The 4 hearts of adults, I hope you have no one ...

I once read a sentence: "The world of adults has no hurry, there is only endless hurdle."

Looking back at the past, there are countless ups and downs behind them; look forward to the countless difficulties.

The troubles of life are next to each other, and the pressure of work is one after another.

The taste of failure, the loneliness of the dark night, the grievances, and the burden of shoulders have all made us taste the bitterness and helplessness of adults.

The following 4 sad moments, I hope you have no one.

Do your best but have no results

A few years ago, I saw a entrepreneurial story on the "Entrepreneur Chinese" program.

The young guy Xu Quanbin was allowed to take the potential of the takeaway market, and he decided to start a business and sell box lunch to the white -collar workers in the office building.

At that time, there was no takeaway platform, and the business source depended on the distribution leaflet. Xu Quanbin ran all the office buildings around the publicity page. Sometimes, before the front desk had not waited for him to go out, he threw the leaflet into the trash.

Later, gradually with business, Xu Quanbin rented a cheap warehouse, watched at four or five o'clock a day, went to the wholesale market to purchase, and then cook, packaged, and distributed ... After a few months in a row, the business finally became better. Essence

He hired a few clerks and delivery staff, and also opened a branch to make the stalls making water.

At this moment, the bird flu suddenly broke out in Jiangsu, Zhejiang and Shanghai.

Overnight, the number of orders dropped by more than half, and the delivery staff resigned. Xu Quanbin had to top it himself. He gave me a meal for several shops, and often could not take care of meals.

One day it rained, and he finally sent to the last order, but the battery car was out of power.

Walking in the rain, he wiped the rain on his face and walked a few kilometers before sending the meal to the customer.

He thought that he could survive his teeth, but the order was getting less and less. In the end, he ended in failure.

There is a saying: "Some things can be done without hard work."

Many times, even if you do your best, you don't necessarily have the results you want, even if you pay everything, you may not be able to get the anticipated response.

Life is full of too many things and wishes, and no work will always make us feel desperate and unwilling.

However, we don't have to deny ourselves or complain about fate.

In "The Dreams that Can't Love", "Maybe the future of the future, one of them needs to be covered with regret."

Learn to accept regrets, so that the courage to revive and face the storm of life frankly.

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My heart is sad but no one can say

Writer Liu Tong once said: "There are two stages you have to spend, one is that the sad thing can't find someone to talk;

Life is a experience. Some lonely days are destined to go by themselves, and some lonely tastes are destined to taste it yourself.

When he graduated from college, Liu Tong entered Hunan TV with his excellent performance. He worked hard and desperately conceived the creativity of each show, and often stressed that the eyebrows were so big.

After countless crazy nights, he decided to quit his job and review the postgraduate entrance examination, but in the end he was two points worse and was not accepted.

Later, because of chance, Liu Tong got the opportunity to work in Beijing, and he touched his head to north and became a north drift.

Liu Tong has been in Hunan since he was a child. Sometimes he spoke blushing. He raised his unknown foreign country and high -intensity work, all made him strange and helpless.

Several times, he wanted to find someone to vomit bitter water and seek comfort, but he did not find the appropriate person to record the communication several times.

In the end, you can only bury your head in front of the computer, write down all the sadness and depression, and talk to your own heart.

After adulthood, we have more and more things we can talk about, and fewer and fewer people can tell.

The desire to vent can only be stabbed silently, and how sad and sad can only be buried in my heart.

Fu Sheng said in an interview: "I encountered unhappy things at work, and sometimes I didn't know who to tell, and I couldn't even show it. You told employees that employees would lose their fighting spirit; you told your family that your family will persuade Don't do if you are too tired; you reflect it to investors, and investors have been scared away. "

In real life, we often find that some things do not have to tell others, some things cannot tell others, some things are unclear, and some things can be understood even if they say it.

Many times, the emotions in their hearts can only digest themselves, one person is silent, and another person quietly heals.

Although sad, it is the only way for every adult.

When we survive the night without moonlight, we will find that we can survive the dim moment.

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Extrilies but laughed strongly

Writer Liu Zhenyun once said: "Everything in the world can't help but be scrutinized. Everything is hidden in each piece."

