

Shao Yibu is 15 years old and studied in a school in a school in Minhang District, Shanghai. He has starred in many film and television works such as "Dream Chasing Boys", "Dream Building" and "Galaxy Tutoring Class".

Today (June 26) in the afternoon, the Education Bureau of Shanghai Minhang District issued a notice saying that it was a working group to be bullied by Ms. You's letter and visit (report) on June 15th. The committee "conducts investigations in accordance with laws and regulations.

At present, Shao has returned to school to re -school to prepare for the entrance examination.

Tong Xing Shao Yibu was suspected of being bullied by the campus and jumped off the building

On May 9, 2021, You Yongmei received a call from the head teacher.

The teacher mentioned that the classmates in the class did not want to play with Shao Yibu, because Shao Yibu often spoke inferior, saying that a male classmate was a "mother cannon", and said that others wore fake brands and poor grades.

When You Yongmei talked to her daughter, Shao Yibu cried. She said that everything and all the things in the rumors were not done and said, but that some classmates made rumors to slander her and attacked her with words.

"I asked why they were targeted at me and made my rumors. They admitted that because I was often praised by the teacher and jealous of me, it made them very dissatisfied." Shao Yibu told his mother.

Subsequently, You Yongmei contacted the head teacher, hoping that the teacher would investigate and deal with the matter clearly.

Photos of Shao Yibu before injury

You Yongmei said that Shao Yibu generally uses holiday filming, but his homework never fell, and his grades have been ranked in the top five of the class.

You Yongmei said that after the investigation, the three students in the class were first hurt Shao Yibu. "They spread rumors to destroy my daughter's reputation, and soon more and more students joined under their influence."

Shao Yibu told reporters that she was noticed from March 2021. At the beginning of the new semester, as soon as she entered the classroom, she found that many students pointed at her.

Later, Shao Yibu learned that some classmates issued a remark of vilifying her on the Internet.

A student of the same school with Shao Yibu told Shao Yibu's classmate who wrote a novel and showed him the other party.

The novel mentioned that Shao Yibu was a "green tea sister" and "excellent sister"; Shao Yibu's attitude was "arrogant and annoying." But Shao Yibu's character is not like this in this classmate.

There are many details that make Shao Yibu feel isolated. Shao Yibu recalled that her classmates would say "Isn't her dad dead?"

Some classmates will skip her with test papers and assign homework. If you accidentally encounter her, you will pretend to be nauseous. The teacher asked the students to applaud the students with excellent grades. end……

Some classmates have also comforted Shao Yibu, but soon they will be reminded by her classmates who dare not deal with her again.

Because of these things, Shao Yibu often turned off after turning off the lights at night. She was afraid of her mother, and did not tell her her experience.

After accepting an apology, I was still isolated

You Yongmei was very angry and asked several students from Shao Yibu to write a letter of apology and guarantee. She presented to reporters the materials such as apology and review letter written by students, and the time was in May 2021.

"Sorry, radish (Shao Yibu's nickname), I was too much." "Expressing deep apology to you and Shao Yibu." The content of Shao Yibu released on the Internet. "

The materials written by Shao Yibu's classmates show that most of the reasons for Shao Yibu are mostly trivial.

A classmate wrote in the letter that once Shao Yibu helped her borrow a dictionary, the two met the teacher in the middle. Under the teacher's inquiries, Shao Yibu said that the teacher was helping the classmates borrowing the dictionary. , By the way, the Qi was sprinkled on Shao Yibu.

Subsequently, the classmate posted false information about Shao Yibu on the Internet.

In these apology letters, a word was used in an all -round way: "Misunderstanding". "I should go to Shao Yibu to explain clearly when these misunderstandings happen, and should not use the means of cold violence."

A letter of apology wrote, "Because during that time, I often heard a classmate say Shao Yibu said bad things about me, and on the day of the last exam of the last exam, I heard my classmates chat again, so I treat her to her It's not impressed, even if it is not verified. "

SMS sent by Shao Yibu's parents' parents

However, it seems that not all parents recognize You Yongmei. Shao Yibu told reporters that after a classmate's parents learned that their children wrote a review letter, they came to the door to find Shao Yibu who was alone at home and asked why they should let the review letter.

At that time, Shao Yibu chose to forgive these students. She said that she just thought that all this ended and could get along happily with her classmates. I did not expect that the situation had been for a few days, and she was still isolated since then.

Falling the building causes multiple injuries to the body's organs

After the new semester of the summer vacation in 2021, Shao Yibu was isolated and disgusted by his classmates, and the teacher did not ask about her anymore.

Shao Yibu said that she had been holding these unhappy things in her heart at that time, not telling anyone, and even closed herself and giving up resistance. You Yongmei said that after experiencing the last thing, she was worried that her daughter would be crowded out by her classmates. She had contacted the head teacher many times, but the class teacher replied that Shao Yibu and his classmates were very happy to get along.

On Sunday, November 7, 2021, in the morning, You Yongmei heard Shao Yibu said, "Mom, I go out and run."

You Yongmei thought her daughter had exercised as usual. However, the daughter went out of the door and did not walk down the stairs, but climbed up the window sill on the 6th floor to jump.

