The best mode of getting along with a family: communication is standard, companion is high -match, understanding is top matching

happy family,

Tolerance is more blame, and understanding is greater than accusations.

Author: Lodge Yebo

Writer Wu Danru once said:

Home is the only place to go back without a reason. It is where you feel that no matter what you look like, that is where you can accept me.

In this world, a loving family not only allows the body to be rely on, but also rests the mind.

If you want to manage your family in harmony, you will never be separated from communication, companionship and understanding.

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Communication is standard

There is such a story in the movie "Later Us".

Young Lin Jianqing made a lot of money in Beijing and bought a house in Beijing.

So he called his father to close his hometown of small restaurants and moved to a big city to enjoy blessings.

I thought my father would be very happy, but he did not expect that he said that he was accustomed to small places, and he would not adapt to a big city.

Lin Jianqing was unwilling for an instant, and he called impatiently at the phone:

"I have money now, and I can let you live in a big house. If you are blessed, you don’t know how to enjoy it. What is worth nostalgic for a breakdown restaurant?"

Hearing this, Dad Lin was very uncomfortable, and immediately returned:

"This small restaurant is for you to eat, for you, and for you to go to school. How can you be a restaurant in your eyes?"

Speaking of the two, they quarreled, and in the end, Dad Lin hung up the phone directly.

Lin Jianqing was annoyed and mourned. He wanted to express his filial piety. Who knew that when he called, not only could he not persuade his father to move, but instead made his father and son relationship stiff.

The writer Suzuki Kenji said:

Communication is the basis for establishing a good relationship, and it is a lubricant that promotes the further harmonious relationship between people.

For a family, lack of effective communication can only make the gap between each other more and more.

Hu Shi once talked about a past in the memoir.

In elementary school, in the evening of the early autumn, Hu Shi was playing at the door after eating, and only wearing a vest on his body.

When my aunt saw it, she took a piece of clothes and said, "Put it on, it's cold."

Hu Shi returned a playful words: "Mother (Liang)! Lao Tzu is not Lao Tzu!"

When the neighbors heard it, they told the mother.

It turned out that Hu Shi lost his father at the age of four. In the local area, it was taboo.

After returning home, he thought he would be scolded by a meal.

But the mother closed the door and said softly to him:

"Your father is kind and upright for a lifetime, and is respected. You must respect your father and learn from him. Don't throw his face."

After listening to this, Hu Shi lowered his head ashamed.

It was under the temptation of mother's goodness that Hu Shi read the book diligently and eventually became a literary everyone.

Psychologist Wu Zhihong said:

"The important thing is not what happened, but how the other party feels, and always remember that communication is the most important in intimate relationships."

If you make trouble and complain about it, it will only let the family fall away.

Talk well, communicate with your heart, and the smoother the expression of each other, the stronger the cohesion of a home.

When you get along with your loved ones, you can communicate more goodwill to make your family full of love and warmth.

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Companion is high -end

Psychologist Lichtenberg said:

"Humans like to accompany, even if they accompany him are just a small candle that is burning."

If a family lacks companionship and cannot meet the emotional needs of each other, they can only alienate each other and even go to stranger.

In the New Season "Talk Show Conference", the return of the actor Cheng Lu's ex -wife Siwen returned, causing heated discussions.

At the beginning, they divorced, and the reason for the reason was that they were not derailed and never had domestic violence.

In an interview, Siwen talked about the past. That year, she was sick and performed, and her father and uncle died one after another.

It was the lowest time that she hoped that someone would accompany her and talk to her.

However, during that time, Cheng Lu was busy with closed creation, and he didn't even have a call.

She can only survive all sadness alone, and another person can perform surgery.

It wasn't until the operation room was launched that Cheng Lu hurried over, and then stayed in less than 20 minutes, and hurried away.

It didn't take long for Siwen to formally file a divorce.

In the family, the most afraid of is not to meet the wind and rain, but when the wind and rain come, there is no one around you.

Only by accompanying each other and dependent of each other can family relationships more intimate and harmonious.

As in "Reader Lang", Dong Qing said:

"It is warm to accompany, it means that someone in this world is willing to give you the best things, that is time."

The road of life is bumpy, but as long as you have a family, you have the hardest armor in the world.

I have seen the story of American Justice Kingsberg and husband Martin.

After the two got married, Martin unfortunately suffered from testicular cancer when he was studying for a PhD in Harvard.

Kingsberg must take care of his young daughter, but also to complete his studies.

At that time, she only slept for one or two hours a day. Although she worked hard, she went to the hospital to talk to Martin every day.

And Martin has been accompanied and supported her.

When Kingsberg was attacked for women's rights and interests, Martin was her driver and chef, helping her to deal with her in public.

No matter how difficult they encounter, the two always face together and never give up.

For decades, they have spent countless storms and rain together, and they have finally worked together to finish their lives.

Scholar Sun Yunxuan said:

A loved one has only one fate. No matter how long I will get along with you in this life, you must cherish the time of gathering together. Because in the next life, no matter whether we think or not, we will not meet again. After get off work, hug your partner more, accompany your children on weekends, and go home on holidays to see more parents.

The so -called: family sitting idle, the lights can be kissed.

The most joyful thing in life is that there is a home that can be returned, someone is waiting, and there is a lamp to stay for you.

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Understanding is top

Someone on the Internet asked: What is the most important in a family?

Someone answered below:

It is not Jinyi and jade, nor is it rich and rich, but to understand each other.

The family is together and wants to be happy and harmonious for a long time, and it is inseparable from the patience and consideration between each other.

Understanding is the top configuration in family relations.

Knowing the blogger@知 知 Share her story.

One afternoon, the weather was gloomy, and A Shuang received a call from her husband before going out, reminding her to close the doors and windows.

A Shuang agreed, but because he was in a hurry, he forgot to close the window before leaving.

Shortly after she went out, the wind and rain were made, the electric flashes were thunderous, and the rain water passed through the window into the house.

After a while, many furniture was soaked by rain. The most terrible thing was that the computer placed under the window was also soaked.

The two returned home and saw a mess in the living room, and they were dumbfounded.

But the husband did not blame her, but whispered: "It doesn't matter, just my computer is old, it's better to change it again."

In this way, a storm was invisible.

Some people say: "The so -called good relationships are from a person's tolerance and accommodation."

The unfortunate family is always full of accusations, complaints and quarrels.

A happy family must be more tolerant than blame, and understanding is greater than accusations.

Without Lin Huijia's consideration, Li An would not be able to be a "cooking husband" for 6 years, and it was impossible to vocal and China, and it would become a big director that affects the world.

Without Yang Yan's understanding, Qian Zhongshu would not be entirely regardless of housework, and he became a literary master.

The writer Desailai said, "Tolerance and considerate, without these two things, what family is the family?"

In the family, loved ones are more important than the truth, and emotional bias are important.

Living under the same roof, there will inevitably be a stumbling trip, as small as daily conflict, as big as the collision of ideas.

But as long as you think about the other party, no matter how much contradictions are, you can also melt it like ice and snow.

To calculate less and more tolerance, a home can twist into a rope, and work together to live a good life.

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Poet Mean said: "To build a family of love, he must have the thought of love first."

Home is a place to talk about love, not a battlefield or chessboard. There is no need to compete for high, low, or defeat, nor need to be careful.

In this small world, you need to communicate and accompany them in time, and it is inseparable from mutual respect and understanding.

Only by adding bricks of each other, the family will be happy.

On the road of long life, home is the starting point of everything, and it is also our eternal shelter.

Like a praise, leave the best emotions, the most sincere sincerity, and leave it to the closest person.

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