"Look at me": Who stipulates the standard of face value scoring?

In various social forums such as Hu Po, Douban, and Xiaohongshu, female netizens (men also) posts for scores are not uncommon, and several netizens can often see several netizens who have been arguing for a long time due to inconsistent scoring opinions.

Netizens are also very keen on this scoring activity. According to the detailed scoring standards, plus their personal preference aesthetics simplify some women to 5 points, 6 points, and even some women will be rated because of their photos. Divide and complacent.

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Under the help of everyone, the face value scoring activity directly became a network carnival. Why do this scoring activity receive so much attention and sought after?

I think one of the reasons is that when a person or incident is more complicated and uncontrollable, people tend to seek a simple standard to measure it.

As a result, the face value has become a standard that can be scored:

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Not only the face value, everyone's own things, including age, education, work, family situation, etc., can become a score. Based on these external conditions to give themselves or others as the basis for judging other events, such as who has earned the relationship between the two.

This kind of all things can be associated with a batch of emotional writers represented by Ayawawa in the past few years.

Under the influence of countless young people, the marriage and love issues are simplified through scores, and even some people with certain influence have publicly published the outlook on marriage based on such thoughts:

Everyone beats themselves, height, education, face value, hukou, house and no house, monthly income ... Don't want to find 7 points in 5 points, no one is stupid.

Finding a woman is like buying a house. The suburbs are like a young and beautiful little girl, with no connotation in the face; the old -fashioned and educated intellectual girl with a high education area has no face value; you want to buy beautiful and connotative ones, first look at yourself, first look at yourself How much is.

I disagree with this. Although we have been a statement since ancient times, we have to talk about the equality of both parties on the basis of the equality of both parties. end. Ask yourself, does this materialized and utilitarian love really in line with our inner pursuit?

Today, the awareness of women's equity is becoming more awakened, and this materialized woman's thinking should be eliminated even more.

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Beijing News Book Review Weekly: "Where can those women willing to materialize themselves can't think of it? "Zhang Ting

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