"I will fall in love with you again, until the end of my life"
Author:reader Time:2022.09.26
Remember, are you watching a movie last time?
Recently, there is a touching film that has a deep film- "Mom! ", There is no force sensational, but still makes people cry.
Picture source: movie "Mom! "Stills
It tells a story about "Alzheimer's Disease".
In order to take care of the 65 -year -old daughter, the 85 -year -old mother tried her best to recover the memory of her daughter.
Two older lives, in the process of each other's last life, reflected each other, very moving.
Picture source: movie "Mom! "
Alzheimer's disease, as a frequent visitor to the theme of the movie, once again aroused the resonance of the audience.
According to statistics, the number of Alzheimer's disease in my country is about 10 million, and every 3 seconds, there will be more dementia patients in the world.
It is not far away from our lives. It has faded the warm filter of the movie, and the reality is even more.
The disease has made the patient's memory increasingly empty, and it can no longer find the past time, and tortured one family after another.
Fortunately, there are a group of people who know that the disease is cruel and still willing to cross the river and declare war to time.
They let people see that love can defeat everything, even forgotten.
In the variety show "Can't Forget the Restaurant", there is a grandma with Alzheimer's disease.
She is an employee of the restaurant, with many young people in it, and is the "guest" invited by the show group.
A young girl was a little uneasy.
She couldn't recognize her anymore, and she couldn't recognize her in a face -to -face distance.
The girl introduced herself and said, "My name is Xue Zijiao."
When Grandma heard this name, she froze, and she felt incredible:
"Really? There is a child in my family named Xue Zijiao, but it is young. My little girl is six or seven years old."
Picture source: variety show "Can't forget the restaurant"
It turned out that in the memory of grandma, granddaughter looked like ten years ago.
Grandma saw her familiar, noticing something wrong. It wasn't until the girl said that her name was Beibei, and the grandma suddenly realized.
This big girl is her own granddaughter, but it is no longer like the six or seven years old in memory.
Picture source: variety show "Can't forget the restaurant"
Grandma had a regret in her heart, and her expression was full of self -blame. How could she forget her granddaughter?
She blame her granddaughter not telling herself the truth. In the short few words, both of them wet their eyes.
Picture source: variety show "Can't forget the restaurant"
Alzheimer's disease, like a big snow in the patient's mind, covered everything in annoyance.
Soon, Grandma forgot her granddaughter again.
She didn't even remember her granddaughter, and her granddaughter returned to her memory of six or seven years old.
But in the future, the granddaughter will still recognize with grandma again and time again-
Forgotten 10,000 times, then find you back 10,000 times.
The love movie "50 Times Love" is called "romantic classic".
The heroine suffered from short -term memory loss due to a car accident. Whenever the sun rose the next day, she would forget everything the day before.
The actor did not shrink back, and he repeatedly created his first encounter with the girl and fell in love with her again and again.
Picture source: movie "50 Times Love"
In real life, there are also movie -like romantic plots.
The actor in reality is a grandfather who suffers from Alzheimer's disease.
His hair was white, and his words were a little unclear, and his memory was always fixed at 20 years old.
The disease took his memory, he couldn't recognize anyone -except his wife.
Seeing my wife, Grandpa always flashed the stars in the eyes of his grandfather.
"I really like you, can you live with me?"
Picture source: network
Every time grandma saw this, she would push him embarrassedly, laughing and making fun of her grandfather, as sweet as a lover.
The existence of a lover is like the desert oasis.
Although my memory is barren, I will still fall in love with you again until the end of my life.
On the bus, a white -haired old man reached out to grab the fish balls on the little girl next door.
The little girl was so scared to cry.
Seeing the son in front of the car, she immediately returned to her father to stop her father.
Picture source: network
The old man who did not succeed was very unhappy. He walked straight towards the front door of the car and got out of the car.
The bus was still traveling, the father and son pulled several times, and the son finally collapsed.
