For 10 years, because of a circle of friends, I decided to divorce ...

Some time ago, I brushed a lot of posts on the Internet.

In the comment area, some people sympathize, some comfort, and some people share the same experience.

A few of them are particularly conspicuous: "Pick up the husband and die."

I thought it was a joke, but I found that many people had similar ideas.

Some people bluntly said: "Envy those husband's death."

Some people even said, "I hope to use my husband to change the health and peace of others."

At first glance, it was a joke, and it was sad.

Behind these texts is not really cursing her husband, more discouraged to the other half.

There is almost a story behind each message.

Some were domestic violence by husband, some were debt without work, and some were scolded by her husband when they were confinement ...

I once thought that marriage was a shelter, but after marriage, it was more violent.

The marriage itself is terrible, and the terrible thing is that they are not married.

Originally the life of two people, but the result became a "widowed marriage", and a person was supported by a person.

There is a debate in "The Story of Qi Qi", regarding whether to be a single mother.

The debate said a paragraph:

"Some people say that once they are single mothers, they must worry about whether the child will fall or make mistakes regardless of day or night.

"But please think about it, will this situation change when Dad is there? No.

"Do you think that if you have a marriage, will you not become a single mother?"

Photo source: "Qi Qi Shuo"

Seeing blood, it tells the true heart of many women in marriage.

In 2017, "Southern Weekend" jointly released a "Family Parent -Child Companion White Paper" with many institutions.

According to the survey, 55.8%of families have mothers who accompany their children daily, and only 12.6%of the families with a lot of companionship.

My father accompanied his child for 2.9 hours on his working day, 7.7 hours on the weekend, far lower than the mother's 4.6 hours and 10.9 hours.

The rational data falls into a specific marriage life, which has become aggrieved and depressed.

With a child, the mother was trapped in the identity of "mother" and was greatly modified. Dad was invisible from the role of "father", often absent, and even furnishings.

When her husband was not at home, she was busy with her; when the husband was at home, he took the baby to do housework.

When I go home from get off work, my husband is either playing with mobile phones or short videos or playing games on the sofa.

My friend said that his body was uncomfortable and asked the husband to hold the child, but the husband said that he waited for this game.

The child touched and fell, and the husband blamed that she didn't look at the child, and then continued to watch the phone.

Only when the child was happy, the husband was teased for a while, and when the child was urinating, he cried, and he hid away instantly.

Now the child is 5 years old, and the husband said the most every day: find your mother.

Do not take the initiative to take the child out to play, participate in the child's school activities, and whether the child's learning.

This is indeed the same.

Dad is invisible, and the mother is forced to be a superman who is three -headed and six arms.

Those hidden collapse, helplessness, have nowhere to talk, can only comfort themselves "forget".

However, in the late -night meeting that was hard to sleep, I couldn't help asking:

In such a life, I do n’t know when it is a head, how long can I support it?

The "widowed marriage" brings loneliness and sadness that no one relies.

Some husbands may also bring countless storms to marriage.

Not long ago, I saw a news.

A full -time mother in Guangdong, her husband is an executive of the company, and gives her 8,000 yuan a month.

Children's big things, family affairs, and family affairs are basically mothers.

Later, her husband was found to have cancer. After a few months of hospitalization, the treatment died invalid.

The wife went to check the bank flow, and learned that her husband had rewarded more than 6 million anchors on the live broadcast platform.

In order to treat her husband, she not only sold two houses, but also owed nearly 500,000 debts.

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His wife has been full -time for many years and has taken care of a child at home, but her husband rewarded millions to the female anchor.

Blessings, not enjoyed; misfortunes, bearing alone.

It is said that marriage is a gambling. The gambling is right for a lifetime.

I thought that marriage was supported by two people, but I did not expect to bring the deepest harm to themselves.

Remember the 32 -year -old second -born mother?

In her mobile memorandum, the bitterness of the marriage was exhausted.

Her husband not only would not take the initiative to care about her, but also often blame ridicule, saying that she was "sick" every day.

She said sadly:

"You are my husband, but you are not even as good as a stranger. I just want to be so" thrown "to care."

If you want to care, you are uncomfortable, and your body is uncomfortable and is selectively ignored.

In the chat history, she told her husband many times that her heart was uncomfortable and breathless.

However, something outside of her husband had something to do, and the wife was ignored and perfunctory.

In the end, the second mother bid farewell to the disappointment of marriage.

Some netizens commented that "killing" her husband's indifference.

Whenever her husband understands his wife a little more and cares more, it may not be the end of tragedy.

Many women, with the infinite longing for marriage to form a family, eventually disappointed, the heart was cold, and love disappeared.

There is a line in the movie "The Great Father in the World":

"I thought the worst thing in the world was loneliness." Actually not, the worst thing is to grow old with those who make you feel lonely. "

When I was young, I thought that marriage was the end of loneliness, and I did not know that it might be the beginning of loneliness.

The giving is not seen, the emotions are not understood, and no one can tell the heart. Only by using the Internet can we be resolved.

In the comments of "Picking on my husband", the most touched me is this reply:

"Is there time? Talking together, I'm about to be depressed."

Inner grievances can only talk and ask strangers.

The husband didn't care, the family didn't understand, they became the most lonely person in marriage.

Therefore, there will be so many mothers to chat in the early morning.

There was once a news that caused heated discussions.

A 61 -year -old aunt in Jiangxi was exposed to fall in love with "Jin Dong".

Not only that, she also proposed to divorce her husband to leave home for love.

The so -called "Jin Dong" is just a scammer on the Internet. It can be seen at a glance.

For this reason, the aunt was ridiculed by the entire network and laughed at her chasing the stars and chasing crazy.

She was not not awake, but the scammer gave her care that she had never got.

She has never experienced love in her life, and she has just lived with her husband, and quarreling is daily.

The sweetness given by outsiders is enough to make her feel satisfied.

Why don't those women who have not received the other half in marriage?

They paid for their families, and they had no choice but to be heard.

As mothers and wives, they have been required, expected, and restricted, but they have not been loved.

The indifference of the two people is more hurt than a person's loneliness.

There is a topic that once brushed the screen: which one is even more terrible to marry the wrong person and single for a lifetime?

In the reply, most people's answers are: Marry the wrong person.

Marrying the wrong person may face the abyss of Wanzhang and experience pain and torture.

Some people even said, "If there is a lifetime, the probability will not get married."

Why is there no derailment or domestic violence, why is it disappointed with marriage?

Because of the disappointment accumulated for a long time.

Obviously it is the two people's home, but it is the fatigue of one person who takes up all responsibilities;

Obviously marriage is a shelter, but it is a chill that can be hid in the wind and rain in the city;

Obviously under the same roof, there is nothing to say and have nowhere to talk about.

The disappointment turned into despair, and he didn't want to look at him in the same room, and even wanted him to disappear.

The dear and the sparse are husband and wife, which is regrettable.

Some readers have shared in the message area.

He said that he had been out of get off work, and suddenly remembered that he had no toilet paper at home, so he bought it twice.

Unexpectedly, his wife was crying happily after returning home, which surprised him.

In the eyes of his wife, even if the husband has a little bit of snacks on the family, he can cure all her hardships and fatigue.

Unfortunately, this trace of sweetness has never received it.

But it doesn't matter. If the marriage fails to become a shelter, then love yourself more.

If you are disappointed enough, you can still choose to believe in hope and start again.

Pay attention to [Reader], may your marriage happy and happy, and you can also be your own windshield.

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