Photos of Shao Yibu before injury

"They hurt me a lot, and the idea of ​​ending my life through jumping off the building has been for a long time. I can't sleep at night to turn off the lights. I climbed to my own window sill more than once. At that time, I really don’t want to live. In the 9th grade, how to get along with them in the next year, I don't know what to do at all. "Shao Yibu cried and told reporters.

On November 7th, Shao Yibu thought that after this holiday was over, he would return to school. "I don't know how to face my classmates, I don't know how they should treat me?" She chose to jump from the 6th floor.

After Shao Yibu fell down, he was briefly caught by the cable, and then fell to the ground. After the neighbor found it, she immediately sent her to the hospital for treatment.

After three and a half months of difficult treatment, Shao Yibu finally kept his life, but the body organs were injured and fractured in multiple places. Among them, traumatic pancreas fractures were permanently damaged. At present, two operations have been moved.

No results in negotiation with the school for many times

You Yongmei mentioned that on February 24th, the second day after Shao Yibu was discharged, she contacted the teacher of the class teacher and explicitly proposed that Shao Yibu's accident was caused by the bullying of the campus. However, the negotiations with the school have not failed to negotiate with the school.

In mid -June, You Yongmei issued a report letter through Shao Yibu's Weibo account, saying that the students and their parents who bullied Shao Yibu in the real name should be reported in the class. Relevant managers hope to investigate their legal responsibilities and call on everyone to pay attention to campus bullying.

Photos of Shao Yibu before injury

Regarding the real -name report, Shao Yibu said that after the enlightenment of my mother, "I also want to try to face it bravely. Although I hurt so much, I still live."

Local Education Bureau response

In response to this, the reporter has repeatedly contacted the head teacher of the school and Shao Yibu, and did not get a response.

The reporter tried to contact one of the parents of the classmates. The other party hung up the phone after hearing "Shao Yibu" and no longer answered the phone or reply to SMS.

On the morning of June 24, the reporter called the Minhang District Education Bureau of Shanghai. The relevant staff said that the bureau had the staff of the bureau to urge the school to deal with the matter in accordance with relevant management regulations. The matter is further coordinated. Regarding whether Shao Yibu's mother's speech on the Internet is all true, it states that the school bullying identification may be identified by the school bullying governance committee in accordance with relevant laws and regulations.

How to deal with campus bullying?

Although it is still necessary to investigate whether the campus bullying is needed, the relevant experts have expressed their views on the phenomenon of campus bullying.

Professor of China University of Political Science and Law, the director of the juvenile crime and juvenile judicial research center, Pi Yijun, and the director of the Beijing Youth Legal and Psychological Consultation Service Center, and Zong Chunshan, the initiator of the Chinese youth self -protection education, pointed out that if there is a phenomenon of campus bullying, it is necessary Schools, parents, children, and society are faced and handled together.

School

Zong Chunshan believes that the teacher's handling of bullying needs to follow the principle of immediately and eliminate the bud state. Sometimes, there are a large number of students with bullying, but in fact, only a few people who really take the lead in bullying. Other students also joined bullying for reasons for "friendship" or fear. In this regard, the teacher should distinguish it.

According to the analysis of Pi Yijun, in daily life, the teacher may not be "a bowl of water".

One of the important reasons for bullying is the issue of self -esteem. Some children are better. Maybe that child does not do anything wrong. Other children will have jealousy in order to express their sense of presence and isolate others to vent their dissatisfaction.

Pi Yijun urged that the school should jointly agree on the formulation of a campus convention on preventing campus bullying. Each school can do it according to the actual situation of the school to form a campus atmosphere that resist the campus bullying.

Parent

Zong Chunshan suggested that parents should not control violence, communicate with the school, express their demands, and strive to solve it through schools. If it is not resolved, it can continue to be reflected up.

Through public sound, although it can expand its influence, it is necessary to consider that public opinion may also be a double -edged sword, to avoid leaking personal privacy of minors.

Pi Yijun said, "The so -called zero tolerance is not a bit, and it should be dealt with very strictly."

He mentioned that in school, even if a bullied trivial matter, students who bullying others need to reflect in front of the whole class, let parents apologize to the victims and scolded students in public to eliminate a large -scale impact.

Zong Chunshan analyzed that the children who bullied others or had also had the experience of being bullied. They were very weak inside and obtained the false "friendship" in a utilitarian way.

If parents find that their children are bullied by others, then they must be clearly expressed that this is wrong. Tell the child to understand the feelings of others and reflect on their education. child

Some things may be a big deal for children.

For example, a classmate invites the classmates to attend the party during his birthday, but he does not invite a certain classmate. This is bullying. Get happiness by derogatory and harming others is bullying.

For children who are bullied and hurt, you need to deal with your wounds in time. Do not see too much about some "evaluations" of others, don't stumate them on yourself. If you encounter problems that are difficult to solve, you can tell teachers, parents, or ask for help from the outside world.

In addition, Pi Yijun believes that the existing law has no clear definition of campus bullying, and lacks operationality to this area. Sometimes it is difficult to achieve law, and can only be judged and handled in accordance with adult laws.

He also called on unilateral laws and regulations related to school bullying, which can refine the situation of campus bullying and is more targeted.

Source: CCTV, Red Star News, Minhang Education, Beijing Youth Daily, Xinhua News Agency

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