Women are middle -aged and learn to let go

When a woman is middle -aged, she lives a feathers.

If you want to win the happiness you want, in the process of pursuing, you must know how to let go of some people and things.

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When a woman is middle -aged, she let go of her dependence on her lover and create happiness by themselves.

Ikeda once wrote: "Happiness is not given by others, but is cast in their lives. There are both windy storms and heavy snow in life. The sun, the light of happiness will always shine on you. "

Happiness is a seductive word. For middle -aged women, how to have happiness is a tricky thing.

There are old and small, and their careers are also in the situation of chasing troops before they have pacesetters. The burden on the shoulders makes people breathless. I really want to find someone to rely on it.

But there are too few women who "rely on".

Her husband is responsible for making money to support his family, and women are responsible for beauty. This harmonious and beautiful scene can only appear in film and television dramas and literary works. In real life, it would be a blessing if the husband can cooperate with himself to take care of the family together.

Therefore, learn to let go of too much expectations for lover.

For example, do n’t wait for the middle of the night to go home after finishing hygiene and ask him “whether the floor today is different”; it ’s in the middle of the night. A meal, praise you can really do it.

For example, don't look forward to "setting up" when he is busy with his baby. Maybe the child has not been coaxed to fall asleep. He coaxed himself asleep.

For example, don't expect him to pay all the money he make. As long as you don't ask you to ask for money, the usual expenses can be shared half, even if you "pick up treasures".

Middle -aged women, the best understanding is that as long as the car is full of oil, the mobile phone is full, and a little money in the pocket, you can "break through the world." It is tired to make money by your own hands, but when you spend money, you are very hard. This free and easy is the source of happiness.

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When a woman is middle -aged, letting go of the obsession with the promotion and salary increase, and constantly improving is happiness.

Women in the workplace, do not want to "promotion and salary", after all, the hard -working self is worthy of the long -lasting halo and honor.

But reality is often contrary to wishes. As Mr. Luo Xiang said:

"I think there are a lot of things. It really does not get you from hard work, or it is given to you. To be honest, more knowledge is more knowledgeable than you, and more seriously than you, you But it's just you in the temporary order of fate. However, you have to wait for one day at any time.

Maybe we are the "who has not been in the point of fate" ourselves. Rather than losing, it is unhappy, it is better to divert your attention and keep improving yourself in order to stand out one day in the future.

I have seen a workplace story shared by a netizen:

As an e -commerce operator with rich experience, she has been looking forward to being the supervisor for many years, but the boss has always been alone, but she does not wait to see her.

Under the leadership of the new director, the performance fell sharply due to the poor measures. The old man has to be replaced with a supervisor.

But even in this case, Lao Chong found three alternatives, and she was the third. The two people in front of them made excuses, because it was too difficult to reverse the loss of losses.

After the woman learned about these situations, she also refused the "reuse" of the boss after considering some of the time: since the company is going downhill, even if they are promoted, they will not increase their wages. Great efforts can turn losses into profit. Do you really have to consume it here?

So the woman decided to do it alone.

Resign, start a business again, one year, two years, three years, when a woman has survived the period of "starting from the beginning", everything finally entered the "right track". From this, she saw a broader world, and there were also some. The confidence of life.

Middle -aged women, if they are not treated in the workplace and not valued, why not be a good thing?

In the company, do a "marginal person" who can't make mistakes, complete the designated task every day, leave the amateur time to yourself, to be a "subsequent industry" you are good at, or insist on your own hobbies, every day In the direction of "professional", one day, you will find the world of "glowing and heat".

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When a woman is middle -aged, letting go of the delusion of "following it", there are only hope that there are some things that can only be persisted.

Being around, there are many women who are "leaning on the old", as well as women who pretend to be stupid.

As soon as he was forty years old, he began to hang "old, it's time to rest" to his mouth.

At work, they put on a "old qualification", and they just pushed everything. Once the error occurs, there is no care, either crying and selling a miserable face, or the posture of "a vixen scolding the street".

In life, they began to give up their own requirements: the figure began to bless, only when the "age" arrived, never considering exercising the body and healthy health; indulgence in a small video of fragmented videos, unspeakable, no realization, only the only one. Reading can purify the soul.

In the parent -child relationship, in the face of the rebellion of adolescent children, either blame the child to be disobedient, or it doesn't matter.In a phrase "children and grandchildren have children and grandchildren", they cleaned their due responsibilities.In fact, women reach middle age.

Whether it is work, life, experience, and own ideas, and also have a certain economic foundation.And this "Dongfeng" is to follow the inner guidance and keep in a well -known hall.

Therefore, we must catch the most precious time in life and write the most brilliant life chapters.

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End words:

When women reach middle age, let go of those who should let go, such as those who consume themselves and embarrass themselves.Persist in those persistence, for example, through hard work to make your thoughts and actions of gorgeous counterattacks in the second half of your life.

In the game while putting down and insisting on the game, we finally met a better ourselves.

Author: Rufeng is light and cloudy.

Your happiness, my blessing.

The picture comes from the Internet.

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