I scolded 20 nanny for half a year, and the elderly dilemma of the elderly Beijing was regretful?

I scolded 20 nanny for half a year, and the elderly in Beijing's pension dilemma is sighing

Have you regret it alone?

01

Some time ago, I saw such a news on the Internet

An uncle in Beijing is very old, and both husband and wife are still in a bad health and paralyzed at home all year round.

So the only daughter Jessi can only ask the nanny to take care of them

But physical discomfort, expensive nanny fees, but the elderly are very painful and uncomfortable

So this uncle often speaks to the nanny

As a result, in just half a year, I changed more than 20 nanny, and no one was willing to stay.

The uncle's wife also washed her face with tears every day

The old life of the old couple is miserable

Many people may say, her daughter will not take care of herself,

But my daughter also has her own life

There are children and families. Besides, the elderly are sick

If your daughter does not work to take care of the elderly with a full time

Then the life of this family can only be even more difficult

So this only daughter named Jessie can only run the hospital every day, and the unit is running on both ends of the unit.

But what can I do?

Her parents only have one daughter, she can only support it, work while working

Take care of the two sick elderly people while running in

And the family like Jessie, a family of children, is really not a few in China.

Once they were held by their parents in their hands, they grew up

Now parents are getting older

They can only grit their teeth and struggle with their parents

The pension dilemma of this batch

Do they regret it?

Today we will explore the truth of these families together

I also hope that parents and children will be inspired and helpful.

02

When it comes to children of the only family, many people are full of envy

Because in most impressions

These children can be described as one of thousands of pets from childhood

Whether it is parents or elders at home

It is the ultimate pet and pay for them

But in fact, on the other side

These children have also suffered a lot of pressure since childhood

The expectations of parents, the loneliness of growth, these are all problems they want to face and solve

The most terrible thing is

When they are not ready to grow up

Suddenly wrapped in the torrent of time

Facing the aging of parents, the responsibility of the elderly

At this time, for these children who have been loved since childhood

It's a great challenge

Just like a only mother posting and saying

"Obviously I feel that I am still a child, but in the blink of an eye, my parents are already old."

According to this mother

She has been loved by her parents since she was a child, so that she has been fantasizing about it before she got married

Even if you are married, you are a little princess who is a parent.

After all, she and her husband are both only children.

But just before she was about to have a baby

Parents are both ill, a hypertension, a high blood sugar, can only live in the ward

Don't talk about helping her see the child

They still need her to take care

What's even more unfortunate, the mother -in -law also has high blood pressure, and the father's body is not good

So until she gave birth to the baby, the elderly on both sides had no way to help her bring her baby

In the end, after the symptoms were slightly relieved, the mother -in -law of high blood pressure began to help her bring her baby.

How many only children have been used to the favor of parents from an early age

I always think that parents are omnipotent, but in fact, aging is always faster than they think

Even if you don't pay attention, your parents leave themselves

Like a big sister I know, this year is 40 years old

Listening to her, what she is most afraid is to hear the people around

"That Aunt XX heard that she was sick yesterday. Her daughter was still abroad and couldn't get back at all."

"Who's dad has a heart disease, and my mother is hospitalized in bed, it's really difficult"

Yes, people are middle -aged

The most afraid is that parents are sick

For only children, this is often more horrible

03

A netizen had calculated a account

She has a room and a car with her husband, and the elderly in the family are also very healthy

Husband and wife's monthly income is more than 10,000

But this netizen said that he was actually very tight

Because the house is bought by a loan, more than 3,000 loans per month

Coupled with other costs of 07 or eight shatters, it is almost 5,900 yuan if you don't eat it every month.

If you add the family's food and wear

Then their consumption a month is at least 17,000, so it seems that she and her husband make a lot of money

But there is almost no savings after a month

So she can't imagine that her family is sick at all

For most Chinese families, income is often not as much as they

Some families may even have a monthly income of only a few thousand yuan

So for these families

Once you encounter the illness of the elderly, especially when you are sick in bed for a long time

The consequences are really conceivable

Coupled with many middle -aged people, not only the responsibility of pension

And the responsibility of raising children

There are old and small, for middle -aged people, many times they really tighten their pants and belts.

Especially in the current social environment

Don't say anything else, just talk about raising children

From small to big, I am afraid that there are no hundreds of thousands of thousand

If the income is high, it is better

For many ordinary people at the bottom, it is really difficult to add

I have seen an interview with a migrant worker who entered the city

According to this person

He picks up a project, and the money made per square meter is less than one dollar without receiving the project.

So he wants to buy a car

Also worry that you can't afford oil money

So, for ordinary families

If you are a only child, it ’s time to get old and old

It really can't stand any wind and rain at all

04

In addition, for people nowadays

Sometimes, other issues are often more scary than money

Even more worrying

Just in August this year

An old man living in a nursing home because he asked the staff for mosquito coils

The nose that was directly beaten was swollen

It's really sad

Coincidentally, another old man who asked the caregiver at home was also stolen by the caregiver.

Can't help but sigh

The heart now is really bad

At the same time, people can't help ask themselves

"If these elderly people are our parents, what should we do?"

Modern people feel that there is no money to live

Going to the nursing home, the caregiver is professional

The environment is good, you can also accompany other elderly people

Maybe there is a dusk love

Don't mention how beautiful

But the fact is that the nursing home is also divided into grades

Not to mention that you can’t afford to live in a good nursing home

Even if you can afford it

Nursing workers are worse than their biological children.

For the elderly

They also prefer to live with their children

This is like this. Although the kindergarten teachers were more professional when I was a kid

But children are more willing to stay with their parents

Many times, it is not a matter of money to give parents to parents

This is why many elderly people are always deceived by some criminals, because they are too lacking care, too lonely

But from the perspective of children

If there are brothers and sisters, you can still take care of it, and the burden can be reduced

If it is a only child

I often care about the elderly, I can’t care, I can’t care about it, I can’t care about the elderly.

It's really difficult to advance, it is difficult to retreat

So the pension dilemma of the only child is really a very valued problem

Okay, today's content is here

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Here, we also wish all the elderly people can be happy in their later years, and they have something to rely on

mutual encouragement

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