He couldn't bear to shout to his father: "Dad! Can you not add chaos to me!"
Picture source: network
The old man was also very wronged, and he explained:
"My son likes that fish ball the most. I have to buy it and wait for him to get out of school, it's gone!"
It turned out that my father did all of this was for the family who missed in his heart.
Hearing these words, my son intersects.
Standing in front of him is a pretty old man, his father who has lost his wisdom, but why is it the most loved one in the world?
Even if his father's memory was chaotic, his love still passed through the gap between time and came to himself.
The old man is old and becomes a "old child."
After her mother suffered from Alzheimer's illness, she was confused like a few -year -old children, and she "paired" with her daughter every day.
There was a basket of apples on the table, and she bite each apple.
When eating, she took the spoon to pull the beans in the rice, picking and picking, making the table sticky.
Picture source: network
The young daughter was tortured by her mother's illness and suffering. Gradually, her daughter found that her mother had deep meaning behind each behavior.
She bites every apple and wants to try which one is the best and leaves the sweetest to her daughter.
Picture source: network
She picked up the beans in the bowl, and wanted to put these all into the daughter's bowl and let her add more nutrition.
Picture source: network
She became increasingly incompetent, strange temper and angry.
But the seventy -year -old mother often cried tremblingly like a fragile child.
These trivial things have exhausted her life -threatening ability.
It looks helpless, but it is full of affection-
She forgot everything, but she didn't forget to love you.
What is the friendship of more than 50 years?
This means that a person has experienced your youth and witnessed your embarrassment. After thinking about vicissitudes, he remembered the past with his hair and remembered it.
But now, I am in front of you, but you can't recognize me.
Grandpa Xiaomin is a patient with Alzheimer, and his friend came to visit him.
The friendship between the two for more than 50 years has reached zero at this moment.
After Grandpa Xiao Min was busy, he completely regarded Grandpa Wang as a guest in the restaurant.
Picture source: variety show "Can't forget the restaurant"
Grandpa Wang couldn't help but speak: "Do you know me?"
Grandpa Xiao Min looked at his face blankly, and was embarrassed: "I don't know much now."
Grandpa Wang added again: "My surname is Wang."
Grandpa Xiaomin's face was shocked, just like the gate of time opened, and the memories poured out:
"Oh! Wang Zuoyu! Old friend!"
Picture source: variety show "Can't forget the restaurant"
The two old people finally recognized each other and gave each other a powerful hug.
Picture source: variety show "Can't forget the restaurant"
Grandpa Wang was crying, he said:
"I know, he won't forget me."
Picture source: variety show "Can't forget the restaurant"
From youth to 耄耋, those passing past no longer exist, but some things are unforgettable.
Just like the line of the movie "Thousands and Chihiro":
"Memories will never disappear, you just can't remember it for the time being."
Those lost past have become shells scattered on the beach, and they may not be picked up again, but they will be beautiful forever.
A foreign netizen inadvertently recorded this touching moment.
The granddaughter was feeding her grandma, and the grandmother who had dementia ate obediently. The two were silent.
Picture source: network
After feeding, the grandma stopped suddenly and said a word.
The granddaughter didn't hear clearly, thinking that the meal was wrong, and asked what happened to her grandma.
Then she heard it clearly, grandma was telling her, "I love you."
Picture source: network
She knew that at this moment, grandma was back.
Grandma is no longer forgetful, no longer a blind eye to her. Grandma's memories are so real.
Picture source: network
The granddaughter's tears blurred, and the sober grandma also shed tears.
People will go through two deaths: once they stop breathing, and they are forgotten.
Those who really love you will always wait for you in place, even if only a moment of reunion.
Sometimes, the sound and smell are like a key to open the door to the past.
The memory disappears, and the senses will help you remember.
A husband and wife in Shanghai got married at the age of 20 and walked together for most of their lives.
Later, her husband got Alzheimer's disease and gradually could not recognize his wife.
