In order to recover online dating boyfriend for help "love recovery" company, nearly 10,000 yuan online loan ...

"China Business Daily"

Recently, Ms. Su, who lives in the east of Xi'an City, called the 24-hour hotline of China Business Daily 029-88880000 for help, saying that her daughter may meet a scammer. She explained that her daughter couldn't hold money in the near future, and she couldn't hide it, and her daughter said that she had carried nearly 10,000 yuan in online loans. In order to restore online dating boyfriends, Chi Qing (pseudonym) found the "love recovery" company on the Internet. The loan paid nearly 10,000 yuan "recovery fee", but in the end, he failed to recover his boyfriend.

Falling in Love Network -Black the cold through WeChat every day

In September last year, Ms. Su's daughter Chi Qing met a post -00 boy on the Internet. She had a good chat and started online dating with the other party.

Chi Qing introduced that he would tell the other party every day to tell the other party about his insights, moods, and asking for warmth, and the other party would respond.

Drawing style mutations -the opponent's attitude from cold to pulling black

Later, she felt perfunctory and cold from the words she sent by the other party. Asked the reason, the other party only said that the work was busy. From one or two sentences, only one or two words later. Chi Qing didn't understand, "Why did the relationship suddenly fade?" Until April 3 this year, Chi Qing's WeChat was suddenly blackened by the other party.

Loan for help -Rebuilding the wonderful plan is a private photo

"I have paid for more than six months, and I am reluctant." In order to recover love, Chi Qing found a "love recovery" institution -Wuhan Qianyu Psychological Consulting Co., Ltd. The company claims to provide a monthly recovery service and charges 5,000 yuan. "I don't have that much money. I wanted to give up. The emotional teacher asked me to go online." Chi Qingxin, who was eager to reunite.

"This company signed a service agreement with me, asked me a lot of questions, and also formulated a recovery plan." Chi Qing said that the service agreement began on April 8 for a month. During this period, she was communicating with emotional teachers. Although we added WeChat according to each other's words, online dating boyfriend is still cold.

"Emotional teacher taught me to send a circle of friends, and later sent me some photos, let me learn to wear and move on the photos, and take photos to the other party." Chi Qing said, at first she really did it, I bought black silk, net socks, etc., but she couldn't do it, but she took a few photos of her legs. She asked the emotional teacher to send it to her online dating boyfriend, but it did not play a role in enhancing her feelings.

After a month expires, recovery ended in failure. "I asked what to do. The emotional teacher said that he could start with the boy and do the service again. It can be discounting this time and collect the service fee of 4,500 yuan." Chi Qing went to the online loan to 4,500 yuan to the company. She didn't know how the emotional teacher chatted with the boy. She only said that she had to do emotional guidance for the man. The specifics were unclear. The emotional teacher said that they applied for a trumpet and talked to each other on WeChat.

From May 9th to June 9th, another month, Chi Qing said that the attitude of online dating boyfriend still has not changed.

Eastern failure -Talking skills The circle of friends has not worked

On the emotional consulting service agreement provided by Chi Qing, the service content provided by the company is: providing emotional recovery consulting guidance, emotional technical consulting, emotional issues guidance; service methods are telephone, WeChat, etc. On -site consultation and guidance. The agreement indicates the service date and charging amount.

It is true that Chi Qing said that the service period is 30 days. The effects agreed in the agreement list 16 articles, and specifically marked: Any of the cases, all of which are regarded as effect nodes. The first is "Add WeChat", and in addition, there are "obvious willingness to reply to information or telephone communication", "The recovered party is willing to give Party B's emotional needs, can take the initiative to reply, attitude is no longer tough, obviously weak and good", etc. Essence

From the WeChat communication records of Emotional Teacher and Chi Qing, the reporter saw that the emotional teacher once taught her to communicate, love skills, and how to send a circle of friends to attract the man ... also saw it "be sure The news of the good "and the template for the sexy photos mentioned by Chi Qing.

