Quick Comment 丨 The Internet "Study Study" is a bit far away from "bitterness"

Even if it is hard work, when I can use it as a kind of funny material, it may be far away from "bitterness".

Recently, a post -00s fell into a crisis of dismissal after the company's circle of friends, which caused discussion among netizens. For some young people, a little unhappy or embarrassed in life in life is a way of understanding the Internet. Therefore, an anonymous vomiting video series represented by "Lemon Head Video" appears. People who are anonymous on the Internet are also known as the "hard learning" home of the Internet.

"What are you unhappy, let me make me happy." This sentence is more ridiculous in the context of previous years. But with the popularity of "hard learning" represented by "lemon head video", it seems to be a true portrayal, and more and more young people are happy to join this ranks.

↑ Hiding behind the lemon head special effects, the hard -working scientists can complain without fear. Photo according to the new weekly magazine

This phenomenon is naturally reminiscent of people, is it the pressure of contemporary young people? It seems that it also echo the judgment of "the Internet era, people's more and more lonely", as if the Internet "learning hard" has really become a "tree hole" for young people. In this regard, some psychological counselors said that the Internet "study hard" is a process of transferring emotions and rationalization. "In fact, the more scientific method is to solve the problem positively and actively, rather than transform, replace or suppress the problem." In other words, the "hard study" of the Internet may not be the best way for young people to decompress.

However, the pressure of contemporary young people is also a fact. From academic to work, from body to marriage, buying and buying a house, it seems that everyone has a bunch of bitter water. However, the so -called "hard study" popular on the Internet is not necessarily the young people who are really suffering from life torture are seeking comfort from strangers. Rather than saying that this is a "complaint" method unique to young people in the Internet era, it is better to say that it is more like a new self -media "creation" category spawned by Internet social culture.

For example, we see that the common "hard learning" material is generally like this: "Stepped the toilet cover of a friend's house", "The second day of the school was absent from school, but I was a teacher", "quarreling and losing. I have dropped my favorite jewelry into the toilet. "Although these things look embarrassed, they are actually garlic. Compared with those real" bitterness of life ", at most, it is just a life episode. It may be more appropriate to describe it with "形 用".

In fact, the "hardships" that these people talk about are often carefully screened. The purpose is to gain the laughter of others, not the real decompression of themselves. It is said that whether it is the moment the workplace dies, or the "promotion tips" of "leading the leadership, I transferred to the table, leading me to speak", I can use smooth language organization to restore my various "suffering" scenes, and in The output of accurate words and sentences afterwards is an essential skill for the Internet "hard learning" home. From this perspective, the Internet "bitter learning" family is obviously not everyone can take it. It is not more "hardships" that they encounter, but who is good at expressing and even creating "hardships".

Of course, some "bitter learning" materials may indeed be their troubles at a certain stage for the parties. But we must understand that when choosing to share publicly from others, it is almost inevitable that a certain performance ingredients are available. This is not only related to the stimulus of individual sharing and expression on social platforms, but also related to the shaping of personal life by Internet society. Because almost everyone wants to obtain the recognition of others through their own display, it can always trigger the "hard study" of the "Harbin" of the comment area, which is one of the ways of expression. In this process, the parties are still pleasing to others through "selling miserability". The rise of talk shows in recent years may inspire more people's desire to imitate in this regard.

Therefore, there is no need to look at the popularity of the Internet "bitter learning" with a mentality of anxiety or sympathy at all. You know, under normal circumstances, humans' response to real suffering and tragedy is sympathy rather than "laugh". And even if you are suffering, when you can use it as a kind of funny material, it may be far away from "bitterness". This is the self -decompression of young people. It is enough to entertain and entertain themselves. For the onlookers, it is enough to have more ordinary minds and less "good teachers".

Editor Zhao Yu

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