Su Min, a 58 -year -old "self -driving aunt", is ready to start again: the rest of his life is the sea of stars

One person and one car, poetry and distance.

In 2020, because of an unbearable husband and a mediocre life, Su Min, 56, was determined to live for herself. She drove out of the city where she was driving away from the original track of life.

In the past two years, Su Min's footprint spreads in more than half of China, with a schedule of more than 80,000 kilometers. The car at the time of departure became a RV at the time of return. Fans of the short video platform rose from a single digit to nearly 2 million. Become her well -known label.

On the eve of the Mid -Autumn Festival, Su Min returned to Zhengzhou, hometown. The family is still like the tunnel that cannot be seen, and her relationship with her husband has not improved, but she no longer searches for changes stubbornly. Two years of travel gives her a more detached state of mind. Regardless of what she is settled with her husband, she will start after rest and run into the next distance.

"The first half of my life was spent in chai oil and salt. I would choose the sea of ​​stars in my life." Su Min said.

Su Min and her self -driving sedan have tents on the roof

(1) You still know how to come back

Outside a residential area between the South Second Ring Road and the South Third Ring Road in Zhengzhou, the autumn sun was lazily sprinkled on the street. Come and go.

Su Min, who was full of two years of scenery on the road, finally saw the most familiar hometown fireworks.

This is Su Min's daughter's house. His daughter and son -in -law lived in the master bedroom with a 5 -year -old twin grandson. Su Min alone used the cushion to fight the floor. It seemed that she didn't plan to live here.

When I went home this time, Su Min was temporarily intentionally.

In early August, Su Min came to Xining, Qinghai. His daughter, son -in -law, and grandson came to meet with her from Zhengzhou. The family drove a RV to play in Qinghai Lake, Golmud, Yinchuan, Delingha and other places. "They experience my daily life, and I also experience the life of the family." Su Min was very happy to watch the grandchildren roll on the grass.

The family originally planned to play in the northwest for more than ten days. I didn't expect to stay for a month because of the epidemic. Su Min accepted the suggestion of her daughter, drove a car to send the children home, and reunited with her mother in her 80s.

This is the first time Su Min has returned home in the past two years, but she didn't feel excited. "I don't know what happened. After entering Henan, my mood was really bad. Suddenly there was a feeling that I didn't want to go back, and I didn't tell the children. I don’t know what to do. Go to the south. "She said.

Back home, Su Min bought a moon cake to visit his mother and sat in bed and pulled home. Mother looked at her worriedly: "People who are sixty are still drifting outside." Su Min patted his waist: "You see my body is good." The mother shook her head: "You just said, I said, I said, I said good, I said good, I said, I said good, I said, I said good, I said, I said good, I said, I said good, I said, I said good, I said, I said good, I said, I said good, I said good, I said, I said good, I said, I said good, I said, I said good, I said, I said yes, I said, I said yes, I said, I said yes I also know that you are in good health, but when is it like this, I do n’t know if you will encounter other things. "Next, the two wiped their tears together, and Su Min hurried to hug her mother to comfort.

After returning home, Su Min and her husband had only met. She made a pot of Nepeta Tong Tang at home and tasted her. When she heard her husband's opening sound, he stopped chewing. When the husband saw her split, he asked, "Do you know how to come back? Can't you mix it?" The two began to argue, who made the wipe marks on the door of the house.

After returning two years after wandering, Su Min's home seemed no different from two years ago. The daughter's home, mother's house, and her own home, it seems that the RV who is stopped outside the community can give her a sense of freedom and solidity. Su Min's son -in -law also said that her mother had been going to play for two years and her appearance became better, and her mentality was young. "But when she returned home, she was not at ease."

Jimu journalist talks with him in Su Min's house

(2) Life in the tunnel

On September 24, 2020, when Su Min opened a car, she did not expect that she would go for two years.

In the video of recording his own self -driving journey, Su Min admitted to netizens that his minds were admitted from the beginning: it was difficult to communicate with her husband for many years.

"I am straightforward and sometimes do not pass through the brain. But my husband loves to pick my words. I have to talk about it in my heart like a speech before I can say it. Can I live in this environment without depression? "She complained like this.

Su Min told Jimu Journalists that about 20 years ago, when her daughter was admitted to high school, she thought of divorce her husband. The mother advised her to think about her daughter: "If you two are divided, there will be one less person at the wedding of the daughter in the future." Later, the daughter grew up and married, and the mother said, "They are so old, What else to get married, not afraid of people's jokes. "After the two grandsons were born, Su Min had to help take care of himself, and temporarily couldn't care about his own affairs.