After adulthood, all the roads have to go by themselves. Whoever has not encountered unfairness and experienced misunderstandings and endured ridicule.

Many times, we can only chew the grievances in our hearts and laugh in front of people.

A few years ago, a ground staff at Shenyang Taoxian International Airport was beaten by passengers.

At that time, the plane first delayed for a few hours. Everyone waited for it, but finally announced that the flight was canceled.

And the news of the news was the ground staff.

The stranded passengers were very angry. Several people around the ground counter expressed dissatisfaction. A aunt was even more emotional, and she slapped the young man of the ground. Although the beaten man who was beaten was embarrassed, he did not resist. He kept smiling throughout the process and tried to maintain his professional image.

In fact, those people with a smile on their faces are very bitter.

I also watched a video. In the business hall of the Bank of Shandong, a customer was dissatisfied with the results of the consultation and scolded the staff.

The staff is a young girl. After being scolded, he still forced himself to smile and watched the customer leave.

As soon as the client went out, her tears flowed immediately, and kept raising her hand.

At this moment, another customer came in. The girl quickly wiped the corner of her eyes and greeted it with a smile.

The short drama writer Li Gongjun said: "Instead of crying with headache, it is better to laugh, at least you can be more decent."

indeed so. After adulthood, no one is willing to take care of us unconditionally, and no one can support us.

After being wronged, you can no longer be as right and wrong like children, fighting for right or wrong, nor can you vent their emotions and vent their dissatisfaction regardless of the occasion.

Instead, he swallowed the grievances and swallowed into his stomach, covering the sorrow in his heart with a smile, and showing his maturity with silence.

Some people say that how much a person's pattern is hidden in his attitude towards grievances.

Being able to endure a hundred grievances can support thousands of praise.

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The burden is on the burden

I saw a chat screenshot on the Internet, a 35 -year -old programmer and boss.

The boss said sharply: "People in their thirties are in their thirties, and they still expect the company to raise you?"

The programmer replied: "Sorry, please give me a chance, I will work hard in the future."

The boss did not ease the tone because of the attitude of the programmer, and still said rudely: "If you can't add the class in the future, get out of the ground!"

The programmer replied: "I will work hard."

It turned out that the programmer had worked in the company for 3 years. Because the IT industry has a strong work intensity, it is more and more powerful, and his energy is completely inferior to young people.

During that time, he had a small surgery due to physical reasons. The doctor told him that he could not be overworked. He got out of work on time that day, and was accused by leaders.

He said that he was old, small, and mortgage. He did not dare to resign easily. If he was tired, he had to swallow to continue to work. He went home and cried for a while at night.

I once read a sentence: The real heroism is to know that life is not easy, and still chooses to face the difficulties without hesitation.

Along the way, when we did not make a home, we worked hard for survival and career, and we couldn't finish the incomplete class.

After there is a family, we are running for life and children.

There are more and more burdens on their shoulders, but the pace under the feet is getting faster and faster.

The money will never spend enough, and you will never sleep enough, and your heart will never be fucking. Everyone is panting and rushing while panting.

There is such a sentence in the book "Don't Fate, just desperately": "One day, we will understand, as long as we set off, don't care about carrying, and we can't stop."

In addition to gritting our teeth, we have no choice. But it is precisely because of gritting teeth that there is a chance to pursue the life you want.

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I have read a special word: "Almost all adults are pretending to be an adult."

Not only can stand frustration and tolerance, but also stabilize emotions, but also afford life.

Although sad, these experiences are not a bad thing, but a process of self -growth.

The bumpy twists and turns will make us more frustrated, and self -consolation will make us more independent;

The strong work of the same time will make us truly strong, and it will make us the light ahead of the road a day.

Inside the heart can stand up and down the sea, it will become unhappy. Life has a long failure trough, and one step is uphill.

In the future, I hope you and I can take sadness as a kind of experience, learn to find sweetness in hardships, laugh and disappointed, even if you encounter big difficulties, you will not be easily knocked down.

Author: Hulu City, the original media of the reader, like to walk thousands of miles, and also read thousands of books.

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