Auntie of the Northeast, the scene is ashamed to suffocating
Author:reader Time:2022.09.27
Excuse me, what videos are lurking on the Internet every day?
Answer: Repairing cattle hoofs, catching the sea late at night, cleaning old car and old carpets, nonsense movies ...
Also, the elderly blind date show.
Other interests and hobbies, maybe it's okay to understand.
I like to watch the carpet, to enjoy the original appearance of the restoration, and find a pure land of the soul; if you like to see the shaved wood, you can fly through the wood chips and understand the philosophy of life ...
Look at the elderly blind date, what is the picture?
In this regard, the explanation of young people is:
Tired of interpersonal relationships, I like to see the straightforward fragrance of the elderly blind date.
"I am me, sometimes I get angry when I watched it."
"Unreliable uncle is no less unreliable guy."
The elderly blind date, classic sentences, warm scenes, and the plot rising, it is really difficult to love.
"Elderly Date, I love watching"
As we all know, love is interesting to talk about others.
In recent years, the love of the young people's atriums has been broadcast one after another.
Stars and celebrities love, amateur and celebrity love, amateur and amateur love ... watching a professional variety show can find sugar in the gap, and watch a reality show of the wilderness.
But who would have thought that the fashionable young people who had not understood the programs of the elderly to watch the elderly in the elderly, and the fashionable young people who questioned "what can be seen" will fall into it one day and cannot extricate themselves.
There is no stage or lighting, brainwashing BGM.
Female guests do not wear shiny earrings, nor do they wear rhinestone dresses;
The male guests went straight to the theme and did not bend. When they stepped on the stage and opened their mouths, they introduced themselves.
As soon as it comes up, it is the big gold chain suit to stop the scene
Someone met for the first time and asked:
"Do you have a double guarantee?"
"What is the situation at home?"
It is simple and boring, and it is not boring.
Some people say that the best age of blind dates is male 60 years old and 55 years old. At this time, "retirement has a little money", "the age is not too big, and the body is not too bad."
These words, the word "pure" love is inevitable.
But for the elderly people who have experienced half a life, they are obviously small scenes.
Even if you look at each other right, you can talk about money.
"You are yours, mine is mine."
Most aunts have their own insistence on the property after marriage: "I have to save money myself."
Don't blame them "ugly words in front", according to a guest's words--
We are all people who have come over. In the future, ten or twenty years, we consider the best preparations for both parties and live in the second half of their lives.
Picture source: "Fate is not late"
Different from the shy and ignorant of the loved guests, there are small flames that collide out in the stage of love and buds everywhere;
It is also different from playing with a sense of romantic atmosphere to the limit, exquisite and beautiful young people's blind date ...
Uncle and aunts are on a blind date.
"Uncle local uncle holding hands with a high -quality aunt, drinking a cup of wine on the spot", "The discerning brother came to the blind date, bluntly stated that 10 million for three years"
A 63 -year -old "muscle" uncle brought his sister on a blind date. The aunt at the scene went straight in and expressed that he wanted to feel it. At this time, the uncle's sister destroyed the lamp on the spot:
"It feels a bit frivolous."
The younger sister rejected her brother, and the daughter who accompanied the auntie there was also unwilling. She just wanted to speak for her mother. The scene almost couldn't control it.
The first time the audience who saw this plot was shocked: Is this possible?
On the programs of the elderly, because of the skin of the gross garlic and the relatives and friends, it was often something that happened.
Another auntie of the bold aunt brought her girlfriend group, palm eyes, and cleared.
The girlfriend is also very powerful. Seeing the unpleasant "how the master" directly expands the fire support.
Faced with the madness of male guests, the aunts and girlfriends continued to output
Of course, many people love to watch the elderly blind date show, and because there are many understanding of life.
Compared to young people's yearning for love, "disregarding TA", in the programs of the elderly, regardless of men and women, they pay attention to health.
After all, everyone is basically a retired salary. Every day, "open your eyes and falls from the top of the shed for more than 100 yuan. Who will give you? You still have to live well."
When it comes to the rise, you have to claim the wrist to prove the source of the picture "The fate is not late"
In addition to pursuing health, I want to be very open for life, sickness, and death.
If you don't look right, don't talk embarrassingly:
"People and people's goals are different, let's not say that we are not excellent. People stand at different angles to see the problem."
Perhaps because of economic and eye -eye problems, maybe because of minor problems such as living habits, but the simple, concise and sharp style runs through.
There is no routine, it's sincere, what to say, what to say
Even if young people are ashamed to open their teeth, the elderly are shy and frank.
"This can be available."
The rich uncle who watched the show looked at the female guest and thought that he could successfully hold hands, but the female guest said:
"I can't accept asexual marriage.
"This is like a color screen mobile phone and an older machine. This function must be available.
Watching the young people on the show, trying to think about the marriage concept of the older generation, take a screenshot of the golden sentence, make an emoji package, and reply.
For them, watching elderly blind date shows not only decompress, but also "prepare for everything that may happen in the future." You can even learn some top pull -ups when you watch a "frank game".
For example, when refusing to others--
Low emotional quotient: I didn't look at you.
High emotional quotient: 10 points for full scores, 6 points for passing, I can only give you 7 points, but I have to find more than 8 points.
"Li Weiqian almost."
The description of the uncle is quite in place
In addition to interesting, the elderly blind date bureau allows the audience to open their minds: love can actually talk like this.