On September 20, the reporter called Wuhan Qianyu Psychological Consulting Co., Ltd., and the customer service introduced that they are professional psychological counselors. As long as the customers do it according to their requirements, they must be effective. When sexy photos and exposed privacy photos are normal behaviors ", customer service said that from the perspective of psychology, it cannot be said that it is normal or abnormal. The method will communicate further with the girl after understanding the case.

The next day, Ms. Su said that the company contacted her and returned her 2500 yuan.

Wuhan regulatory authorities

Whether the company has a problem requires the parties to complain

On the afternoon of September 20, the reporter called the Houhu Market Supervision Office of Jiang'an District, Wuhan City. The staff said that the company is an emotional consulting company. Check it from their platform. In illegal business behavior, the reporter can call 12315 or 12345 complaints, and they will accept it. For the situation of Ms. Chi Qing reported by the reporter, I need to call to complain.

expert

Psychological counselors cannot violate public order and customs

Chen Fengshan, director of the Shaanxi Tianyu Marriage and Family Consulting Service Center and psychological expert, said that although there is no clear industry standards for standardization, psychological counselors must abide by professional ethics and cannot violate public order and customs. In this case, the girl's demand was love recovery. Obviously, the relationship between the two was still in the love stage. After providing a psychological guidance to the girl for the first time with psychological guidance, the psychological counseling company has asked the man in time if the man's breakup and determine the possibility of the rationality and goodness of the breakup. Essence If these jobs are not done, they will collect the girl's money first, and then start with the man to recover the work, then it violates the premise and foundation of coordinated love relationship. The professional ethics of psychological counselors also clearly emphasize that the technical means (practices) in professionalism must not bring a second harm to the visitor's psychology. In this case, there are indeed questionable places. It is hoped that the majority of psychological counselors will follow, strictly adhere to social ethics and professional ethics, maintain the reputation of the psychological industry, and allow psychological services to benefit the society.

lawyer

Psychological counseling company playing "wipe the ball"

Professor methods are suspected of illegal law

Zhao Liangshan, a senior partner and a well -known public welfare lawyer of Shaanxi Hengda Law Firm, believes that the relationship between love and marriage is subjective, uncertain and complex, and cannot be applied to formulas. Other people's suggestions can only play a reference role. between.

Based on the above characteristics of love and marriage relationship, it can be known that emotions cannot be served or obtained through others. Psychological counseling companies actually engage in business repair and emotional tricks and other businesses, and they promise to help recover marriage, recover their lovers, repair feelings, etc. It belongs to illegal operations. Because business matters have exceeded the category of psychological counseling, on the other hand, it belongs to false commitments, because the trend of emotion and the result of the result of the result are about personality and complexity. Psychological, through various routines, or suspected fraud, because the services it provides is not a quantitative service, and it is currently recognized as a service that cannot be used by money and has a personal nature. In principle, it should not be exchanged. Therefore, the service provided by the company is not the actual psychological consultation business. It belongs to the "wipe ball" of the law, and the methods taught, such as erotic video photos, or suspected illegal.

Zhao Shan Shan said that the above situation is due to the low threshold of the emotional industry, the insufficient control of the control, and the large profit. It is recommended that industry control, legislative control, and entry threshold control.

Unveiled: After reading these "recovery routines"

Do you still pay?

The general consultation period of emotional recovery company is 30 days

The routine is probably:

Interrupt connection

Self -improvement

Circle of friends

Secondary attraction

In addition, you will learn a bunch of electronic documents and books:

Increase emotional intelligence

Attract the opposite sex

Operating feelings

Do homework every day

remind

In case of emotional institution fraud

Should you save it?

It is recommended to collect the following evidence may be recovered

1. Signed emotional recovery service contract or agreement

2. Chatting records with analysts and emotional mentors

3. Transfer record of emotional agencies or teachers

It's hard to don't love when you fall in love with each other

Too persistent in the past and abandon the present

It will only leave the opportunity to others

I can never change it with a routine

Let go

Maybe you will meet another kind of perfection

China Business Daily reporter Liu Lichun Miao Qiaoyingwen/Picture Manga Zhang Yongwen

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