After his wife died, he wanted to find his biological parents for adoptive daughters: I hope more people are good to her

Jimu Journalist Zhang Hao Li Yang

Mr. Zhong from Fangchenggang, Guangxi, adopted a 7 -month -old baby girl in 2002. Now she is 20 years old. Last year, his wife died of illness. Mr. Zhong was worried about the impermanence of the world and hoped to help adoptive daughters find biological parents far away in Guizhou. There can be more people in this world to be good to her.

Seven -month -old baby girl was forced

Mr. Zhong, 60, is from the middle group of Xiangshui Village, Maoling Town, Fangcheng District, Fangchenggang City, Guangxi. For a long time, their families have used agricultural tractors to help pull the goods.

Mr. Zhong clearly remembered that in the first month of 2002, a couple came to their village with a baby girl.

The baby girl is seven months old, very thin, like a child who is just full. "At that time, she had grown to teeth, but her thighs were not as thick as my fingers." Mr. Zhong recalled that the couple worked in a brick factory in Dongxing City, Fangchenggang. Live, you can only give away.

Xiaoyi (the interviewee confess)

"Originally, the couple gave the baby girl to other people in the same village, but the family was worried that the girl would not be too thin. So we will adopt it." I also hope to have a daughter.

In this way, this baby girl became a new member of the Zhong family, and her adoptive parents and her two brothers loved her and named her Xiaoyi. In order to make up for Xiaoyi, the unwavering family made a special trip to imported milk powder for her. Under the careful care of this family, Xiaoyi's body was getting better every day. "Occasionally I get sick before the age of three, and I basically do not get sick after three years old." Mr. Zhong said.

Supported by adoptive mother before the death

In the fifth grade of elementary school, Xiaoyi knew his life from his population. After asking his parents, he was confirmed. "At the beginning, I thought they joked with me. Until my other loved ones said that, I realized that this was really true. "Xiaoyi said.

In Xiaoyi's view, adoptive father and mother are very good to herself, and there is no difference from their biological children. Even after knowing her life, adoptive parents are as good as she as always. "When I was a kid, I slept with my mother."

Xiaoyi remembered that she was shopping with her adoptive mother at the beginning of the first day. She looked at a few hundred yuan clothes, but she was not willing to buy herself. Instead, she bought a few hundred yuan of clothes for Xiaoyi.

In 2018, Xiaoyi went to Nanning to study in college and adopted her parents to go to school together. Later, Xiaoyi listened to her brother and said that her adoptive father sent her to school and shed tears in the car.

Xiaoyi and adoptive parents (interviewees with pictures)

"I went to such a far place for the first time since I was a child, and he was worried about me." Xiaoyi said that this was the first time she knew that her adoptive father was crying because the adoptive father had always been a majestic person in her heart. "Although dad, dad I am impatient and I am not good at expressing it, but I know he loves me. "

In 2021, the adoptive mother died of illness, and Xiaoyi never walked out of the shadow. "I didn't even dare to go home. I would be sad to see the house where her mother lived." Xiaoyi said that when she was sick, she told her that if she wanted to find her biological parents, she Support, even if you want to return to your parents' parents, it doesn't matter, "She said, as long as I often come back to see my father."

The adoptive father also hopes that adoptive daughters have more loved ones

"When I was a kid, I thought that since my biological parents gave me to others, then if they came to recognize me, I would not recognize it." Xiaoyi said that now the adoptive mother died, she knows the preciousness of affection, and I think it can be found to find biological parents. it is good.

According to Mr. Zhong's memories, in the year after the delivery, Xiaoyi's biological father came to see her several times, and also hit Mr. Zhong's seat machine to care about Xiaoyi's situation.

Xiaoyi at the age of sixteen (the interviewee confession)

Xiaoyi's father came to see her for the last time, the second year of the lunar calendar in the second year after the delivery. "Seeing the child's little face with a fleshy face, she would already walk. Her father might be assured." Mr. Zhong said, at that time, Xiaoyi's father wrote the address in a mathematical practice book, but later the practice book I don't know. Later, the landline was useless, and Xiaoyi's father had never called him again, and the family did not work in Dongxing. The two were broken like this.

Mr. Zhong only remembers that the girl's biological father's surname is Li. He is around 60 years old and is tall. He is a native of Liupanshui City, Guizhou Province. The village he lives is about 100 kilometers away from Zunyi City. ","

After the death of his wife, Mr. Zhong felt the world's impermanence. "I don't know when I will leave." He hoped to help Xiaoyi find his biological parents. "When I adopted her, I planned to let her admit my biological parents in the future. I thought I would always always be Keep the connection and the result is broken, but they know where my home is, I haven't moved the house. "

Mr. Zhong said that after finding his biological parents, no matter who Xiaoyi wanted to live with, he would respect Xiaoyi's decision, but he hoped that more people would be good to her.

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