As long as it is a activity that affects learning, you will not let your children participate: Are you such a parent?

I saw a post on the Internet today, which caused many people to discuss.

A mother said that her son went to junior high school, but it was when he was nervous, but his son wanted to participate in track and field competitions. He needed to train in advance in advance, and he needed a training fee of 2,000 yuan.

The son went home and asked his mother for money, and the mother denied him without saying a word. The reason was very simple. They were all in the second year. How can there be time to participate in track and field competitions, which will affect learning.

After his son was rejected, he was particularly unhappy. He was unwilling to talk to his mother for a few days, and his learning was a bit not positive. Mom was doubtful, did you do something wrong? Shouldn't it be more important at this time? It ’s for him to do this, why do n’t he appreciate it?

So my mother asked the opinions of netizens online if she really did wrong.

Unexpectedly, most netizens are supporting children, and some even say that if their children like sports so much, they must wake up with dreams.

Yes, it is a good thing for children to like sports. If it is me, I must support it.

Exercise can release children's emotions

Famous brain scientist Hong Lan said

Sports, reading, and games are the best ways to activate the child's brain.

Children have a lot of exercise since childhood. They can not only exercise their bodies, have a strong physique, but also cultivate a spirit of sports. In the face of frustration, they can withstand it. Moreover, most of them need to cooperate with many people, often participate in sports, and also Can cultivate children's spirit of cooperation.

In adolescence, exercise has another special benefit to children, that is, to release the child's inner bad emotions. Because adolescent children are affected by hormones, many bad emotions cannot be released, and exercise is a good release channel.

Many college entrance examination champions will say when sharing their successful experience, even when the third year of high school is busiest, they will insist on exercising for an hour every day. What a strong physique brings to children is better learning.

Parents are worried about this affecting learning, that affecting learning, but not worried about emotions, it will affect learning

There are always parents who say that it will not allow children to do this and that will affect learning. Therefore, playing with mobile phones will affect learning, reading extra -curricular books, affecting learning, not allowing exercise, and also affecting learning.

In fact, even if you deprive him of the time of playing with his mobile phone, the time of reading extra -curricular books, and the time of exercise, he will not invest in a intense study immediately.

People are prohibited. The so -called, the more seductive the more prohibited is. The more you do n’t let your child play with your mobile phone, the more attractive your mobile phone will be on him. His energy is used to confront you. How can you learn to learn?

Many people actually experience that when people have no mood, they have no effort to do anything. Our adults are in a bad mood and don't want to go to work. The child is not in a mood and does not like to learn. Therefore, parents think that the child's favorite thing, he will like to learn and use time to learn, it is really naive.

Hobbies are sugar in children's lives. If you can support it, support it.

Rare children have a favorite thing to do. Parents can support it as much as possible. Compared to those children who have no hobbies, such children are really good.

Children in junior high schools are very stressed in their academic stress, and their hobbies are a little sugar in their gray life, so that the days are not too bitter.

Therefore, if parents have the ability and conditions, they try to support their children. Don't always think of letting children learn. The child is already tired, and learning is not the only value. It can run the track and field, and the child is still excellent.

Learning has never been learning books. Many aspects are learning, observation is learning, thinking is learning, and exercise is also learning. If parents can look at learning in a larger pattern, the motivation of children in learning will be more enough.

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