WeChat search these two words, you know who is secretly cared about you

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Do you know who is the most stable person in your friends?

Try searching "It's okay" in WeChat records.

The person who tells you the most often is the one who makes you feel reliable and peace of mind.

In the adult world, it is a rare ability to truly say the word "okay".

It represents the ability of a person to face the problem: always can quickly deal with emotions, think of ways, tell you "it's okay, this is okay", "Don't worry, we can do it", "Don't panic, I'll arrange" ...

Such people will also bring you strength: give you "you are right" affirmation, and also give you the company of "I will be in", and "will be better".

This kind of confidence may come from the strong inner heart that has been polished after many things, or it may also be derived from the insight and the encounter.

In short, if you have been friends with such people for a long time, your emotions will become loose and stable.

And emotional stability is often the basis for us to cope with the turbulent life.

I wish you a friend like this and I wish you a friend.

What is the experience of being a friend who is calm?

Author: Readers of Xinshixiang

@落 89

I am addicted to playing games, but I only love to play with my sisters. It is not because she can take me well, but because she is not angry, anxious, and not shaken.

Unlike my boyfriend, if you lose a few people, you start to talk about himself, and you start your face when you lose a few times.

Once I played with my sisters at night, I have been pitting, and she has always said, "Don't worry slowly." After losing 5 in a row, she told me that I ordered the crayfish and came to my house to finish a variety show. We were not in the game.

My impatient mood was instantly raised.

She knows that the game is to relax and happy, and to relieve it for a moment from real life. It is unnecessary because of losing unhappy and increasing emotional burden.

——The phrase "It's okay" is to know what you value more, not all "loss" is worth care of.

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In 19 years, I went abroad to play, and I went to the wrong bus misunderstanding. When I found it, I was panicked. Watching the navigation arrows farther and farther away from the airport.

But my friend Trudy can be calm. After surely can't catch the plane, I got off at the nearest town and got three cups of heat cocoa. The aroma fainted into the thick scarf, everyone was soft and sweet.

Can you think of it, that night, the people were lying on one of the factions to overcome and sleep, and the people were warm when they got up.

If it wasn't for Trudy, it would be impossible for us to complain and make trouble.

It feels like you have encountered a storm, but someone has a trend in front of you, and no one is swept and affected.

Airport at 5 am

——This "It's okay" is the confidence that can stop the loss and solve the dilemma in time. A person who is not afraid of difficulties in the heart will not be trapped.

@铮 铮

Once I went to travel with my predecessor, I set a ticket on the 12th at 0 o'clock. As a result, both of them were regarded as 24 o'clock on the 12th.

At that moment, I clearly felt that the anterior vascular beating twice, and I didn't know who should be angry with, anyway, I reached the Grand Gai.

What about her, shake her mobile phone, when she sets up the sleeper that night, I went straight to the train station and did not forget to buy a large bag of snacks. I was not annoyed. I was very happy to see the spring tour.

I was pulled by her numbly by her, and it was not a big deal until I sat in the car that I suddenly reacted.

After a long time later, I would remember that the two of us were sitting in the lower part that night, watching the rapid back lights outside the train window, and waiting for the peace and romance until the sun rose.

When the car arrives, the sky is particularly blue

——This "It's okay" is not to regret what you have missed, so as not to miss the next paragraph worthy of experience.

@ @一

Girlfriend is a well -known master's degree in law. On the night of graduation, a train ticket returned to the fourth -line hometown and admitted to a district -level court near home.

——As as a reference, her classmates choose to enter the major law firms, courts, or enterprises.

I asked her how to choose how you choose like this?

"Because I know, knowledge is just a tool for living a good life, but it should not be a reason to breed desire."

What she is looking forward to is the days when there are small cities and cars and cars, and their income, and her parents can be close to three forks.

