There is a child who grows up under parent -child relationship.

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We believe that a child's native family has a huge impact on the development of their physical and mental and behavior, and psychologists have also carried out relevant proof.

I think that children are selfish, inferior, or self -confidence. In fact, they have a great relationship with their parents, and the degree of interest in the future is actually closely related to the education level of childhood.

Psychologist Ban Dura once conducted a related investigation and put forward a point of view that children's behavior regulation and behavior judgment was actually promoted by their social experience. They are all their native families, the most important thing is their parents.

Especially their specific scenes are what we call the family environment. In fact, the impact on them is very great. Children, whether they grow up or not, in this world, the closest relationship with him will always be him family.

The family is the most scenario environment in the process of growing up. This scene environment has the influence of children's ears. His behavior, deeds and character are deeply affected.

Therefore, the influence of parents as the most important member of family relations is also very important and profound on their children.

If some families cannot handle the relationship between parents and children, the children raised will have some deviations.

Li Meijin, a well-known psychologist and professor, also put forward a point in her lecture. Before the age of six, it was actually a critical period for children's personality development, and a person in his life 80%-90%of the personality Features, his lifestyle, thinking concepts, behavior performance, aspirations and ideals are actually formed before the age of six.

And with the opening of the second child and three -child policy today, children who are already fragile and sensitive will face more bad emotional perceptions, such as anger, fragility, loneliness, and jealousy. These incorrect emotions will affect its later period. If the way of thinking and the change of behavior, if the correct guidance and resolution cannot be performed, it will affect the healthy growth of the child in the future.

And most of this personality formation comes from the parent -child relationship of its native family. Learning to know and manage children's emotions and their emotions is also a very important course in the process of growing up with children.

When many adults cultivate their children, they think that emotions are only a product of the adult world, but they only appear in the minds of adults. How can children have emotions?

There is a kind of child who grew up under parent -child relationship. It is difficult to have a great interest in the future, and parents must pay attention.

Psychologist Daniel Gorman once wrote an article to remind Chinese parents: Although when cultivating children, they must be good at urging their children's emotional health and asking him to do a good job in daily work and test. However, it is easy to ignore the planning of children in their own life and create their ability to create their lives.

They will force their children to converge their emotions, but they do not require themselves to control their emotions. When suppressing the child's emotions and not allowing them to not show it, it is actually suppressing its natural cooperation and the development of human nature, because.

The six -year -old is a critical period for children's emotional development. When the child's emotions have just ignited, they cannot get correctly. Often it was too late when he really broke out.

However, the true heart of a child is actually not just shown from his behavior. Therefore, parents must know how to let their children know that everything has a certain bottom line, with certain principles. While obeying their own thoughts, they should also pay attention to their words and deeds.

Knowing that your behavior should be in line with certain rules, and it will not bring trouble for anyone to belong to them, and you must know not to touch things outside the bottom line.

When the child has their own space, let them follow their thoughts as they want, and show their personality charm to be able to suppress their nature without suppressing their nature.

Do not give children the ability to express emotions, and do not give children room for their own life.

The growth and talent of each child requires children and parents to work together. Therefore, what parents have to do are also understanding themselves, respecting them, and becoming an emotional coach around them.

However, it is not blindly ignoring and stopping them, guiding them to accept their emotions, strong inner hearts, and knowing this world more openly, in order to have a more complete life, and when they grow up, they can be more prosperous.

If you want to cultivate a child who is positive and has his own talents in the future, you must understand the development psychology behind children, and understand the deep causes of their emotions and behaviors in order to formally respect them, respect them, and even guide them.

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