"I can't find a job for 3 years after graduating from prestigious universities": What is more terrible than adversity is that you think the rest of your life is a rich year

Not long ago, a hot search screen of "10.76 million college students graduated in 2022" was brushed.

Freshly college students spit out: We are too difficult!

Many people say "lying down" in their mouths. In fact, their resumes have been engaged in large factories. Nowadays, the competition in society is becoming more and more intense.

In recent years, many middle -aged people have begun to evaluate themselves and examine the stability and irreplaceability of their jobs. It can be described as full of "survival desires" in the workplace, let alone the job of young people.

In this regard, some netizens said:

In the past three years, many people around them have experienced changes in life from helpless to rising upward, and many people have experienced changes from optimism to pessimism to optimistic mood.

But some netizens said:

He graduated from the domestic TOP5 university and returned overseas for two years. Why can't a large factory enter?

Someone in the comment area pointed out: "Don't complain about the sky and complain! Want to find a positive attitude of the job, and it is down -to -earth."

Socrates has a famous saying: "Adversity is the highest institution of tempering people."

When you are in adversity, if you want to turn over, you must practice these three great abilities.

Swallow a complaint

Have seen a story.

A philosopher scolded God's injustice because of a prisoner and let all boat passengers be killed at sea.

In a blink of an eye, the philosopher stepped on a group of ants under his feet because of itching.

At this time, Hermes appeared in front of him and said:

"You are still complaining about God's injustice, and now you have stepped on many ants because you bite your ants.

None of us know, which will come tomorrow and accidents.

When an accident comes, it is the best way to not complain or hate, and it is more critical to face and responsibilities.

Zheng Juan in "The World" was praised by the entire network, because she never complained.

Zheng Juan is a widow. Everyone can avoid it. Only Zhou Bingkun is good to her.

Zheng Juan remembered in her heart. When she had difficulties in Bingkun, she went to the Zhou family to make a free nanny regardless of her gossip.

Not only do housework, take care of the children, but also wipe Zhou Mu, stool, and massage. She is busy like a gyro every day, but she has no complaints.

After He Bingkun got married, he worked hard and paid silently.

Later, when Bingkun went to jail, although Zheng Juan was in pain, he still said to himself strongly: "There is always a happy thing in life, I think about these, and the days of bitterness will come."

She neither complained about the heavens, nor received the assistance of relatives. Instead, she set up roasted sweet potatoes, and silently supported a home.

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The Zhou family was grateful to her. After being released from prison, Bing Kun also improved her career. Zheng Juan and him were old.

Zheng Juan did not complain in the case of fate, but faced life and eventually lived into the happiest person.

Luo Zhenyu said, "Don't complain easily, because once complaints, it is tantamount to labeling an incompetent label."

The long road is long, and there are ten or nine things that are unsatisfactory.

If you are too complaining, you ca n’t get into the door that succeeds in the end.

Instead of complaining, it is better to change everything.

Quickly adapt to the environment to adjust yourself, not afraid of difficulties, go up against the current, and become a magnificent scenery.

Stubborn hair

There is a question of knowing: "What should I do when my life is in adversity?"

A high praise replied: "Dormation, the spirit of adequateness, and start."

Think of a story that a Northeast friend tells.

In the winter in the north, the sky is cold, and all things are withered. In order to spend the food scarce period, the black bear will hide into the cave and hibernate.

They are dormant in the cave, do not eat or drink, and rely on a large amount of fat to eat in autumn, slowly consume and rest.

When the spring flowers bloom, they will wake up and go out to move out.

When the mountains are exhausted, we can know how to bear it like a black bear, nourish and storage, and quiet.

In the book "Beggar", the author Lai Dongjin tells his story.

Lai Dongjin was born as a beggar. His father was blind. His mother was infatuated. 12 brothers and sisters lived in the grave in the first 10 years.

Although fate treats him very unfair, he does not admit his fate. He wants to do his best to accumulate strength and insist on creating a happy life with his hands.

He may use sand as a paper, branches as a pen, practice calligraphy hard, or review homework and reading through weak street lights, or work hard in the fire prevention company.

In the end, he became a well -known factory director in Taiwan.

The reason why Lai Dongjin was able to become a social elite from a beggar was that although he had a lot of life, he did not sink, but had hope and accumulated.

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As he said:

"I thank the fate of suffering. It was the opportunity to give me hardships and gave me a extraordinary life."

There is a line in the TV series "Hunting Ground":

"Life will always encounter orgasm and trough. When you enter the trough, all you have to do is to accumulate."

In the adversity, instead of sending hopes for fate, it is better to travel against the water, storage silently, and strive to store knowledge, energy and resources.

Do not forget your original intention, and you will always meet everything you want.

Brave

I have seen a magical picture.

At a glance, it was a face that was bumpy; however, from the side, it was a concave face. Psychologist explanation:

"In life, what we see is a convex face, so we have inherent thinking in our minds, so that we can't realize that there will be a recessed face."

Only by breaking the determination of thinking, you can open the cage of thinking so that you can see different scenery.

Pen friends quietly, I met the trough of life in June last year.

At the age of 26, she was a clerk of a small company, but suddenly encountered the company's layoffs, and her online investment 200,000 yuan was also rolled away.

Looking at the work that I didn't care about, and the hard -working money for many years, now they have abandoned her, sadness, grievances, anger ... all kinds of negative emotions are intertwined, and she feels abandoned by the whole world.

After sinking for a while, she wanted to go out to travel.

On one occasion, she searched for the poor travel strategy online and found that a blogger's landscape and content made her happy. One of the essays impressed her:

"Every day, you can see Tianyu of Dawn, which is gradually white, smells the fragrance of the trees, and hear the sound of the stream ..."

Such a life makes her really envious. At the same time, she began to think that she could have a different life.

So she bought the camera with the only little money, and began to travel with the poor travel strategy she learned, wrote travel notes, learned to repair pictures, and then sent these beautiful pictures and travel notes to the Xiaohongshu APP.

Later, she had more and more fans of her Xiaohongshu account, and advertisers also found her one by one ...

In the face of the dilemma of life, Jingyi did not have been trapped in the dead game of "difficulty mode", but instead walked out of this game and chose to try bravely.

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She is brave to break the situation and lives as her favorite appearance.

There is a saying on the Internet: "Water can until the sea, because it can cleverly avoid all obstacles and keep turning forward."

Life is like the sea. When I encounter obstacles, I complained to myself and gave up to find a way out. Naturally, there was no way to take the next step.

And know how to change ideas and constantly try to find new breakthroughs, and life can break the cocoon into a butterfly.

I really like a quotation of Ferstinge:

"10%in life are composed of what happened to you, and the other 90%is determined by how you react to what happens."

Although we can't control 10%of the difficulty change, we can determine the remaining 90%by adjusting the mentality and behavior.

Life is impermanent, and ups and downs are common.

If you are unfortunately in adversity, the most powerful response weapon is ourselves.

Don't complain when you are down, try to take the responsibility;

When frustrating, calm the mentality and raise the essence;

When frustrated, there is hope and actively break the situation.

No matter how difficult life is, life must be continued; no matter how hard life is, you must move forward back to the light.

Practice with concentration to change, survive the tempering of destiny, and will eventually meet with goodness.

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