Compared to squeezing the subway commute, she is willing to get up early for a while;

Compared to drinking ice, she is willing to cook a bowl of small ravioli;

Compared with the exchanges with the industry, she is willing to watch a Korean drama with her mother

She said, "I may be regarded as a person who has no career, but I know how to make myself happy. For me, it is better to make a big Case.

This is a kind of determination and peace in life. I can even think that she likes her old classmates who like Anfu Road with coffee, put down the mobile phone, and next to the stewed chicken soup.

Perhaps at this age, everyone who rushed forward was not sober.

——This calmness is that she never thought of changing her own destination, even if everyone chose to go further.

@想 想

I knew a little girl who was full of wastes around the world. Before she resigned, she had just risen from the financial institution's counter to the director. He left with the 100,000 dollars that had just been stored, and said that he would realize his childhood dream -picking up the wasteland.

When I was young, I always felt that there was a treasure in the garbage dump. When I grew up, I had to find it in person:

The door of collecting pottery elephants in Varana and picking high platforms in Kashgar, and a large bunch of wooden beads in the villages at the foot of the Himalayan Mountain in Nepal ...

She set up a stall with east -west

I was also asked, did I regret my career rising? She said that she lived anyway, what was right or wrong. Just laugh, be happy.

Some people want to be a person, and they must not flash like a diamond, and some people just want to be a gem, quiet and soft, but insist on their own texture and edges.

——The calmness can be afforded or let go, no matter how precious things in others, it is not what you want, and there is no need to hold it closely.

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When my mother became irritable, I watched him go to the room to unveil the tiles, drop the bowl and beat the bowl, and the mother of the mother once made an enemy.

Last weekend, he took his son to see his old classmate. He and his classmate daughter had a good time, and accidentally broke the small vase of the restaurant.

We stood up and watched the little girl pulling the waiter, apologizing politely, and came over with a generous: "Mom is sorry, I accidentally shattered the vase, I told my sister that you will help us pay for it."

Waiting for the waiter to leave, the little girl ghostly ghostly coquettishly: "I am willing to wash a week, I certainly don't need to help." The classmate also said a few words that were not injured, washed the dishes and gave it to you. There was no sentence. Blame.

Look at my son who dares to lift and sit in the corner of the seat ... Suddenly I suddenly understand what kind of temperament heritage of the native family can bring to the child.

——This calmness is that the party is not tangled, and one party is not timid and stands on the same side to solve the conflict. Instead of thinking about how to solve each other.

At the end

A while ago, the word "relaxation" brushed the screen, which caused discussions on the entire network, and even caused some people's "relaxation inner rolls" -

Because excessive reflection of whether you are not "relaxed" and blame yourself too "tight", it becomes more anxious.

I want to say today, it's okay, you are not relaxed enough, and it doesn't matter.

More important than these two words, in fact, at many panic moments, constantly training and acquire some abilities, such as:

Quickly handle emotions and see the judgment of the situation;

Clarify what you want and what you care about;

Growing inward can always be determined.

There are too many ups and downs in life. No one can give you a guide, so I wish you calm, I wish you a confidence to yourself:

"The problem is not big, you can."

The calmness of adults is not retreating and cowardly, but a persistence and strength of Rou Kegang.

Not complaining about the outside world, frustration; nor shaping the requirements for others and aesthetics of the times, as advocated by LOLA ROSE, unwilling to define every woman, feel, please, and bloom unique colors.

Listening to Lola Rose spokesperson Tang Wei told a story about the beauty of gemstones, with the texture of the crust collisions and the color of all things, she was quiet but lively in the process of growth like her. With the time with you, low -key and calm. You don't have to give yourself a standard answer, look inward, your own answer.

We are always on the way to ourselves. All textures are stories.

Writing: Chen Xiao sleeps

Design: Kuizi

Responsible editor: quite stiff

Late prayer time:

I don't need everyone to love me

I only need to love once for myself

I believe even if it is not perfect

A rock can be a star

Emotional people

All big babies

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