"Mom has no income when she is pregnant, and it is difficult to reach out to Dad to ask for money. From then on, she has never used her dad's money. My dad has all kinds of discerning and accusations about my mother. Mom is always emotional and will always be in Sighing sigh. "Su Min's daughter said. But Su Min's husband never appeared at the public or online platform.

Before the age of 56, Su Min's life was as busy and boring as many people. Born in Qamdo, Tibet in 1964, she moved to Henan with her family in her teens. She went to high school. After marriage, she was laid off in the factory and then worked in various jobs.

In his thirties, Su Min was a cleaner who got up at 3 am every day and watched the road. He was envious when he saw the 5 -hour getting up, so he went to the newspaper to apply for it and succeed. "The work of sending the report is mainly concentrated in the hours of the morning. There are a lot of time to take care of the family and daughter, which is easier and free." At that time, she began to have a vague concept of "freedom" of work and life. In addition, Su Min had sold dumplings and went to the furniture factory in the field to help her. She could make her not have to face a unsatisfactory marriage at all times. Just occasionally pulling away from her thoughts, she will feel that this is not the life she wants.

"Life seems to be walking in the tunnel. You want to go out to see the light, eager to get married, and eager to get out of that tunnel. But after a period of marriage, you feel that you have entered another tunnel." Su Min said.

Su Min when he was young

(3) Star Sea

This "tunnel" appeared in 2019. It was a winter afternoon, and Su Min, who brought his grandson, accidentally ordered a self -driving tour experience shared by a blogger, as if opened a new world: it was possible to live in life.

Su Min told her daughter that she also wanted to travel by herself. Her daughter thought she was around the city and was not too serious. But Su Min thought about it. After a year, Gaosam Shang Kindergarten was carried out by self -driving tour in the country.

Su Min has previously obtained a driver's license. There is a car involved in her payment but hanging under her daughter's name at home. There are more than 2,300 yuan per month. The most basic condition for self -driving tour is not a problem. Then she started to study the equipment she needed on the road. Without the money to stay in the hotel often, she bought a top 3,000 -dollar roof tent. In addition, the storage cabinets, refrigerators, pots and pans, and self -portrait -related electronic devices are constantly sent to home -she is even prepared to be a tourist blogger. Husband, daughter, and son -in -law believed that she really wanted to travel around the country.

September 23, 2020 was the departure day of the Su Minyuan plan. Later, it was discovered that it was the seventh day of the lunar calendar. Because he paid attention to "seven out of the house and didn't go home", it was postponed to set off on September 24. "Please take a leave with life." She described her move at the time.

In order to save costs and stop at any time to see the scenery, Su Min generally does not take a high speed. On the first day, she drove more than 100 kilometers west along the National Highway 310 National Highway, and spent the night in the small waves. The surrounding camping is basically a RV. Su Min's car and the roof tent are more eye -catching. She is also a little unnatural at the bottom of the car. However, riders are very friendly, and everyone chats enthusiastically at night, which also dispels Su Min's tension.

When I went to Xi'an again, Su Min, who was just out of the far door, felt fresh and looked at everything, and she was happy to take it out: "Originally, the subway can still run on the ground." To help the old classmates meet, Su Min's experience also admired the students. In Chengdu, she also visited a RV show. Although she couldn't afford it at the time, she was also happy, and she also took a picture to show netizens fresh.

In order to shoot a good video, Su Min devoted himself to studying drones, sports cameras, self -timer rods, gimbal and other equipment, and finally played like young people. On the short video platform, the account of "50 -year -old auntie travels" has also been quickly on fire: a aunt who has worked hard for half a lifetime, has a meager income, simple clothes, and faced with a face -over. The dream that can be touched later has made many netizens feel incredible.

"The first half of my life was spent in chai oil and salt. I would choose the sea of ​​stars in my life." Su Min wrote on the video platform.

Su Min (left) on the journey

(4) I finally have home

The journey of "stars and sea" is not only happy and romantic, but also hardships and accidents. In order to find a free parking lot or RV camp, sometimes it takes a long time; bathing is a problem, so I have to drive a cheap hotel room every few days; it rains in the middle of the night, and there is only one car in the entire parking lot. The ladder still has a sound, so I can't sleep well; once, the drone flew away and lost contact during the shooting.

