After watching Dong Yuhui's "grilled intestinal theory", the higher the person we know, the less arguing

Author: Ciyu

Stupid and prejudice will never be persuaded by words.

01

Once again, Dong Yuhui's wisdom was amazing.

On the evening of September 21, when Dong Yuhui was about to deal with another teacher Pengpeng, he watched a bowl of powder and a plate of grilled intestines on the table.

He meant a grilled intestine and asked, "Everyone, what is this shape from your perspective?"

At this time, in the close -up lens, grilled intestines are irregular rectangles.

He then asked Pengpeng: "From your position, what is this shape?"

Peng Peng pointed at the black sound wheat on Dong Yuhui's shirt, reminding him that he raised the chopsticks with grilled intestines.

Answer: "Look, you put a bit above, your microphone is exactly an exclamation mark."

In the end, Dong Yuhui stared at the grilled intestine and said slowly: "But what I saw, this is round."

He added:

Do you know what I mean? That is, we do n’t want to raise a bar with others. We both have different positions. It ’s naturally different when we see things. We are right. Why do I convince you and why do you need to convince me?

There are many people who are right and wrong. Since Dong Yuhui has become popular, he has been pushed to the cusp.

Some people sarcastic the books he recommended, and some people bombarded his agricultural product pricing unreasonable, but Dong Yuhui demonstrated what it means: different positions, without arguing.

02

When the famous Italian painter Beroni was on vacation in Switzerland, he often sketched the beautiful scenery while visiting the beautiful scenery.

One day, when he raised a picture rack by Lake Geneva, and meticulously described the beauty of the two sides of the strait, three female tourists came next to him.

They stopped beside him and started to evaluate his paintings for a while.

"It's not good to draw here, it is obviously a very tall tree, you draw so crooked"; "The color there is not right there, so blue, you are not blue at all"; Go in, see, there are a few people there ... "

The painter has neither anger nor refuting, and has maintained a smile from beginning to end.

The next day, he went to another sketch and met the three ladies.

The ladies asked him: "Sir, we heard that Big painter Beroni was in Switzerland and wanted to visit him. You should know where he lives?"

The painter bowed his waist slightly, and said politely: "Dare not, I am Beroni."

Later, when Beronie talked about this, his friend was curious why he did not argue with them three days when he was on the first day.

After all, replacing any famous painter, who is so fingered by others, must be tattooed.

Beloni said with a smile that it was completely unnecessary. He talked about painting skills with the three foreigners, like playing the piano for cows.

03

Why tell these two stories?

Whether it is Dong Yuhui or Beroni, we will find that the higher the cognitive person, the more we don't like to argue.

Because all the arguments are all harmless and have no benefit.

Just as the picture below.

A person jumps into the sludge to go with a pork rack. He failed to take advantage of him, but made himself full of sludge.

Therefore, people with high realm should protect their body without fighting the philosophy and stay away from right and wrong.

04

In the TV series "Tiandao", Wangmiao Village poverty alleviation is the highlight.

Feng Shijie, Ye Xiaoming and Liu Bing asked Ding Yuanying to help poverty alleviation together.

Under Ding Yuanying's planning, the three of them opened a corporate poetry company, making the water.

However, when Ghelian Poetry wanted to fight a lawsuit, the three retreated their shares quickly and threw the mess to others.

Feng Shijie apologized with Ding Yuanying. Ye Xiaoming argued angrily for herself. Liu Bing couldn't stand at all.

In the whole thing, they asked for poverty alleviation, and they escaped the responsibility of escape, and replaced others for a long time.

However, Ding Yuanying did not have any accusations and preaching, and his face was light and light.

Why?

Because he had seen the essence of poverty alleviation before planning this incident: To get rid of poverty, he had to remove the idea of ​​"waiting for".

But the three of them couldn't see it at all.

Even though Ding Yuanying explained to them: It is you who are waiting for the thoughts that you want to rely on, so you are poor.

Feng Shijie, Ye Xiaoming, and Liu Bing must not believe it.

It's like a person standing at the bottom of the valley and seeing desolation.

Standing on the top of the mountain and telling that person, there is an ocean in front.

That person must not believe it.

Therefore, Ding Yuanying did not do unnecessary explanations, because some things were open, and it was also a waste of mouth.

People with high cognitives never argue because they understand that stupidity and prejudice will never be persuaded.

05

Seeing such a story, an intern and leader went to eat grilled fish.

After the grilled fish came up, the intern immediately found that the fish was not fresh, and called the restaurant owner to the theory with him.

The leader stopped immediately, and said to the boss, "It's okay, he drinks too much!"

The intern was puzzled.

Leadership explained:

"First, the taste is not good, will we still come to this shop? Second, the owner of such a pit people, do you want him to make money? Third, do you think he will change it for us?"

The intern said angrily:

"I will definitely not come again when this shop is so pit.

The leader smiled, nodded, and said:

"That's right, since I won't come again, I know he is likely not to change.

Why should we argue for this, affect our emotions, and waste our time in vain? "Some problems can not be solved by argument. Following the dispute, it will put yourself into a huge internal consumption.

It's like there is a "tickling law":

At first I just feel a little itchy, but you will find that the more you go, the more itchy.

People with high levels never controversy, because they understand that the more they count, the more they make themselves upset.

The best way to avoid falling into the abyss is to keep yourself away from the abyss.

06

In 1895, Wilde found a poster on the door of the club he often went.

Not only did he vilify his work "vulgar", but he also accused him of pretending to be in his own way.

The person who posted a poster is the local Marquis of Kundas Belician.

Friends advise Wang Erde. No one will take the words of the Marquis of Ques Berbita seriously. As long as you ignore it, things will calm down soon.

Wang Erride smashed the poster and vowed to fight the slander to the end.

He suspended the creation of all scripts and novels, used his energy to liture with Ququli, sued him to destroy his reputation, and asked the other party to apologize in public.

The two argued fiercely in court, but the result was that Wilde failed, and was sentenced to "crime of behavior" by the court.

Before the appeal, Wilde had an enviable life, his family was prominent, his marriage was happy, and he was even more talented. He shined early in the literary world.

After losing the case, Wilde was sentenced to two years of hard work. Once the future was destroyed, his wife remarried with the child.

In life, we will inevitably encounter bad people.

Sometimes, we can't wait to grab the opponent's collar, and talk about the sword for three days and three nights.

But the wise man did not argue because he understood that even if he won the bad people, he caused a dirty.

Walking with a dog, grinning with each other, it is better to let it first.

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There are two creatures in Zhuangzi's "Xiaoyaoyou":

A kind of turtle is called underworld. It treats five hundred years as a spring and five hundred years as a fall.

A kind of tree is called Dasun. It treats 8,000 years as a spring and 8,000 years as an autumn.

If it is the underworld, Dadchun, and the cicada who died in the dusk of the dynasty, how can the cicada who died in the spring and autumn died, how can the cicada and the cicada understand?

In this world, not everyone lives in the same sea.

Different positions and different levels will never compete for right or wrong.

Like a praise, learn to do not argue, that is, the beginning of the layout.

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