The child is addicted to the mobile game, the mobile phone ruins the child?Should parents let their children use their mobile phones?

As soon as you go home from school to let your children read books, read, the child does not sleep with the book. Either just over a few pages and said that after watching it, I hurried to watch.

Lingling said that her child's performance every day made her anxious. Is this child rescued? Every day I am addicted to my mobile phone and unwilling to learn. If you learn well, you can also play your mobile phone. The problem is to add to your mobile phone, play games, and watch videos, that is, you ca n’t worry about learning.

Now that technology is developed, electronic products are popular. Looking at it, from 99 to one or two years old, they all like to watch with their mobile phones. The reason is that the content in the mobile phone is too attractive, so I am addicted to the mobile phone.

Adults play mobile phones and play well, knowing what time they should do. I also look at my mobile phone or workplace in my spare time to watch the mobile phone.

For students, for children, I think about watching mobile phones, watching videos, playing games, and forgetting what their main task is. Obviously, this is harmful to the child.

Therefore, many people say that the mobile phone ruins the child. Is the phone wrong?

As the product of the times, mobile phones provide too much convenience for our lives. Now people can use mobile phones to scan code, mobile video chat, mobile cloud travel, new knowledge on mobile phones, and so on.

There are too many uses of mobile phones, so children will indulge in their mobile phones and cannot extricate themselves. So what do they look for on their mobile phones?

Friends' children are more than three years old. We have a party to eat. The children are particularly noisy. The friend calmly took out the mobile phone and opened the video to look at the child. The child immediately calmed down, and then looked at the mobile video seriously.

A mother said that the first thing the child came back every day was to take the mother's mobile phone, what did you do, watch the funny videos in the mobile phone, and watch a live broadcast.

The child's classmate and grandma said that the child could not eat without looking at the mobile phone. Every time I eat, the mobile phone video is opened and played, and the child can eat it in the video.

Are these children so dependent on mobile phones?

I think it is largely caused by the habits of our parents. When the child is in trouble, watching a mobile phone video to the child is the magic weapon to make the child quiet. Over time, the child thinks that the mobile phone is pretty good, so if you want to watch the mobile phone in the future, you must toss them first. The purpose of the child is achieved.

So why do elementary school students addicted to their mobile phones? Love to play mobile games and watch videos?

1. sense of value and sense of accomplishment

The current children, elementary school students are the glory of the king of closed mouth, eating chickens, not only chatting the topic is mobile games, but they also play mobile games and play games well.

why? Because children cooperate with their companions in the virtual world to complete game tasks, it is easy to gain a sense of value and accomplishment. This makes the child feel that he is very powerful in the game and is recognized by his companions in the game.

Then children like to play mobile games and have a group of like -minded online partners.

Second, hunting psychology

There are all kinds of new things in the mobile phone to attract children. Not to mention children, we adults also turn on their mobile phones from time to time every day. I ca n’t help watching gossip news in my mobile phone and watching various videos and novels.

Children are curious about the things in the mobile phone, and the virtual world is too much attractive to us.

3. Children are too boring in life

In real life, children did not find their own interests and felt that there was nothing to do. So the child learned to pick up his mobile phone, watch short videos, play games, and be busy in the virtual world.

Fourth, escape reality

The child's learning pressure is too high, coupled with the accusations of parents, 叨, and the teachings of the teacher, everyone's reasoning, so the child has become the best room for evasion in order to avoid reality.

Five, homework on mobile phones

Many teachers now need to be completed on the mobile phone. What reading and punching, recitation, need to be operated on the mobile phone.

The child will inevitably use the mobile phone, but the child does not put down the mobile phone immediately after finishing the assignment required by the teacher, but continue to play with the mobile phone. If the parents are not monitored in real time, the children will add to their mobile phones and have fun.

It is obviously impossible for us to not let children use mobile phones. What should I do? How to make children use their mobile phones appropriately, not addicted?

1. Communicate with children

The reason why children love to play with their mobile phones is that the child is boring, and there is no interest in life. We do n’t know what to do. As a parent, we accompany the child, communicate with the child, and communicate.

Help children find what they like to do, there are not so many dependencies for electronic products, especially mobile phones.

2. Parent -child reading

Children do not like reading, which is not a child's fault to a large extent. In our survey data, parents like to read, children like to read. If the child loves to watch mobile phones, then parents must love to watch their mobile phones.

This is what we often say to teach. Parents ask their children to read books. From now on, we will pick up the book and make an example for the children. Instead of looking at your parents with your mobile phone, tell your child to read a book. So will the child go to read a book willingly?

Third, learn time management, use mobile phones to degree

After children study, they can play mobile phones. If the more we hinder the child playing with mobile phones, the child's curiosity cannot be satisfied, then the child will try to play with the mobile phone.

Everyone knows that many schools also rent mobile phones around the school. Parents do not let them look at them at home. The children are still watching outside. Rather than letting the child look at the mobile phone sneaky, it is better to give the child to see the mobile phone at home to satisfy the child's curiosity, and the child's dependence on the mobile phone is not so great. Moreover, sometimes the work arranged by the teacher needs to be completed on the mobile phone. Let your child play with your mobile phone. After learning, you can play mobile phones for children, but at this time we need to be parents to guide their children's time management.

What time should I do, look at the mobile phone, and do everything to do. If you look at your mobile phone, how long do you restrict each time, let your child take the initiative to put down your mobile phone, develop good habits, have a contract spirit, and slowly exercise your child's self -discipline.

The mobile phone is not as strong as the tiger, and the mobile phone will not destroy the child. In this era, people cannot do without the mobile phone. Go out to scan the code, pay for mobile phones to buy things. Children learn a new knowledge. There are also on the mobile phone, which is easier to learn.

Therefore, as parents, as parents, children can see their mobile phones, have control, and what should be guided by children to see what to see, letting children study hard, and go up every day.

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