Reviewer observation ｜ Cai Li "returns to zero", happiness "Mange"

When the reform of Henan's wedding customs was ongoing, the goal was to point out "zero gifts". "The goal of marriage custom reform is to achieve 'zero -color gift', frugality to do marriage, and inherit the development of outstanding Chinese marriage and family culture, and advocate the formation of the correct marriage and family value orientation of the whole society." The relevant person in charge of the Henan Provincial Civil Affairs Department recently said in an interview with reporters. Essence (September 20 "Rule of Law Daily")

Marrying a long -term marriage is a thousand -year marriage custom in my country. However, many times, high -priced gifts have changed the taste of "rituals" and become the "blockbuster" of freedom of marriage. Cai Li's money becomes "colorful debt", and some families have a heavy economic burden on this; the name of Cai Li is constantly renovated, the wind of comparison has intensified, pollution of interpersonal relationships and social atmosphere; once the wedding contract is lifted, disputes are likely to cause disputes. Cause contradictions and even cause tragedies. Not long ago, a guy in a foreign country "drove a banner to find a former fiancee for a gift", which is undoubtedly a complaint on the bad habits of marriage customs. The pain of the masses for a long time! Wedding custom reform is imperative.

Since 2018, the Ministry of Civil Affairs has incorporated marriage and custom reform into an important agenda. The Central Document No. 1 has also named the issue of rural colorful gifts many times. Marriage custom reform involves millions of households, related to a happy life. On the one hand, clearing the marriage obstacles for men and women by moving the customs and customs, which helps to create a social environment of friendship and childcare, and add points to a better life; on the other hand, build a new style of civilization and customs, and cultivate rural customs. The meaning of revitalization.

Promoting marriage custom reforms must go to the problem. Traditional wedding customs have been in a long time. It is not easy to shake and change. In particular, some rural areas have accumulated high -priced gifts for a long time, and it has become a difficult "hard bone" in the reform of marriage customs. Wedding custom reform is a systematic project with a long way to go. On the one hand, we must see the complexity and refractory of bad habits of marriage customs, on the other hand, we must strengthen systematic thinking, take multiple measures, and promote it.

To this end, we must work hard on the change of ideas, break the ideological barriers, advocate the correct marriage and family value orientation, promote the new style of marriage customs through the township regulations and people's treaties, and strive to promote high -priced gifts from "dare not" to "do not want". To make articles in comprehensive governance, the problems of the marriage customs are intertwined and the situation is complicated. Comprehensive rectifications are carried out to be more effective for high -priced gifts, wastefulness, and ritual comparisons. To make breakthroughs in development, vigorously promote rural rejuvenation, and build a realistic support for the weald habits such as high -priced color gifts. In addition, in the reform and advancement of reform, we can find the entry point from the hot spots and difficulties concerned by the masses due to local conditions and policies. At the same time, pay attention to the pace of reform methods and rhythm. By calculating economic accounts, cultural accounts, and social accounts, the benefits and perceptions of the changes in the style of marriage custom can make the new style of civilization wedding customs really root and bloom in the hearts of ordinary people.

Times are progressing, and marriage customs are also advancing with the times. Accelerate the reform of marriage customs, make the "zero gift" more well, and return the marriage customs to the essence of the original heart and marriage to the essence of marriage, in order to better protect the happy life of millions of households.

Text/Guangzhou Daily commentator Zhang Dongmu/Guangzhou Daily · Xinhuacheng reporter Mo Weipun Guangzhou Daily · Xinhuacheng editor Chen Wenjie

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