Extremely review | "21 -year -old single mother to take takeaway", the protection of women and children should be more powerful

Ji Mu News commentator Qu Jing

Single mother's video screenshot of the video interview

Recently, a video of a single mother who sent a takeaway at the age of 21 in Anhui was interviewed. In the video, she introduced herself, surnamed Chen, 21 years old. Her husband died in the child 5 or 6 months. After receiving the compensation, her mother -in -law drove her and the child out. It was because she had a high salary and "could bring children." The local women's federation responded that she had understood this and visited her. (According to Qilu Yiyi on September 21)

Single mother's video screenshot of the video interview

This single mother is only 21 years old. Many girls of the same age are still studying at school, or they have just joined the job. They can also be coquettish in front of her parents and laugh with their lover, but she has provoked the burden of life alone and ran around to send takeaway. While taking care of the children who are still in the cricket. When the interviewer lamented that she was working hard, she said, "When do you not suffer hard now, (I) is only 21 years old, it is when it is hard -working."

Single mother's video screenshot of the video interview

This sentence was caught by the hearts of many people. At first glance, it is very simple and inspirational. For ordinary people who have no background, they may be prepared to be hardworking at any time after people. But in the experience of this single mother, there are too many "should not" and "unreasonable", which makes this sentence unable to feel inspirational, but feels heavy and bitter.

She is only 21 years old this year and has a 3 -year -old child. That is to say, she was only 18 years old when she gave birth to a child. She was just an adult and did not reach the legal marriage age, so the marriage relationship could not be protected by law. This is probably why her husband had no way to legally inherit the property after his husband died of an accident.

However, the law also stipulates that non -marriage children have the same rights as children of marriage, and no organization or individual may be harmful and discriminated. Moreover, the children belong to the first -order heir and are equal in the inheritance of men and women, but she said that only their sons can inherit in their local area. The daughter does not have it. Regulations. No matter how deep the folk customs are, it should not be on the law.

What is even more surprising is that when the interviewer was surprised to get married and had children at such a young age, she said indifferently that Jiangxi was married early. "As long as you don't study, someone will meet you." This is very general, and there should be some exaggerated components, but it also shows the existence of some bad atmosphere. Premature marriage, especially guiding minors to marry early, early childbearing is a crooked habit. It is also illegal to get married without legal marriage. If such a phenomenon is generally accustomed to it, can local adolescents have a positive and correct view of marriage and love? Can their healthy growth be taken care of? It's really worrying.

The reason why this single mother made many netizens worry is not only because her experience is very pitiful, but her attitude is strong and optimistic, but also because of her gentle and firm talk, admirable responsibility, she saw her life book Rich possibilities should be possessed. Perhaps because of the principle of self -esteem and self -reliance, she was unwilling to accept more material funding, and because she had seen the warmth and warmth of life, she was willing to forgive those who lost and harmed it with openness and kindness. Looking at her suffering like this, she couldn't make her personal character's beauty, and covered those backwardness, ugliness and distortion.

I hope that the women's federation and public welfare institutions that she currently is located can have a better understanding and assistance to this single mother, and effectively protect the rights and interests of women and children. This is not the kind of sympathy she rejected, but to her and her Children should, must protect.

And her hometown should also observe the people's sentiments, lead the civilized style, eliminate the evil spirits, refuse to marry early and childcare, and eliminate the bad habits of heavy men and women. Don't let more girls carry the burden of childcare children too early, and guide and help them to live their own lives. When it is suitable, push a fan to the door of the vast life. Being a mother should be a happy and warm thing. Behind the praise of "Mother's Gang", it should be the smiley face that takes care of the child's healthy growth, rather than a young and hard -working mother. Essence

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