The circle of friends blocks you, but the person who did not delete you, most of these three mentality

When you haven't brushed a person's dynamics for a long time, or suddenly curious about what TA is doing recently, so when you click on the circle of friends of TA, you can feel when you see a cold horizontal line?

Surprise, angry, or sad?

After thinking about it, maybe you will tentatively send a message to the other party and find that the other party can receive it.

What does this mean without deleting pulling you, but blocked your circle of friends again?

Most of the people who do this are actually out of these three mentality.

Unfamiliar relationship

Don't want to be spy on privacy at will

Do you mind that the person who is unfamiliar looked at your circle of friends?

Some people may feel indifferent, but some people really mind.

I saw a netizen on the Internet:

"I really hate those who are not familiar at all and monitor my circle of friends."

At first glance, I can understand her feelings after understanding things.

She was careless in her usual, holding the mentality of "just look at it, it doesn't matter", and rarely blocks others.

Until a colleague who had a small contact, as long as she sent a circle of friends, the colleague would be in the comment area and thought he was humorous.

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The photo of her travel, my colleague said, "I have money! Where did I go to play?"

She made a game record, and colleagues said, "This game of playing and killing, how can you play a girl."

Sometimes, when she sees her circle of friends, colleagues will also chat with her, asking her what she sees in the circle of friends, and whether the opposite sex in the photo is a boyfriend.

The feeling of being excavated is very uncomfortable. She wants to delete the other party directly, but because of her colleague's relationship, she can't tear her face, so she has to block him.

I can understand her helplessness. Opening a circle of friends to others is a kind of sincerity to reveal myself.

But if you encounter this relationship that is unfamiliar and likes to refer to people who draw hands and randomly evaluate, you can only recover this sincerity.

Seeing this, maybe you will start to reflect, and you are obviously not so annoying. Why does the other party block you?

Inside the boundary, there are people with close relationships; outside the boundary, people with alienated relationships.

For the "private base" of the circle of friends, TA just wants to accept those who are close, and do not want to be broken into the unfamiliar person.

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What's more important is that TA's circle of friends is more likely and will not carefully edit it carefully.

The familiar person saw that it doesn't matter how to evaluate the ridicule, after all, understand the real side of Ta.

If you see it, you may see a one -sided impression on TA or even misunderstandings because of this circle of friends.

Instead of setting up a packet every time, it is better to block people who are not familiar with and make the circle of friends easier.

Afraid of parents' care

I also want to leave some space for myself

It is easy to understand people who are not familiar with, but some people's circle of friends can open to unfamiliar people, but closed to the closest person.

For those who are blocked, I really can't figure it out.

Why does someone block the most closest person?

I said the experience of a friend around me, maybe you can realize the intention of this.

A friend had a quarrel with her boyfriend once, and sent a circle of friends in the middle of the night to complain about the "crimes" of her boyfriend.

She sent this circle of friends, half to vent her emotions, and half was sent to her boyfriend.

It didn't take long for her boyfriend to apologize to her, and they naturally reconciled.

Only ten minutes of friends, she thought that no people would see it, but did not expect to be seen by her parents.

The next day, her father called suddenly and said:

"Girl, have you been bullied?"

From her father's mouth, she knew that the first to see her circle of friends was her mother.

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Mom thought she had a bad life outside and had been unhappy. She almost didn't sleep last night last night. She kept thinking in her mouth and wanted to go to her daughter's city to see her.

After listening to her father's words, she was a little guilty, and a circle of friends that she was angry made her sleep hard all night.

I think many people have had similar experiences.

I was unwilling to work, and sent a circle of friends to talk, and my parents were worried that they could not eat and could not sleep; I ordered a takeaway to take pictures and send a circle of friends. The parents would say "eat less takeaway, there is no nutrition"; , I sent a circle of friends at hand, and the parents were "don't stay up late" by my parents the next day ...

This care of parents is love and a constraint.

The circle of friends should be a free place.

If every time you send a circle of friends, it will be too late to see if it will be too late. Pay attention to whether your status in the photo is good enough. Considering this circle of friends, it will cause your parents to worry ..... Then, then, then

I am too tired.

In the final analysis, blocking parents is not defense against their parents, but wants to block their bad state and block their parents' anxiety.

This is a shielding, but also a kind of protection. It is to prevent parents from being too worried about themselves and leave a space for themselves.

Life has no intersection

I want to leave a decent again

There is a saying good:

"The circle of friends is a circle. Some people are invited to come in, and someone is invited in and out."

Jusan clutch is the norm in life. Many people who think they will accompany their lives are actually just walking with each other, even just passing by.

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Since there will be no intersection in the future, there is no need to understand each other's dynamics, but deleting a person seems a little unique. In case of meeting, each other is embarrassing. It is better to choose to block you and temporarily cut off your connection, so as not to let you know the current state of TA.

Many people treat their predecessors.

Do not delete the previous WeChat is the last goodwill of this relationship; and blocking the predecessor is that he does not want the other party to intervene in his life, monitor his every move, and guess about your circle of friends.

Speaking of which, I remembered that there was a hot topic on Weibo: "The circle of friends show affection and shielded the predecessor."

Below the topic, there is a praise Weibo, which is a netizen shared his own story.

She once fell in love with a unhappy boy. She never coaxed her when she encountered problems and often dealt with it coldly. She also said that she didn't like showing affection.

It wasn't until they broke up, and he had a girlfriend again. She knew after watching his circle of friends:

"The person who made him willing, willing to show, and willing to love was not me."

Some things do not know better than knowing.

Seeing the love in the circle of friends, he made himself feel worried about the past and could not get out of love.

Therefore, the predecessor chooses to block you. I do n’t want to find it for you. Since it ’s the fact that breakup is a fact, we do n’t interfere with each other, do not disturb each other, and live their respective lives.

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This decentness that is shielded but does not delete, in addition to leaving it to his predecessor, may also be left to friends in the past.

Maybe it is a long -term non -contact, or maybe the contradiction that can not be reconciled. Some friends who used to be very good now have become "the most familiar strangers."

If you do n’t delete you, you leave the last decentness for each other, and you are leaving your own way for yourself, just like the saying:

"Being a person to leave a line, I will meet in the future."

But the alienation between you makes TA unwilling to reveal your current status quo in front of you, so you have to choose to block you.

To be honest, we do not necessarily notice that we are blocked by unrelated people. What we can find and care is often a person who has a certain amount of weight in our hearts.

That's why I couldn't help guess the purpose of the other party, and even doubted whether I did something wrong.

I hope you know that if a person blocks you, it may not be prejudice to you, you may just want to reduce the burden on your life and live a more comfortable life.

Even if the other person hates you, it is not necessarily what you do wrong yourself.

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Anyway, the quality of a relationship never depends on whether the circle of friends is blocked.

It is to look at the relationship between real life and judge the sincerity from the details of life.

As for the circle of friends who can't see, if you don't look at it, respect the other person's private space, and live your own life is the best attitude of life.

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