Help my son to bring the child, the daughter -in -law is in trouble, my mother -in -law is angry: I have a pension, I don’t make money and nanny

■ Author: Uncle Nanshan

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01, the first saying.

It is said that the relationship between mother -in -law and mother -in -law is the most difficult relationship in the world. The relationship between mother -in -law and daughter -in -law is easy to develop, and the relationship between mother -in -law is not good. Live in a family in the same family. With a common belonging, naturally, they have common economic benefits, and both sides naturally hope that the family is prosperous. This is the consistent side of the mother -in -law. However, at the same time, there are often differences in the management of family affairs and the right to control, contradictions, and even fighting.

There is a tradition of "male governance and female governance" in our families. My mother -in -law has been a family who has been a family for decades and gave power to her daughter -in -law. The daughter -in -law sang the protagonist in family affairs. The conversion of this role is often not easy to adapt. Even if the mother -in -law and daughter -in -law are working together, due to their different status, the angle of the problem is different and the need for different needs, which is easy to cause differences. However, it is very important to keep a bowl of soup in the relationship between mother -in -law and mother -in -law. Otherwise, once one party is too excessive, it is easy to break out the relationship between mother -in -law and mother -in -law, which will imbalance the family, and some husband and wife relationship falls into a deadlock.

02, after Ma Chunhua retired, he lived a leisurely cloud -like life in the countryside.

Ma Chunhua is a retired teacher. After retirement, she also has more than 6,000 pensions per month. Such salary may not be very high in the city, but when she returns to her hometown, she can live a good life. Ma Chunhua and his wife left the old house in the city to their son, and then returned to the secluded hometown.

Every day, the couple go to their own self -retained land to grow vegetables, and they are too busy. When I was idle, I read a book to see the newspaper and drink tea. Ma Chunhua and his wife have a common hobby, just like drinking some wine. They like to stir -fry tiger pepper, then warm a pot of old wine, and make life like a cloud -like crane, which makes the people around them envious.

03, the son married his wife, and the daughter -in -law gave Ma Chun a beautiful granddaughter.

However, such a happy life can't live long. Three years later, the son married a wife, and the daughter -in -law gave Ma Chun a beautiful granddaughter, and Ma Chunhua's happy day ended. The son and daughter -in -law work in a private company, and the attendance is strict, and the salary of the couple will not be very high. The daughter -in -law Azhu usually spends a lot of money. Each month also supplements some money for his son, but these money is not enough to change the status quo.

When the child was born, the son -in -law and daughter -in -law called Ma Chunhua to come to the city to help bring the child. To be honest, Ma Chunhua was unwilling to leave his wife and leave this secluded countryside. However, helping his son with children can also be regarded as parents' duty. For the sake of his son and daughter -in -law, he can only be aggrieved temporarily. So Ma Chunhua took his luggage and returned to the city again to help his son bring the child.

04, in order to take care of the children, Ma Chunhua came from the countryside to help bring children from the countryside.

Ma Chunhua's granddaughter, Xiao Cai Jujube, is very cute. Although Ma Chunhua takes care of her children a little tired, she also has a lot of happiness. Especially when watching the child grows up slowly, it is getting more and more cute. Ma Chunhua looks at his heart. However, although the child is naive and cute, Ma Chunhua feels that he is a bit uncomfortable. Because in addition to taking care of the children every day, I have to get up early to go to the supermarket to buy food. At night, my son and daughter -in -law go home. It is really hard to cook for cooking and cooking.

What disappointed Ma Chunhua was that his son and daughter -in -law basically did not help. In addition to helping to hug the child, the housework was actually not helping at all. After Ma Chunhua came to the house to help take care of the Xiaoza jujube, they completely relaxed and lived a day to open their mouths every day. The son -in -law and daughter -in -law came home from get off work, either swiping their mobile phones or watching TV. Sometimes they called friends and friends to go out to eat, drink and play, and finished their children to Ma Chunhua.

05, Ma Chunhua said a few words, and his daughter -in -law began to be dissatisfied with Ma Chunhua.

However, what makes Ma Chunhua even more disappointed is that most of the family spends every month, and most of them are from Ma Chun. In this way, Ma Chunhua not only takes care of the children, but also pays about 5,000 yuan a month, and the rest of the money is not much. His wife did not work, and naturally there was no money. Ma Chunhua thought of his wife in the countryside, and then thought about the current bitter days, and felt very aggrieved.

Even if Ma Chunhua paid so much for the family, she could not get her son and daughter -in -law. In normal life, daughter -in -law often calls Ma Chunhua, and is dissatisfied with Ma Chunhua. Sometimes it even refers to Sang Huai. Once Ma Chunhua returned to the country, three days later, he returned to the city. She found that no one was washed in the tableware at home, and the clothes in the washing machine had been pushed together.

06, a child caught a cold, his daughter -in -law yelled at Ma Chunhua.

Once Xiao Mian Ju got flu, Ma Chunhua quickly took the child to see a doctor. However, the child's illness has not improved for a few days, which makes his daughter -in -law Azhu very angry. She accused Ma Chunhua who cares about the child, and only do one thing every day, that is, to take care of the child, and even let the child flu.

Ma Chunhua felt very aggrieved. She retorted: "This season, children's influenza is also a common disease. You can't always blame me?" In this way, the daughter -in -law was even more angry: "You can't hear the old antique, husband, husband, husband, husband, husband, husband, husband, husband, husband, husband, husband, husband, husband, husband, husband, husband, husband, husband, husband, husband, husband I feel that let your mother go home, let's ask a nanny to take care of the child. "Azhu said anger, but this kind of anger disappointed Ma Chunhua. 07, Ma Chunhua was completely angry: I have retirement, and I want to return to the countryside.

I saw Ma Chunhua "slap" and shot the table: "Okay! You let me go home, I will go back to the countryside! I will help take care of the children every month, and I will post 5,000 yuan to prepare your home! I am not satisfied, what do I do? I have a pension, I do n’t want to post money, I want to return to the country! This home, I wo n’t stay! ”After that, Ma Chunhua returned to the room and sorted out his luggage. , Strode out of the home of his son and daughter -in -law. This time, it was his son and daughter -in -law completely stunned.

08, end.

Friends, Ma Chunhua came to the city to help his son and daughter -in -law take children, and his daughter -in -law also made it difficult. Do you say that such a daughter -in -law is too much? In the end, Ma Chunhua decided to return to the countryside and stopped bringing children to her son. She had to live in the countryside with her pension and her wife. Is she a bit selfish? Which one do you think Ma Chunhua and daughter -in -law are right? In real life, how can we better deal with the relationship between mother -in -law and mother -in -law?

Friends, in fact, I think, to deal with the relationship between mother -in -law and mother -in -law, it is to do two points: First, it is enough to stand on the economy, and there is too much dependence on the mother -in -law or son and daughter -in -law. Obligations, let alone should be regarded as a good thing. It is a good thing to help your mother -in -law. You ca n’t help your son and daughter -in -law. Third, once the relationship between mother -in -law and mother -in -law has contradictions, try to keep the distance as much as possible to avoid further deterioration of things. Everyone said, is this that? Welcome everyone to leave a message in the comment area. Thank you all.

[About the author]: Uncle Nanshan, focusing on original emotional stories, folk stories, and emotional beauty writing, published 6 emotional, beautiful texts, storytelling books. The original self -media platforms created the authors of V, and the major platforms accumulated a total of millions of fan authors. Uncle Nanshan aims to give you more positive little stories through simple text, tell you some truthful truths, and realize some beautiful little luck in life.

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