The adoptive mother helped the daughter who had been adopted for 19 years to find her relatives, and the child biological father: very happy and surprised

Jimu Journalist Yu Yuan Li Xiancheng

Video editing Xuan Yiyao

This is a special story of finding relatives. The sponsors are the children's adoptive mother.

Nineteen years ago, Tian Chen, a woman in Xinxian County, Henan, took the biological daughter who had just been born seven days from a Hunan couple. Since then, she has become the "mother" of this girl.

However, it was not expected that the marriage, remarriage, leaving the hometown ... a series of changes made Tian Chen break the contact with the child's biological parents.

Nineteen years later, the baby girl in the middle of the year had grown into a big girl, and she was admitted to the university smoothly. This summer, Tian Chen made a decision that she would help her adoptive daughter find her biological parents online.

She said, "This couple can see her biological daughter, and this life may be at ease."

Adoptive mother to help her daughter search online (picture source: network)

A adoption of nineteen years ago

Tian Chen, 48, went to Wangjiang County, Anqing City, Anhui Province in 2007. He worked at the factory and took care of his children at the factory, so he spent 15 years calmly in a foreign country.

But in her heart, there is always a concern, that is, looking for biological parents for her adopted daughter.

Time returns to 2003. At that time, in his hometown in Xinxian County, Henan, Dabie Mountain, Tian Chen and her husband had a 5 -year -old boy in the countryside, but the elders in the family had always hoped that their husbands and wives were regenerating. Due to policy reasons and physical problems at the time, they did not intend to raise again, but planned to adopt a girl.

"At that time, I made clothing in a factory in Dongguan, Guangdong, and my husband worked in a hardware factory. At that time, a Hunan colleague in the same factory had been pregnant for seven or eight months. She Xiaoyan, I learned from other colleagues that the conditions of Xiaoyan's family are not good, and their husband and wife have planning to give their children to raise people. "Tian Chen said, she started to contact Xiaoyan and directly expressed herself. The idea, coupled with her husband and Xiaoyan's husband, are colleagues of the same factory, and agreed to the matter for convenience.

Take a photo with the adoptive mother (the left for the adoptive mother, the daughter on the right, the source of the picture: the respondent)

In September 16th in the lunar calendar in 2003, Xiaoyan gave birth to a baby girl, named "Feng Xiang". On the seventh day of the child's birth, Tian Chenjing agreed to hold the child away. On the occasion of the farewell, the child's biological father wrote a note.

"The name of the girl and her father on the note, and the name of the child's sister, but did not leave the family address and contact information. At that time, we also left the address of Henan's hometown and a seat number in the village to the other party." Tian Chen said that shortly after, she took her adopted daughter Feng Xiang and returned to her hometown in Xinxian County, Henan. The child's name also changed. In order to respect the other party, the name of the adoptive daughter still retained the word "Xiang". A few months later, Xiaoyan called once and greeting the situation of the child.

After the divorce, bring the adopted daughter to remarry the countryside

At the beginning of Tian Chen adopted Feng Xiang, she thought that after the future conditions were mature, she wanted to tell her adoptive daughter, "After all, the child's life was given by her biological parents."

In Tian Chen's opinion, if the two parties have always been with, the contact should not be broken.

However, when Feng Xiang was 3 years old, in 2006, Tian Chen's marriage suffered a change, and she agreed with her husband to divorce. At that time, Tian Chen came to Guangdong again in order to deal with the divorce with the man. During the period, she also visited the Hunan couple.

"After the divorce, the adoptive daughter followed me, and my son returned to the man. For life, I needed to work. For a while, the child was fostering in my mother and my sister's house. Now I think of it, I feel sorry for this daughter and adopt her back. But let her follow me. "Recalling the situation of the year, Tian Chen burst into tears.

What made Tian Chen feel more sad was that that year, her mother suddenly died, which was undoubtedly a double blow to her. But for her children, she needs to persist.

"It is not easy for a friend to see a woman with a child, so I helped me introduce the object in my hometown, but the blind date asked me to arrange the child to get married again. I can't accept it." In Tian Chen's view, the one who raised a daughter was born In the past, he was helplessly adopted by his biological parents and was very suffering. If the marriage was sent to others again because of his failed marriage, she could not bear it. Later, after the introduction of a colleague, Tian Chen met a man in Wangjiang County, Anhui. Because the man died of a single person, he also had a daughter at home.