Oil money is the biggest expense of Su Min's self -driving road. She controls the total monthly cost of less than 3,000 yuan. Sometimes when the money is almost spent, stop the car, and wait for the next month to get back to the road. For this reason, she stayed in a parking lot in Xishuangna, Yunnan for 18 days, and occasionally went to visit nearby. Su Min does not think this is an unbearable experience. She feels that she is blessed because of disaster. She has more time to taste the taste of a city. "If you are a rich person, come to see it in a hurry, you can't feel the beauty of this place. "So far, Xishuangbanna is still the favorite in the city she has been to.

Su Min rarely feel lonely on the road. She is free with her daughter and grandson video. As for her husband, they have only had two telephones two times in the past two years, "I have something to do with it."

In addition to her family, it is more time with Su Min to accompany Su Min. Netizens and donkey friends often open live broadcasts with netizens, and she can constantly meet like -minded companions on the road. Some netizens came to meet her after brushing Su Min's schedule, from fans to friends. The strange donkey friends were surprised to see her driving by car alone. Someone came up and told her: "I used to have a woman on the Internet, and I drove out to seek her own life." Su Min patted his breasts proudly : "Isn't that me?"

When traveling with her companions, Su Min deviated from the route alone and returned to her birthplace in Changdu to see it. "When I was a kid, the conditions were difficult. I didn't expect that I was able to drive back here for decades." She said with emotion. She even visited the China -Myanmar border and Everest base. The novelty of strange cities has a huge attractiveness to Su Min. In Sanya, Hainan, she spent several days to learn surfing. At first she could only squat on the skateboard, fell into the sea, and finally could stand up after learning. "There are not many things that stumped my things along the way." She said, "The important thing is to try, and you must learn."

As the influence on the Internet increases, Su Min also has another income, and does not need to rely entirely on pension to support her travel career. In March 2022, she also bought a RV, which was something she dared not imagine when she left a year and a half ago. In the past, when Su Min drove a car to participate in the car self -driving tour team, the donkey friends used the RV to clamp her car in the middle for protection, which moved her very much. Now, standing in front of a RV with a spacious space and advanced space, she choked a little: "This is really my home, I finally have home. I will love it very much."

Su Min learns surfing in Hainan

(5) Depart again

Henan, Shaanxi, Sichuan, Yunnan, Tibet, Xinjiang, Guangxi, Guangdong, Hainan, Hunan, Hubei, Qinghai, Ningxia, Inner Mongolia ... In the past two years, Su Min's footprints spread mostly in China. During the journey, she occasionally invited large cities such as Beijing and Shanghai to participate in the event. She came to the stage to give a speech on her experience, and also published a book. "These two years are the happiest time in my life." She told Judu journalists.

In the past two years, Su Min changed not only his own lifestyle, but also the concept of never before. Some people say that saving money at home and spending money on the house, she disagrees: "Living with a house of millions of yuan at home, it is also money to spread every day. It costs money to go out, but she sees something that others can't see."

Some people have described Su Min on the Internet that "throwing a husband and abandoning a woman to find herself", she did not recognize this statement, because she has been working for her family for many years. We went to kindergarten, her husband and her had no bond, and the old mother was taken care of by her brother -in -law.

"To come to the best time to go, but the best time for everyone is different." Su Min said, "If there is a concern, you can go if you can't say Time. For me, there are not many things that trip to me at home now, so now it's my best time. "But obviously not everyone can be so unreasonable, so Su Min suggested that netizens:" Still need to still have to do Take care of the family first, and then find personal freedom and happiness. After all, family is the responsibility of everyone. "

When traveling, Su Min often marvel at the world's extension and his smallness. With this vast world as a coordinates, the original troubles of his original world can be completely left behind. But after returning home, when her husband pushed in, those annoying things quickly appeared in front of her -in the past two years, they were only temporarily blocked without disappearing.

However, Su Min's mood who came back to the world was different. "Only the difference between good and bad things at home, there is no difference between right and wrong." She said, "The problem at home is generally caused by some trivial matters. How many major things can you do at home?" During the journey, Su Min also did a very special thing. She bought 1,000 roses for strangers on the road and encouraged them to live a good life: "In fact, whether it is marriage or life is very beautiful, but some are some of them, but some are some of them. People have not been good for the time being. "

No matter how to solve the event with her husband, it does not affect Su Min's plan for his rest. She said that she was raising her body recently, treating periarthritis, and then upgrading the driver's license into a C6 that can drive a driver. In the future, she will continue to start to see more scenery that has not been seen. This time, she did not plan to run for a few years or tens of thousands of kilometers. "My mother is old, I may be back at any time."

Su Min's son -in -law also said that he and his wife supported his mother to set off. "It is expected that she will go south after National Day."

Su Min drove a RV this year

(Picture source reporter shooting, Su Min Weibo, parties)

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