The Shanghai "Elevator Save Girl" incident follow -up exposure: The most unwilling scene, still happened

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On September 25th, in Shanghai Jiading's wholesale market, a little girl picked up her hands on the escalator with her feet hanging, and rose with the escalator.

After the escalator was promoted to the second floor, the girl was stuck at the cracks of the escalator and a glass.

At the critical moment, the two men came to rescue and rescued the little girl.

In just ten seconds of videos, people were shocked.

I dare not think about how terrible the little girl will face the two men who reach out to help.

A child with a risk of falling is rescued by enthusiastic people in time. This is a good thing, but someone is uncomfortable.

On the 26th, Mr. Ding, who was kind to save people, revealed in an interview that they were scolded and accused by some netizens:

"Some people say that I am slow to save people, and some people say that when I save the little girl, the position of my hand is not right."

Doing good things against scolding, this familiar scene is really suffocating.

First of all, Mr. Ding is doing business nearby, and it is close to the original. How can he running to show the 100,000 torment that is in line with the keyboard man imagination?

Secondly, those who have watched the video can find that at first they really wanted to save the girl through pulling their arms, but this obviously couldn't completely save the stuck little girl.

Instead, choosing to use a more labor -saving and safer way of supporting is a normal person's instinct.

Mr. Ding said: "Because his hands just held the child's buttocks at that time, at that time, anyone was caught off guard at that time. In case of improper saving, the little girl fell down."

Those who scolding people may never think that this is not an exercise. At the emergency of life, who can still take care of their posture? Is the action decent?

According to this logic, people who encounter dangerous on the beach are swimwear; artificial breathing is the mouth of the mouth; the cardiopulmonary resuscitation is pressing the chest ...

It can only be said that in the eyes of people with heartbroken, everything is insignificant.

A real civilian hero was sprayed as a wretched man, which was too chilling.

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Similar incidents have been common.

On July 28, a Lexus business car hit the roadside guardrail on the Liangbei Expressway. The front of the car was severely damaged, and there were black smoke emerging from time to time.

And all the doors were tightened, and all three people were trapped in the car.

Many cross -road drivers quickly stopped, participated in the rescue, prying the door, and smashing the window to smash the window.

With the efforts of everyone, the person in the main driver and the co -pilot was successfully rescued.

But at this time, the situation of the vehicle deteriorated, the car made an explosion, the fire appeared on the front, and everyone was forced to evacuate.

The latter female passengers were not rescued because they were stuck in their legs, and they were unfortunately killed.

This rescue video was quickly circulated on the Internet. Some people were distressed by the victims and some people liked the rescue staff.

But more harsh sounds sprayed to the savior who should have been praised:

"People who have smashed the glass early came out, but they had to pry the door."

"If the person I was at the scene must be saved, it would be urgent."

"You have time to conduct, you can do it, you don't need to shoot videos"

"Can't the fire extinguishers passing by?

And Mr. Xie from Nanyang, Henan, was also scolded as a sieve because of saving people.

At that time, Mr. Xie and the pregnant wife took a walk near the river, and suddenly heard the child's loud call for help.

Mr. Xie went closer to see that a boy was drowned.

Mr. Xie couldn't swim. He borrowed the swimming circle of others for the first time and threw it to the falling water boy and shouted loudly.

The wife was worried about what happened, took out the video of her mobile phone, and wanted to leave the first -hand information on the scene.

In the end, the boy was rescued ashore with the help of the people around him.

After that, Mr. Xie passed the rescue video shot by his wife to the Internet. He wanted to call on the parents to optimize the children and not let the children launch in the water privately.

But who knows, this video has become the evidence of netizens who criticize him:

"Most of the Chinese are indifferent spectators. They are numb, their inner pathogenic, the worse they are, the more happily they take out their mobile phones to shoot."

Those who can't swim because they don't care about their own safety to save people, and they are scolded as cold -blooded. They are ridiculous.