Even if she didn't know her, her husband still depended on his wife and had always followed his wife.
Once, the wife cooks in the kitchen, her husband looks at her, and finally can't help confessing:
"My home is big, just live in my house!"
Picture source: network
And all this is because the husband feels that the taste of his wife makes him feel at ease:
"The taste on you, fragrant."
Listening to her husband's childish confession, the wife couldn't cry and laugh.
My son was fun and dad: "Do you know what her name is?"
His father didn't think about it, and he instinctively said his mother's name.
Although she couldn't recognize her wife, her husband remembered the taste of her, remembering her name, as always like her, and wanted to be together every day.
Picture source: network
This is probably the best way to love.
Alzheimer's illness is cruel and makes people forget everyone slowly, but it is also romantic-
Even if you forget other people, I still love you with my instinct.
There was a news that caused a lot of sensation.
An old man with Alzheimer's disease lost, his daughter was looking for a long time, and hurriedly reported the police.
Under the police's search, the old man was found at the door of a kindergarten.
She was sitting in an unmanned space and waiting for something alone.
Picture source: network
The daughter finally found her mother and found that she was the kindergarten she had studied.
The old man was sitting in such a daughter alone because she always remembered how her daughter was still in kindergarten.
What she doesn't remember is that her daughter had graduated 30 years ago.
Picture source: network
You see, even if Alzheimer's disease, he can't take the memory of deeply buried.
Although memory is forced to stagnate, love can never stop.
Alzheimer's disease is realized that what is really terrible is not death, but forgotten.
Modern medicine is currently not cured with Alzheimer's disease, but we can accompany them with love.
31 -year -old Wang Qiang is a busy green office worker. Five years ago, his mother was sick, and his memory stayed in his high school time.
So Wang Qiang simply made a mistake, and played a high school student to his mother--
"Mom, I'm getting up. There are 2 language lessons this morning. Talking at night, the phone is not brought."
"Okay, son."
Picture source: network
He also wore his high school uniform and videos of his mother every night.
"At the beginning, I corrected her, and then there were many times, and I felt unnecessary.
"Just make her feel that I am still in high school, so I feel that she will be happy."
The same high school school uniform was worn from 28 to 31.
Just look at her mother's memory and protect her.
Picture source: network
The bustling crowd of the city, people walked on the streets and lanes for their livelihoods.
Observe carefully, there are also simple and simple tenderness here.
A Beijing taxi driver works for more than ten hours a day, with a praise rate of only 56%.
Every passenger who got on his car was surprised to look at the person sitting in the co -pilot.
Picture source: network
It was his wife, suffering from Alzheimer's disease. To prevent his wife from running around, he simply brought his wife beside him.
"Husband and wife, it's a companion everywhere."
Companion is the longest confession. It turned out not only in the romantic plot.
Picture source: network
At the gate of a computer city in Chengdu, Cai Yujun, 52, was quickly pulling the box lunch.
The old man wearing red clothes next to him was his 92 -year -old mother, and she ate food.
Picture source: network
The days of working with my mother have lasted for 7 years.
Cai Yujun is a delivery man. He asked his mother to sit in the back seat of his car and ran around the streets and alleys.
Although he was busy at work, he and his mother were inseparable, and he did not forget to hold his mother's hand in the elevator.
Real life is helpless, but there are always people who do their best to protect the people they love.
Picture source: network
Everyone who suffers from Alzheimer has a "rubber rubbing" in his mind.
They seemed to be a distant onlooker, confused eyes, nowhere to place hands, and the expression of eloquent and stop, and they were ready to be involved in the pain of unclear imagination and reality.
They lost themselves again and again in the chaotic world of looping.
They struggling, maybe they also have their loved ones, unfinished things, and memories they don't want to forget.
Similarly, they will blame their confusion, hate their strength, and hate their funny appearance.
But even so, they still strive to live hard, struggling to connect with the past in the past.
What we can do is to embrace them with love.
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