After retirement, happiness is given by myself

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Rather than looking forward to others, it is better to expect yourself.

After retirement, many people are at a loss in the face of a lot of leisure time. In order to reflect his sense of existence and value, he "governed the family" without hesitation:

Someone runs to bring children to children, from daily work, food, and educational philosophy. As a result, it is necessary to follow themselves.

Someone went to participate in various activities and was used to being a "commander". Once they felt cold and ignored, they exhaled, and even "lost their temper" in public, making people far away.

These "outward" behaviors are expected to be satisfied with "being needed and affirmed" through the affirmation of others.

But everyone is carrying heavy pressure of survival, and not so many people can always take care of your emotions and meet your needs. Even, it will feel a constraint and a negative.

At this time, the most important thing is to overcome your "partiality", learn to find the cause from yourself, and constantly seek "answers" inward. exist

Like "University", I wrote:

The so -called Qi Qi's family is cultivating his body, the dear of the man's dear, the evil and the evil, and the awe of what they are, and the lameness of the lameness, the lack of the lazy And open up. Therefore, it is good to know its evil, and the beauty is the beauty of the world, the world is fresh!

This means that the reason why the man who manages the family and the family must first cultivate themselves because people have preference for their dear people, and they will hate them for those who they hate. Those who despise will be biased. Therefore, few people can love someone to see the shortcomings of that person, and hate that someone has the advantages of seeing that person.

After retiring, pay attention to "self -cultivation", transform the expectations of others into the expectations of yourself, so that you can tolerate others while tolerate others.

02

Instead of being so high, it is better to enjoy the present.

People often say: Contents. This satisfaction is not only the satisfaction of material conditions, but also a spiritual satisfaction.

Contentive people always feel that they receive the gift of fate; those who are inspiring, even if they keep Jinshan Yinshan, are eliminated their necks and look at more.

For example, there is a very common phenomenon around us:

Some people have five or six thousand pensions, but they complain that they have less performance salary than when they go to work.

What is very different is that in the countryside, someone holds a pension of one or two hundred yuan, and everyone said, "I also get the pension." The joy of laughing and laughing makes people feel that happiness is simple.

After retirement, whether it is a city or a rural person, the time, opportunities, physical strength, and brain power of earning income through labor are not as good as before. The reduction of income is inevitable. The decision of the economic law firm that cannot be worked should be accepted frankly.

As long as there is income, more money is spent more, and the amount of money is saved and the peaceful mentality will make every ordinary day write the poetic meaning of life.

Like the movie "Hidden Dust Smoke", Guiying accidentally pulled out the wheat seedlings, turned his head to look at the iron, laughed, and said calmly, "Who has the life of people? It also has its life. It is not that the sickle is cut off in the summer. "

After retiring, if you want to get happiness, you must learn, do not compare, not good at high, and you can enjoy what you give.

When you are "enjoying the destiny", all prosperity and loneliness cannot be controlled by your own happiness.

03

Instead of doing nothing, it is better to find a "meaningful" way of living.

After retirement, people always miss those days to work. Although they are tired and bitter, whenever they have completed a task, they break through a certain problem and get a lot of compensation. The sense of accomplishment is the source of happiness. Essence

After retirement, I no longer work. Although I have no troubles, I also lose happiness. "Pausable" is the shadow of many people lingering.

Happiness is actually not doing nothing. Just three meals a day, eat enough, and boring. Happiness is more reflected in "What else can I do."

After the Northern Song Dynasty prime minister Wang Anshi experienced two appearances, he took the initiative to choose to retire, and repeatedly rejected Song Shenzong's kindness that he hoped to go back to be an official. He lived in Jiangning and built a few houses for himself. Weng lives like.

He has a hobby, to ride a donkey to wander, and the figure is located between the fields, temples, and pine forests, like the legendary Zhang Guo Lao.

When I met the old men talking about poetry and the scriptures, he also went forward to listen and participated in the discussion. He was often asked about the name of his surname because of "high opinion". When he had to report to his house, everyone was shocked. Unexpectedly, he still didn't have the slightest. Just as an ordinary person, he seemed to have nothing to do with him.

In fact, after retirement, there must be this courage to "clear zero".

Good guys do not mention the courage of that year, let it turn it over in the past. Retirement is a new starting point in life, don't live up to this most beautiful time.

04

End words:

People often use "the sunset is infinitely good, but just near dusk" to sigh that the time of life is easy to pass, and feel that it is like the beauty of "a flash of flowers". It has been dissipated before caught, and always has regrets and regrets.

In fact, the life after retirement is really doing your own good time. Finally, do not live for your children, do not live for work, but also need to look at others' faces.In the long years of the coming day, you can find the meaning of your life, practice your dreams that have not been realized in the early years, and find the poems and distant places you yearn for. How happy this life is!

Author: Rufeng is light and cloudy.

Your happiness, my blessing.

The picture comes from the Internet.

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