Hot Comment 丨 Take the single -blind box to become popular, it is difficult to buy love, the risks are often there

Zhejiang News Client commentator Liu Xiaoqing

Screenshot is from a shopping website.

"1 yuan can meet him/her". When the marriage and dating are opened in a blind box, is it a surprise treasure cave or a hidden dangerous Pandora Box?

Recently, physical stores selling single -blind boxes have appeared in some cities, and online apps are endless. The single -blind box means that single men and women put their age, contact information and other information into the box, and sell them by the seller by randomly drawing, so as to achieve the purpose of making dating.

Similar to various blind dates and blind dates websites, it is popular because it meets the social and love needs of some young people. The "fast" of work and life rhythm and the "slowness" of business love form a comparison. This is not only a realistic problem at the moment, but also the main reason for many people to be single. Although "no time" and "social terror", social and love are commonplace. You only need to pay a small amount of money and time to take off the single blind box, and you can expand the social scope in an online way "zero contact, zero embarrassment", so many people accept this new thing with the mentality of "try".

However, the "unknown" in the form of blind boxes is contrary to the "knowing roots and knowledge" in sincere love. The biggest feature of blind boxes is random. This kind of "luck" and "look at people" gameplay is more stimulating and insufficient rationality. And love just needs enough real information to ensure stability and sense of security. The other person's personality line and the fit of both parties are based on the basis of understanding each other. Love cannot be given to nihillery luck, otherwise all kinds of encounters and love scams can become a reasonable ending under "bad luck".

It is not only difficult to buy sincere love for a few yuan, but consumers are also easy to be in a heavy risk. Most of these physical stores or online APPs that focus on single -blind boxes have low investment costs, and the phenomenon of "pay today, run tomorrow" occurs. Secondly, the filling of the order information does not have the requirements of authenticity, and various links lack the review. The form is random. The process is really difficult to distinguish. Some people are easily cheated by the false image that the other party is "packaged". Personal information was leaked. It was also criticized for the disconnection of a single blind box. Some blind boxes collected private information such as consumer contact information, height, and weight. The merchant sold the information for the second time. Dilemma.

In fact, the popularity of taking off the blind box also reflects some young people in the chase of "fast food love". They do not want to spend time to understand a person, but they want to rely on "friends to apply" to find good fate for themselves; their acquaintance is not because of attraction of each other, but "random matching" under the operation of merchants and technical operations. In pursuit of fast love, we must accept its fate of fast decay, and to get rid of the long process of acquaintance, knowing, and getting along with each other. Many people yearn for the romance of "the car and horse is very slow, the letter is far away, and the lifetime is enough to love one person", but the game -style love such as playing with a single blind box, but also pushing this sincere, long water flowing love in virtue Farther.

Although "everything can be blind boxes", it is not only difficult to get off in the state of unknown and blind selection, but also fall into risks and difficult to get rid of. The more fast food, the more you need to cherish every rare sincerity. It should be noted that it is difficult to buy a sincere person, and the blind box must be cautious.

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