Do not buy "regret medicine", do not take the "back road"

Some people say that the medicine that cannot be bought in the world is "regret", and the way to go is "back."

When everyone regrets it, some people keep looking back in the indulgence and regrets; but some people are brave up after getting rid of the regrets and lived successfully.

Such a huge difference is that some people can face the problem, know how to turn it, and know that everything should be seen forward.

Always holding the past, instead of solving the problem, it has increased troubles.

Ken face, solve all problems

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Writer Kanegiki said in "The Weakness of Humanity": "Happiness does not depend on the external environment, it is determined by our mentality."

Since the environment and facts cannot change, change attitude and thinking.

I have read a story.

Mary is a novice salesman. At first, she was very uncomfortable. She sold sewing machines to the fishmongers. Before he mentioned it, he was driven away by the fishmongers impatiently.

Seeing the lively person next to him thought that Mary would not come here to sell again.

Unexpectedly, the next day, Mary sorted out her mood and came here again, and joked with the people who drove her.

In this way, Mary never gave up easily, but faced the problem, solved the problem, did not hesitate to move forward, and continued to win the affirmation of consumers, and became the champion of sales for many years.

The book "Autumn" said: "There is nothing to go, only the mood of not going to go."

People, we must know how to clean up themselves in time. "Yesterday" is no longer, why not let it leave safely? "Today" is in front of you, as long as you grasp it, you can create miracles.

The hit drama "The Battle of Rose", Zhong Youwei was derailed in the marriage. On the way to signing a divorce agreement, he unfortunately encountered a car accident and unconscious, facing the situation of becoming a vegetative in the second half of his life.

His wife Jiang Lan was silent. She remembered the cherishment of the two when the two started their business. She remembered the 25 -year -old murmore, and could not bear Zhong Youwei to face doom alone, and chose to forgive.

She takes care of Zhong Youwei's heavy responsibility, and set up a fund in the name of Zhong Youwei to help others.

Jiang Lan, while choosing to let go, is also saying goodbye to the misfortune of the past. Her husband who has no ability to take care of himself. Although it is very hard, his heart is frank.

Since it is not good to have arrived, it is not helpful to complain about self -reliance, and it will add a lot of troubles.

It is better to face the ups and downs in life, and bravely chase the beauty of tomorrow.

Only when people have the ability to face face -to -face, can they "look at the amount of wind and look at it." Perhaps the surprise is only for a while.

Can turn it over and let go of the regretful self

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Dr. Wang An, a celebrity in the science and technology industry, recalled one thing he was when he was a child:

At the age of 6, he played outside and found a bird's nest fell on the ground, lying next to a little sparrow.

Wang An rose to the little sparrow, and wanted to take it home to feed, and worried that his mother would not allow it. So he put the bird's nest in front of the house and went to the room to discuss with his mother.

After obtaining his mother's consent, Wang Anxing ran back to the door, but he did not see the trace of the little sparrow. Only a empty bird's nest was left on the ground, and a cat with a happy licking his mouth.

Wang An was very annoyed. It was his hesitation that gave the cat a chance.

Therefore, Wang An was unwilling to contact small animals for a long time.

Later, under the consolation of his parents, he wanted to understand that staying in the past, could not solve any problems, and learned lessons was what he should do.

Since then, Wang An no longer tangled and hesitated, and he went to do it immediately when he thought about it. With decades of hard work, he created extraordinary performance in the field of science and technology, and also won a piece of flowers and applause.

The author of "Broken Li" Yamashita once said, "Knowing yourself, letting go of his past, you can use his potential."

When you encounter unsatisfactory things, whether you look back, annoyed and regret, or strode forward, firm and persistent, you will have a ending.

Look forward, open the key to the new life

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Shakespeare said in "Storm": "Look forward, don't look back, as long as you face the courage to face, you will find that the haze at this moment is just a short rainy season. Looking forward, there is a bright sky, no, no, no It will make people feel embarrassed. "

Life is to look forward and turn over the dangerous peaks to see different scenery, so as to reach the other side of victory earlier.

Former South African President Mandela was prison for 30 years and was insulted.

Later, he became a president in prison. In a speech, he specifically invited the three prison guards who had tortured him all kinds of prison guards and thanked them.

Mandela said: "When I walked out of the prison door to a free prison, I had clearly knew that if I couldn't leave my grief and resentment behind, then I was still in prison."

Looking forward is the kindness of others, and tolerance for yourself.

Mandela completely bid farewell to the past humiliation, opened a new life and led the South African people to create new glory.

History cannot be rewritten. Only those who know how to look forward will be favored by life. The pages that have been launched in the early spring are not fast. In autumn, they will gain the answer.

Some people think that persistence will make us strong. In fact, "letting go" is also the background of our new life.

After turning over the old days and starting a new life, we are farewell to the past and closer to the better future.

Haruki Murakami said: "Don't worry about the present, don't have to tangled the future, life has no useless experience, so we keep going, and the sky will be bright." When you no longer turn around, you will find that in the distance, you can pass through the distance.A beam of light in the clouds shines warmly, as long as you look forward bravely, you will be able to find a new vitality.

If you are willing to face, look forward, and look forward, you can dig your own unlimited potential and live a booming life.

Introduction to the author: Jinqing Luo, willing to wash the lead, and the return is still a teenager.

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