How many people do not fall into the pizza diagonal tower?

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"Pisa Land" is a drama about emotions, led by "Pizza Land".

Wang Jiannan, the director of the drama "Pisa Land", said:

"There are actually a lot of stories about emotional topics. From the steps of Adam Eve's steps out of the Garden of Eden, until the end of the last day, any corner of the world has discussing and disputes on emotional topics at all times, and will be able to argue, and will be able to discuss and dispute. Permanently, this is a question without standard answers. Emotional fluctuations and the tilt of the Pizza tower are all we cannot control and are incredible. In the future, I will continue to tilt. People have thought it will fall countless times, but he does not, but it is inclined and inclined ... In fact, the beauty and the beauty of the Pizza tower is just because it is between it is between tilting and not falling. This dynamic balance, its tilt, can also be beautiful. "

This oblique pizza inclined tower is like our marriage.

01

what is love? Is marriage the result of love or love grave?

These two problems, just like air, are always around, they can't feel it, but they can't be separated.

We always talk about it, but no one knows it really looks.

Putuskina's "Pizza Land" shows us many people's appearance in marriage. Question, resentment, love, can't, and hate, the most familiar stranger under the eaves ......

The book tells a couple who has gone to the edge of the marriage cliff. On an ordinary morning, a long conspiracy and resentment broke out.

A wife who "just fantasized love at the beginning", and then "just want to care and be considerate". Later, the wife who was "glad even if he was polite" was finally determined to divorce, leaving Italy, and looking for his new happiness.

A husband who always adhered to his wife who had never loved, he heard the news blank, thinking that it was another unreasonable trouble and didn't care. When I realized that my wife was really going to leave, I had this unexpected quarrel.

From the trivial life to the understanding of love, this middle -aged husband and wife who have endured each other for many years, when deciding to divorce, make their grievances, forbearance, resentment, hope, disappointment, love and hate, all real words, at the end, in the end At all times, frankly.

With the lines of this couple, we can glimpse the marriage life.

wife:

"I want to be respected and have guaranteed respect. As for loneliness, I don't care and don't love, I'm used to it." "Goodbye! I must say goodbye to myself. Ah, please give me a little Who gives me a little love! "

husband:

"Family life is like the pizza oblique tower. Tilled, tilted, but it seems that it will never fall. Who knows? Your accidental pregnancy, my marriage obligations, our quarrels and troubles, my betrayal and drunk, my betrayal and trouble, my betrayal and trouble Your hope and disappointment and grievances -all this is fate, she connects the male and female mysteriously ... the family either ends and bear many things ... or destroy it. "" I will be sad without you. Bad. "

Is our marriage? Is it like this Pizza diagonal tower?

Full of dissatisfaction everywhere, but because of the child's fetters, the eyes of others, the evaluation of society, the nostalgia for sincere emotions, and so on, we dragged our footsteps and could not give up.

02

Qian Zhongshu once said: "Marriage is a siege, people outside the city want to go in, people in the city want to go out."

Some people regret because they want to get married, and some people regret their feathers after marriage.

In fact, no matter what decisions we make, we may regret it. Facing the trivial and troublesomeness of chai oil and salt in life, in the face of the emotional concept and values, the personal growth environment and growth are different. The crisis of marriage is unknowingly close. This may be the most authentic portrayal of many middle -aged couples.

There is a very old movie called "Forget to understand you". It uses the most common methods to record the bland life after marriage.

Laiden employees Cai Weihang and supermarket boss Chen Xuesong's two couples have no love, sex, and zero communication. Except for chai oil and salt, they are children's affairs. The two rarely eat together, watch TV together, spend the anniversary, or play with their children together. They are like two "strangers" living under the same roof.

Cedar was once beautiful, and once yearn for the future. In poetry and distant choices, she entered the marriage, entered the world, and became the vulgar woman around us. There were only two things around them. One is the family, and the other is the child.

When Cai Weihang was middle -aged, he did not improve for the abandoned furniture factory all day. He was inferior to himself. The former boyfriend city of his wife when he was young is now a rich real estate developer, which has become a great humiliation in his eyes. Essence The long -standing backlogs in his heart have caused him to do many extraordinary things to his wife. For example, rape his wife at the construction site, and listen to the sister's words to take the child to do parent -child identification.