Thinking of the old saying: "Being a good person, you need to go through the difficulty of 1981; and the bad guys have a long end of the world. In the end, just put down the butcher knife."

In recent years, more and more people like to use "perfect rescue" to attack good people:

To save people, we must first stand the review of everyone and meet the moral requirements of everyone.

With this perfect rescue that is almost impossible to exist to judge everyone in goodwill, they have never thought that when you start to blame a good person, then everyone will be forced to selfish.

Because once the heart is cold, it may never be warmer.

03

There has been such a topic in "The Story of Qi Qi": Do you support the red envelope to the people who do good deeds?

I agree with the answer of Liang Qiuyang, I agree:

People are not born kind or indifferent, and kindness is shaped from the experience of details. The red envelope is this kind of detail. It contains the recognition and encouragement in the subtle moment to let the ordinary people choose the kindness. When the helping person forgets to say thank you, let the red envelope help to say thank you, the kindness is inherited.

It is more and more feel that whether good people can have a good report, it is not only a matter of choice of individuals, but also a problem of the whole society. Imagine that if everyone who do good deeds is condemned, the incident of "dare not help the elderly" will spread to all aspects of life.

People who need goodwill in the world, and people who dare to do good deeds.

In 2020, Master Sun's big trailer suddenly caught fire during welding and maintenance.

It was difficult to extinguish the fire for a while, and there was a gas station in the surrounding area. He chose to drive the car away from the downtown.

At that time, the entire body was extremely fire. The cab was like a stove. When he finally drove the car to the open area, the fuel tank exploded within a few minutes when he got out of the car.

The car who sold a house was completely abolished. Master Sun did not regret it. Only after he was afraid, he told his wife, "Our car is gone, I'm sorry for you."

At that time, this video of driving a "train" was swiped on the Internet for a long time, but few people knew that the follow -up of the incident was even more warm.

After understanding the situation, Changchun FAW sent Master Sun a car worth hundreds of thousands of fronts, and a company in Liaoning presented his car hanging.

After Master Sun himself, after the new car, he donated the first order of the sports car to the elderly home.

For those who are paid for everyone, they cannot freeze them in snow.

It is the beginning of a virtuous cycle for good people to have a good report.

04

Someone in Zhihu asked: If good people are not good, why do we have to be good people?

The highest praise answer is:

The real "good man" is to know what kind of goodness and evil, and then unswervingly choose to be a good person. They know that on this road, there may be no return, it may be lonely, but they will still be still. People who walked without hesitation.

Indeed, the real kindness is not deliberately showing to others, but this should be self -discipline, and should not become his law.

There is a word in the field of news communication, called the cold cicada effect, which refers to:

When talking about some sensitive topics involving speech or rally, the public is afraid of being punished because of his speech, or you must face high compensation, so you dare not speak, just like cicadas in cold weather.

Similarly, when people know that they take certain behaviors, it will trigger a series of unfavorable consequences, and in order to avoid the occurrence of evil results, they will take the initiative to give up these "causes".

Just like Peng Yu's helping the elderly many years ago, the "helping the elderly" became the highest risks in those years.

Although the accusations of a few people cannot represent the mainstream sound, if everyone does not speak for good people, the noise will start to restrain everyone's hands and feet sooner or later.

Not everyone has the courage to reach out to do good deeds, but at least we can strive to be the one who makes good people feel at ease.

Finally, I want to share a confession left by a German Protestant Father, which reads:

At first, they hunting the Jews, I was not a Jewish, I didn't speak; then, they chased the union members, I was not a member of the union, I continued to speak; later, they chased Catholics, I am not a Catholic, I still don't speak ; Finally, they rushed to me, and no one stood up and spoke for me again.

Defending goodwill and speaking for every good person is actually speaking for a certain day of the future.

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Author: Yan Yan, I read the main creators, and my life has the end, and I know there is no end.

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