Love is not a myth
"Love" can be said to be an eternal theme of literature, and humans are always yearning for it.
Although the understanding of love is just like everyone has a Hamlet in their hearts.
But the age and experience of the elderly blind date still let us see the unexpected view of love.
There is a relaxed part, the golden sentences are frequent, and I can't wait for every sentence to remember to keep it;
There is also a deep moment, which makes people feel a long time, and even tears.
Not only is the online blind date show, some people aim to the offline "blind date", but also show another appearance of the elderly pursuing love.
Like the old man who paired on the TV, "at this age, I have experienced too much love, hate, and hatred, and they are not unrealistic."
If the blind date comes with a new face, you must catch it if you have a chance.
我 "I have good health, I have double guarantees, my children are abroad", and they are replaced by more direct "you see me".
"You look good" than "your pretty is your fault, who makes you so beautiful."
The legendary straight -ball soil love words, hand hand in hand.
There are also people who play in the mall for love, and the people who eat to eat melon in seconds, watch the old version of the old version of "The Temptation of Going Home".
The elderly strived for their feelings to bold and straightforward, and the young people shouted: "It's really good."
Pocket money, behind -the -front, old -age ownership, pastal past ...
Direct or gentle, tenderness or quarrels. On the elderly blind date, everything can be spread on the table.
Sometimes they tell the happiness and misfortune of most of their lives, sometimes remembering the mad youthful past, and sometimes sharing the love cheats that have been summarized by themselves ...
It is good to "see a fun", and feel "soil hunting".
"The love of middle -aged and elderly people does not seem to need the wind and snow, and those young people often have the spiritual fit of emotional resonance and value matching in love, which seems to be worthless."
When the love chicken soup written by various emotional large numbers makes people elusive "what should love should be like", the elderly blind date shows a gap in the fog with a strong real plot.
If you look closely, you may also find that in that joy, it seems that there is always some inexplicable sadness.
Zhang Xiaoju, the responsible editor of the "Fate Come" column, said in an interview:
"Because children are not around, their inner loneliness is very strong, and many show guests have experienced the ups and downs of life.
"Some middle -aged unemployment, some marriage unfortunate, some diseases are involved, and they often feel close to death."
It's the kind of loneliness that you fell to the ground and don't know who to call.
It is already an enviable leader who is supported by children
According to the results of the seventh census in my country, the proportion of population in China at the age of 60 and above is 18.70%, and the number of elderly people with remarriage needs and hoping to seek living partners have continued to increase.
But many factors are constrained with a happy life in their old age.
Affected by the traditional concept, I dare not say that they need; the children in the family do not agree with life, and feel that finding a step -dad and a stepmother is not suitable;
There is no retirement salary, only a few acres of land, and the economic conditions are not very good; divorce is discriminated than the widowed puppet, and regrets to reconcile with myself ...
After experiencing failure, give yourself a chance
Young people talk about love for sweetness and pure, and do not like it.
For most elderly people, this kind of blind date with "goal" may be the best solution at the moment. "
"Love this glass of wine, everyone has to be drunk,"
The seemingly "too funny" elderly blind date is actually difficult.
For the current popular elderly blind date shows, more often, the attitude of the outside world is actually funny and uncomfortable.
"I don't understand, the people who live to this year have become bigger and understandable. The old man is fine, and the old lady is not good at cheating. What do you say?"
"It's a lot of age, what kind of spending" comments will always come up with a few words.
But if it wasn't for a person, who would like to go to TV to find a wife?
Someone shares their own stories:
In the winter in the northeast, it is more than 20 degrees. Even when it is not the best at noon, the old man and old lady are sitting outside.
"No matter what else, it is uncomfortable at home."
According to relevant reports, among the elderly over 60 years old, 35%have no spouse and 37.6%are willing to remarry.
"The loneliness of the elderly is superimposed. Some of them do not love to go out, but that the physical reasons cannot travel for social activities."
The reason for the blind date of the elderly has a disgust of loneliness and a longing for happiness.
And these are not shameless.
In a group of interviews, people of all ages have different definitions of love.
The 5 -year -old girl said "willing to play with him", and the 15 -year -old girl said "can understand each other and communicate well". At the age of 25, "discovering the advantages of the other party and cherishing." At the age of 40, "hand over your whole heart to this person", 59 years old is "the other party can make you very happy" ...
At the age of 72, he "would care about him and always want to be with him."
Love always has "but"
The subject of love will be transferred, cognition will change, but love is always there.
Love, or marriage, is not the privilege of young talents, let alone overthrow their definition of love because of different views.
There is a saying in "Not our Century":
"Life is just a process of peeling fantasy."
For these elderly people, after the long years of storms, they always have more concerns and more sober.
Saying "romantic and love is not dead" may be too aggressive, you can allocate chai oil and salt, and one place. People often yearn for the companion, love and care.
After seeing marriage and life, they are willing to embrace new feelings, and are willing to bet on a hot heart to find a partner and find another life. This is rare.
Picture source: "Funny Family"
If you ask again at this time-
Little young people in their 20s, do they love to watch the blind date show for the elderly? Is it normal for the elderly who are over half a year to go to blind dates to pursue love?
The answer is: normal, it is too normal.
Human feelings are not sooner or later.
Rather than entangled "the sunset is infinitely good, it's just a dusk", it is even more important to find it and cherish it when you can grasp it.
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