Finally, like the wife in Pisa Landie Tower, Cedar cleaned up his luggage and told her husband to divorce. When a marriage, his wife wants to leave the family, it must have been determined.

Coincidentally, at the end of "Pisa Land", his wife missed the last flight of Rome in the past because of quarrel with her husband. Until the end of the play, his wife had not yet walked out of the house. The author Putuskina leaves the final suspense for us: Can the sufferless wife overthrowing the pizza diagonal tower by himself? The end of the "Forgot to Know You" was the end: the husband hurried to catch up. It also left our unlimited suspense.

What is the final ending of women, maybe in our imagination.

03

The trivial life in marriage is not terrible. The terrible thing is love. This may be the biggest feature of many families in marriage. Over time, love gradually dissipates in life, and the sweetness has become the current "make up."

In the long -term unbelievable, the name of the unbelievable death has died, and the sense of responsibility is restrained. In this case, any trivial matter in life will become an excuse for the two of them. In the continuous pull of the two, there are no wins, and who only hurts.

There may be sad marriage without love.

Unfortunately, you may send you to hell.

The tragedy of Shufen in "No question" is the portrait of unfortunate marriage.

She saves money and supplies the teacher to go to college. Unfortunately, Mr. Xu, who went to college, opened his eyes, and he could no longer see such ordinary Shufen.

In order to make Mr. Xu marry her, she did not hesitate to die. For the sake of Mr. Xu, she finally married her.

After getting married, Mr. Xu was particularly indifferent. He responded to Shufen's marriage with cold violence, even if he was the most familiar stranger under the same roof. Shufen wanted to get concern and concern again and again, even if he quarreled and started with Mr. Xu, Mr. Xu still didn't care. He stepped up, forcing Shufen, a woman from an ordinary woman to a grievance woman or even a fierce woman.

In the end, Shu Fen's suicide may be because he had guessing that he could never get love.

Husband in Pisa Light Tower was forced to get into the marriage because his wife was pregnant. Only the indifference, ignoring, and betrayal of the aftermath with his wife after marriage.

04

There is such a sentence in "Siege": "No matter who you marry, after getting married, you will always find that you are not the original person, but you change to another."

Meaning: No matter how suitable you like this person, no matter how suitable you are together, as long as you marry her home, she is not her, and you are not you anymore.

At the moment of marriage, we all imagined the future. But the fact is that no matter how strong love is, as long as you enter the marriage, you usually don't have as beautiful as you think.

Moreover, many love before marriage was not so enthusiastic.

In the TV series "Two Conjectations of Marriage", the male and female owners made accidental blind dates because of the pre -marital test matching degree, and the two quickly married.

After the marriage, the two families began to quarrel. At the beginning, the misalignment made the cracks of mission -type marriage without temperature.

The heroine supports this family alone and strives to maintain marriage. For the family, she has been giving, but she gets the betrayal of the male lead.

The cold violence of the male lead, the provocation of love rivals, the weakness of the child, the contradiction of the family ... almost caused the female lead to collapse, and the alive depression was forced to be outpaced.

In the end, the heroine was completely disappointed and decided to give up the marriage.

In detail, the details behind the results of the divorce are traceable.

If you want to get angry, you think more and more you want to lose, then it means that this is a wrong marriage.

"Crocodile Rules" said: A crocodile bites your feet. If you try to pull your feet out of the crocodile's mouth with your hands, the crocodile is likely to bite your hands and feet at the same time. The more you struggle, the worse you will be bitten.

The only way is to sacrifice one foot to minimize the loss.

The unfortunate marriage is the same. Rather than endure hard, stop loss in time without disconnection.

05

In addition to this drama, the book "Pisa Land" also includes other representative dramas of Putoskina.

In the play, these tired middle -aged women, although unfortunate life and good love, but each life attitude is positive, attached to love, and perseverance to be a happy person. They appear with the face of "abnormal women". Believe that the blue bird of his own will definitely fly.

Is it really the right choice?

Will fate really give them what they want?

The answers are in the book. Also in our hearts.

I hope these stories will give us a real marriage life.

Author: Su Yun, a member of the Reading Club. Time to change the talents, the more we work hard, the more lucky, and not forgetting the original intention.

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