Night reading ｜ Everyone has no umbrella on rainy days

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Kindness is a noble quality of a person. And I think that only those who can empathize can grasp the good scale and be good in people in a suitable way. The highest -level kindness must learn to be empathy.

One day, Zheng Mingxu, a sophomore student of Hubei Normal University, warmed up to many people. She noticed that a teacher was in a bad body, holding a crutch, and her waist was very bent. Thinking that every time the teacher had to climb 5th floor, it was not easy. She posted her wishes on the Internet in the form of a video, hoping to change a low -floor classroom for this class. After the school saw her wish, the low -floor classroom was changed as soon as possible. The teacher was very pleased when he learned the reason.

Someone once asked, why is kind people always be able to consider the sadness and joy of others? Because kind people are often able to push themselves and empathize with others, they can think of others. Only by learning to feel empathy can we touch the weakness of others' hearts, and can really help others with their own kindness.

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I have a friend who has a good relationship and is very good at taking care of people. We asked him how he "cultivated", and he told such a story.

My friend moved a new home in high school, and the male host next door was a police officer. One day, the policeman died due to public duties, leaving his wife and a 10 -year -old son. In the past, friends went home from school and never took the key to call Dad to open the door. But after the death of the neighbor's death, Dad specifically told him that he would take the key to open the door in the future, and don't call his father to open the door. My friend felt strange and asked why, Dad said to him, "You call Dad, the little boy next door will be uncomfortable."

Father's empathy was passed to him. From then on, he knew what others were unwilling to mention, or something uncomfortable, would deliberately avoid it, even if he accidentally mentioned it, he would apologize immediately. Gradually, he was used to thinking for others. The more friends around him became more and more, and his career became more and more smooth.

I have heard such a sentence, "The real high emotional quotient is not hypocritical, but warm." Think about it carefully, those friends who get along with each other may not be good at talking, but every move is like spring breeze. Learning to be kind to make goodness and more considerate. And good people are blessed and good.

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My friend's experience also reminds me of another thing. It was noon one day of the winter vacation of elementary school, and a man with a porcelain bowl with a porcelain bowl with a porcelain bowl with a fertilizer bag.

When he saw us eating, he asked us if we could give him some food or drink. After seeing it, Grandma immediately put down the chopsticks in her hand and said to her mother, "Give him half of the steamed buns just out of the pot." Let Dad get some money and prepare to give him. The man took the steamed bun, but insisted not to money. In the end, Dad stuffed the money to him.

After the man left, the grandmother sighed, saying that in the early years, she had also asked someone to raise a family in order to support her family. What impressed her the most was that a family gave her a corn nest. That incident brought a lot of power to her at the time, and I remembered a lifetime.

Thinking of a word, the best way to comfort a crying person is not to say "don't cry", but saying "if I am you, I will cry." The experience of empathy is like burning a lamp for others, shining, warming others, and illuminating themselves.

The road of life is long, I hope we can all have goodwill and learn to be empathy. I have to encourage you!

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Edit: Yang Shufang

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