People can't awaken, they can only wake up

See a sentence on the Internet:

Restraining yourself to correct others' desires, adults can only screen and cannot educate.

This is the case for partners, friends, and partners.

Putting up your own attachment to others, people teach can not teach, and it is enough to teach people once.

In a few words, it tells the truth of human nature.

That's it:

We can never wake up a person who pretend to sleep unless he wakes up.

Similarly, we can't change a person who doesn't want to change, unless he wants to change himself.

Because people can't wake up, they can only wake up.

After eating the suffering of life, I understand the benefits of reading

There is a question on Zhihu: "What do children need to experience to understand the importance of academic studies?"

One of the heart -up answers is like this: "I can only understand it when I was beaten up to the bruises."

Many times, no matter how hard their parents and teachers talk about the importance of studying hard, they just don't listen.

Only after I hit the south wall and the slap of life, can I understand how important it is to study desperately.

Remember the zero candidate Xu Mengnan?

In the 2008 Anhui College Entrance Examination, Xu Mengnan deliberately paid a white volume and took 0 points.

In the past 10 years, he has been traveled to various factories to assemble advertising boxes, manufacturing manhole covers, packaging bathroom products ...

Without exception, all kinds of physical work without technical content.

Not only is the working time long, the working environment is messy, but it is also very hard and tired.

He also thought about changing a better job, but he only had a high school degree and could not find a better job at all.

The writer Jiang Xun once said:

"People always go through some things that make them feel uneasy, regretful or regretful, and then look back to think about what they choose."

Xu Mengnan too.

After eating the suffering of life, he regretted:

If you are studying hard at the beginning, it is not a problem to take a two books. Now it should also be a small white -collar worker in the city, instead of living like this now.

In 2018, Xu Mengnan made up his mind and took the college entrance examination again.

He studied while working, and finally admitted to a college in Anhui at the age of 29.

He returned to campus, and he cherishes the hard -to -read opportunities than ever.

When we were young, we always thought that reading was the hardest.

But when you really enter the society, you can understand that your life that does not read is the most bitter.

If you do n’t eat the bitterness of reading, you need to eat the suffering of life.

The bitterness of reading is only ten years, and the suffering of life may be a lifetime.

It's just that these truths can be listened to.

Some people, you tell him ten thousand times, it is better to hit the south wall and fall a wrestling tube once.

After being beaten by society, you will find that learning is a very happy thing; after eating the suffering of life, you will understand that reading is the best choice for life.

Reading is the best way out and the easiest way for ordinary people to counterattack.

When the danger is coming, I know how to obey the rules

Some people say that pain is the best teacher.

The reason why people are unwilling to change may be because they are not deep enough.

So I was lucky and didn't want to change.

Only when the danger really comes can it be awakened.

People teach will never teach, and it is enough to teach people once.

Last month, Pengzhou in Sichuan took the lives of 7 people.

And this tragedy was originally avoided.

Because Longcougou belongs to the uns development scenic spot, and there are multiple warning signs around it.

At the entrance, there is also a sign of "prohibiting down the river and cherishing life", and the barbed wire used to block the fence near the river.

And before the mountain flood arrived, after receiving the weather forecast, the staff began to persuade tourists along the entire ravine.

But unfortunately, not all tourists obeyed the advice. Some people evacuated in time, and others didn't care.

It wasn't until the roll of the mountains that the danger was coming.

According to a survivor description:

Originally, I was very happy to go to Longgou to hike water, but now it is really uncomfortable and heartache.

The clear flood of the clear small ravine may be washed away for a second in the evening. When you run, the flood is behind you. It is really terrible.

Whether to win, he was trapped in the big water. Some children and adults were washed away by floods ...

The deceased has been stunned.

While we feel sorry for the death of life, we have to learn this bloody lesson.

Fortunately, it is the beginning of unfortunate.

Don't be lucky, thinking that accidents will not happen to yourself.

There is no small matter for safety. Do not wait until the danger is coming before you know how to obey the rules.

In this world, all the rules and order are from the awe of life and the guardian of safety.

Observing the rules is also respecting life, respecting yourself and others.

After a serious illness, I realized that health is the most important

In a interview program, the host asked Li Bingbing: "When did you start, realize that you are middle -aged?"

Li Bingbing's answer is:

Since a serious illness, I suddenly felt that my body became bad, and her condition was not as good as before.

It's easy to get tired and have no strength, not like before.

I can't afford to abuse myself, and my body really scraps.

Now, when she accepts the film invitation, the first thing to consider is her body, and health is the first.

Many times, we always rely on we are still young, so we stay up late and overdrawn. It wasn't until giving birth to a serious illness and a ICU once that I realized how important a healthy body was.

I have heard a word:

"There are two places in this world that can teach people to cherish life, one is a hospital and the other is the cremation field."

Think about it, it is true.

When we are in good health, we are dismissive of the advice of "staying up late, exercising more, not overeating".

But when he was affected by his health, he was lying on the hospital bed, endured the torture of the disease. Without reminding others, he knew how to cherish your body.

The blogger@博 博 博 博 博 stays up late for 10 years, and has not slept before 3 o'clock in the middle of the night.

The reason for her determination to go to bed early and get up early is that one day she stayed up late to 3 o'clock, her heart suddenly felt uncomfortable.

At that moment, she panicked.

She began to find a way to quit staying up late, get up on time at 7 o'clock every day, eat breakfast and exercise to make life more regular.

There is a sentence in "What is more important than making money":

"Only at the moment when suddenly scrapped can we understand that we must be in danger and walk for a long time."

After a serious illness, you will realize that in this world, the least overdrawn is the body, and the most invisible is health.

Good health is the biggest capital of a person. If you lose your health, you lose everything.

Life is only once.

Unexpected body is the consciousness that each of us should have.

Write here, I want to share a little story I have seen:

A young man was trapped by love and couldn't extricate himself, so he ran to the mountain to ask the master for help.

After listening, the master didn't say anything, but he silently poured him tea.

The hot water in the cup was overflowing out, but the master had not stopped the water.

The young man couldn't stand the pain caused by hot water and threw away the tea cup in a hurry.

When it hurts, let go of it, and learn the lessons.

In this world, there is no real feeling.

Only by needle staining on yourself can you know the pain.

Why have we heard a lot of truths, but we still have a bad life?

Because, many times, it is not the truth that can make us change.

It is the southern wall, a detour, it is a follower.

Pain is the best teacher. People can't wake up and can only wake up.

mutual encouragement!

Author: Jiali sister, reluctant to love and freedom in her life. Reading author at 10 o'clock. Source: ten o'clock reading (ID: duhaoshu).

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