"You can come and bring the child." The man's words moved Tian Chen, who had a low emotion at the time. In the end, she remarried to Anhui, which was given a relatively complete home for her adopted daughter Feng Xiang.

The adoptive mother took a photo with her daughter (the left for the daughter, the right is the adoptive mother, the source of the picture: the respondent)

Adoptive mother to help her daughter search online

Since the record, Feng Xiang noticed that there was an elderly man in the village to talk about her life, and she also asked her mother that she had been obscured at the time.

"At that time, I was ignorant, and my mother might feel that I was still young, so I didn't say it. But I didn't believe what others said, and I just believed in my mother." Feng Xiang said, probably when he graduated from junior high school, the mother Tian Chen She officially told her about her experience, and she was shocked at first, and then slowly accepted, "My mother is very good to me, just like a biological child. Although the father's cultural level is not high, it is also honest. Good people, never seeing me as an outsider, I have always regarded him as a biological father. "

In Tian Chen's view, Feng Xiang would know the truth one day and later, and he didn't want to hide her, but he had to tell his daughter clearly.

"I told my daughter at the time that your life was given by his biological parents, and he should be grateful to them. On the other hand, their behavior of that year had a certain cause, and they might have a heart knot in their hearts and may be guilty. They can see their biological daughters, and they may be at ease in this life. "Tian Chen said.

In the summer vacation this year, 19 -year -old Feng Xiang successfully admitted to a normal college in Anhui. After obtaining the consent of her daughter, Tian Chen released the first video of relatives on August 7 on August 7. Subsequently, with the help of the baby home volunteer, the information of the adoptive daughter was registered on the online finding online. And went to the local Public Security Bureau to collect blood for her daughter.

Finding information registered on the Internet (picture source: baby home network)

"The child's biological father is Feng Fengming, and the biological mother is Xiaoyan. They are from Hunan. The child was named Feng Xiang at the time ..." Due to the long time, the note left by Feng Xiang's biological father was lost inadvertently. For the memory of the Hunan couple, she updated the video every few days. She hopes that more people can see and help spread the news.

Biological father: very happy and surprised

After more than a month, good news came. On the afternoon of September 24, Tian Chen announced the good news of the adopted daughter Feng Xiang to find her biological parents.

"Through the information provided by enthusiastic netizens and the visit to investigation, they finally found Feng Xiang's biological parents. They also confirmed that the child was adopted at the time. One word was worse, maybe she remembered it wrong. "Baby said a volunteer who went home to Hunan.

Tian Chen said that a few days ago, he sent the photos of the adoptive daughter to the volunteer, compared with her sister and sister, and found that the similarity was high. Later, I received a photo of the adoptive daughter -in -law's parents from the volunteer, "I recognized them at a glance at the time."

Yangmu Tian Chen announced his daughter's successful family search (picture source: network)

"Feng Xiang, 'Xiang' is the abbreviation of our Hunan. For so many years, the second daughter suddenly found, and I was very happy and surprised." Mr. Feng, the biological father, introduced that their family is from Yongzhou, Hunan. Currently working in Jiangxi. His wife is 54 years old and takes care of his children in his hometown. "At that time, I had recorded the seat number given by the family on the mobile phone, but then the mobile phone was lost and I lost contact. However, I heard that their husband and wife divorced It's. "

"There is a very strange feeling. They are my biological parents, but they are very strange. I don’t know what they are like, nor do they want to recognize me, now I don’t dare to call." Feng Feng. "Feng Feng." Feng Feng. "Feng Feng." Feng Feng. "Feng Feng." Feng Feng. " Xiang said that after listening to many adoptives, she had a general image to her biological parents in her heart.

Recalling the situation of the year, Mr. Feng admitted that he got married late, his parents walked early, and his family had poor economic conditions. At that time, they already had a 2 -year -old girl, and they couldn't afford a burden, so they wanted to find a better condition to raise them. He and the adoptive family met when they were working. The man was a small leader in the factory. The child's adoptive mother was very reliable, and he was a factory with his wife. The other party raised.

"At present, my daughter has no time to study at school. Next, volunteers said that we need to organize us to recognize their relatives online." Tian Chen said that when she considered Feng Xiang, she took her child to Hunan to recognize her biological parents.

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