Mo Yan: The real noble is to put others in the heart

Author: Insight on onetong

The gentleman is great to be good.

In an interview, Mo Yan shared a story about himself.

His daughter's house was very close to the airport, but every time he came back by plane, he would rather go to the house in the city center, and did not want to go to his daughter's house.

He said: "My daughter's home is too close to the airport. I am worried that the master who picks up the order will wait for a long time to wait for me to be like a short -distance passenger, and I will feel uncomfortable."

Considering the situation of the driver, when he had to go to his daughter's house, he always prepared a pack of 60 yuan of Chinese smoke in advance.

"Master, give you a box of cigarettes first, true China, not fake. I'm sorry, especially close."

The driver took the cigarette and gave Mo Yan all the way to the destination.

Some people think that Mo Yan is stupid. Obviously this is what the driver should do, and he has to put a pack of cigarettes.

But I think that doing everything for others is the top education of a person and a noble manifestation of a person.

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Putting others in your heart is not to make it difficult to be considerate. Matsushita, a famous Japanese entrepreneur, was sick once, and several friends came to visit him.

At the meal, he went to the restaurant to dinner with his friends, and his friends praised the signs in the store.

Everyone finished eating at the end of the meal, only he only ate half.

The restaurant manager was very nervous and thought it was the appetite of Panasonic.

At the checkout, Panasonic specially asked people to invite the chef.

When faced with him, "Steak is delicious! It's just that I am sick, the stomach is not good, and I haven't finished it, not that you don't do it well. I am worried that the manager blames you, so explain it to you."

Horse has written two poems:

I have known Qian Kun, and I am still pitying the grass and green.

The more noble people, the more they will take into account the feelings of others and make people look like a spring breeze.

Those who know Mo Yan will praise him and the gentleness.

He found someone to decorate the house and did not achieve the effect he wanted. It was difficult for the decoration master to be affectionate, but Mo Yan was unwilling to make people embarrassed, but gave another hard fee;

Publishing house arrears, he can always be considerate of editor friends, and he rarely actively discusses the request when ensuring that he is normal.

No matter what, Mo Yan will take a step back first. Behind this kind of harmony, there is no calm consideration.

The famous American psychologist Daniel Gorman said in "EQ": "You make people comfortable and determine the height you can reach."

All flying and unreasonable performances are a manifestation of weakness; real strong people can give birth to a kind of tenderness from the heart.

If you know how to put others in your heart, the path of life will become wider and wider.

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Putting others in your heart is not educated with a bitch. Imos wrote such a trivial matter in President Roosevelt in the eyes of the servant.

One day, Roosevelt was sitting in the study and reading a book. The wife of the black man who scrubbed the table on the side suddenly asked:

"Mr. President, Aimos said yesterday that he found a few quail while heeding, but I have never seen them. Can you tell me what the quail looks like?"

The president put down the book in her hand and patiently explained the appearance characteristics and living habits of the quail until she nodded to confirm the understanding.

In the evening, his wife raised his advice to the president to Aimos, and Aimos severely criticized her to ignore the current affairs and should not disturb the president with such a trivial matter.

Just then, the phone rang.

"Mrs. Aimos, you quickly stretch your head out of the window!"

Roosevelt said eagerly: "Tell you a good news. At this time, outside my study, that is, on the grass outside your house, there is a pair of quails stop there to rest!"

Aimos's wife screamed excitedly, and hung up the phone when she forgot to thank her. She hurried to the window and stretched out her head to see outside.

On the lawn, two red -brown quails were pecking insects.

Aimos also discovered them, and asked wondering, "The phone just made you see them? Who did it?"

His wife signaled that Aimos should not disturb the quail, and then pointed to the opposite side.

Aimos never expected that the president was standing in front of the window at this time to observe the quail quietly with them.

Mr. Mu Xin once said: "The educated superior people, who have been born to the driver, a bathroom waiter, and anyone who transmitted items, will never be perfunctory."

They are not proud of themselves, and they are always pretending to be others, and they are considerate from the heart and love others.

After Mo Yan won the Nobel Prize in Literature, CCTV sent someone to interview his house.

On the day of the interview, there were households under the interview. The recording in the house was frequently interrupted by the welding sound.

Mo Yan's friends couldn't sit still, and was going to go downstairs to the theory of the other party, telling them an interview with the great writer upstairs.

After Mo Yan noticed his friend's intentions, he quickly picked up a few packs of sugar and smoke and brought his friends, "Tell the masters, eat a sugar and smoke."

Even if he is famous, Mo Yan never neglects others because of his own identity.

I really agree with one sentence: "Whether a person has education depends on his attitude towards the weak."

The real noble is never to lower others by relying on others, but whether it is upward or right, it can be gentle and polite.

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Putting others in your heart is the kindness you think for others. I have read a story in the book.

Outside of a rice noodle shop, an old man who picked up the tattoo kept looking at the shop, and his mouth swallowed in his mouth, obviously hungry.

After a man in the shop glanced, he put down the chopsticks that had just been picked up, and then asked the waiter to bring a bowl to make most of the bowl of rice noodles evenly.

The daughter who ate rice noodles looked up at her head and asked, "Dad, don't you say that you are the big stomach king?"

The man said with a smile: "Dad's appetite today is not good."

After the meal, the father and daughter left, but the half bowl of rice noodles stayed, and no one came to collect it.

The old man lowered his head into the shop, and after the wind rolled, he ate the bowl of rice noodles, and then wiped his mouth with his hands and left.

During this period, the boss calculated the account, and the waiter quietly packed the chopsticks, as if the old man had never come in at all.

A new guy caught a few fritters and was chased out and was stopped by the boss.

The boss whispered, so he would not be self -esteem, and he would not come in the future.

There is a saying good: "Kindness is not just a substance, but also a kind of care and compassion for pushing yourself and people."

Thinking for people everywhere, observing the difficulties of others, and giving care of the matter silently, it is the best look of kindness.

On one occasion, the Hong Kong Trade Development Agency co -organized a famous writer's book fair with the Asian Weekly. Jiang Xun, a senior specialist at Asian Weekly, invited Mo Yan to give a speech.

During the book fair, Jiang Xun was responsible for all logistics, care and receiving all writers, and had to be impartial, so tired that he had no time to sleep.

When Mo Yan saw that he was busy at work, he volunteered that he could be Jiang Xun's secretary and couldn't open it. He did it for him.

Some writers are scattered, and they are always late for a few minutes. Jiang Xun is helpless. Mo Yan took the initiative to help him knock on the door one by one, urging everyone not to be late.

At the end of the event, Mo Yan returned to Beijing, and sent a text message to Jiang Xun after the plane:

"These days, in order to take care of our writers, you can exhaust you. This is a strong pen, but he has done a cumbersome thing. It is sighful to toss yourself, thank you."

Jiang Xun was moved after seeing it, and his respect to Mo Yan's respect was a little bit more.

The ancients, gentlemen are so good with others.

The nobleness of a person is not to keep everything he has, but to understand others and help others within the scope of his power.

When goodwill and giving, you can release huge energy.

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American writer Henry Ward Bi Che has a famous saying:

"Measure whether a person is noble or low, depending on what quality he has, not how much wealth he has."

The real noble is never stacked by material.

With the inner cultivation of root, the kindness that people think of can exude elegance and nobleness from the inside out.

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