I only found out that 99%of life dilemma was lost in 10 years after marriage.
Author:Ten o'clock reading Time:2022.09.20
There is a problem in Zhihu. What can you do new?
One of the answers is impressive -talking well.
Think about it, and most people who can speak are more attractive.
They may not be beautiful, but the gentle tone, appropriately, will make you get along very comfortably.
They may not be outstanding, but most of those who meet at work, most of them are rarely suffered.
Living this little fairy, rarely let go of most people, but rarely starts with such people, and even gives a lot of convenience.
I have a good say in this.
Do not recruit mother -in -law to see, always eat "dark losses" at work
what do I do?
My name is Liu Hui, a planning director of a top 500 company.
Although the speech is generous today, you can get the affirmation of others in three words.
Who would have thought -in the past, because "one mouth" did not lose less.
Every time I meet, others are endless. Only I am incoherent, and the leaders can't help but interrupt me several times: What do you want to express?
After a long time, no matter how much I pay, it is the one that is not valued in the team.
You Tian accidentally heard my colleagues secretly discuss me: Do n’t do it yourself for yourself, and give it to that injustice.
In a word, I made me sit in a needle felt and returned home to learn to my husband, but he said:
"It's not that I say you, you don’t speak, it’s not a day or two."
If you are someone else, if you even complain about the pillow, it means that I really need to change.
I started to learn speaking skills everywhere. Fortunately, it was possible to communicate and learn quickly.
Last year, the unit reported on the job, and I only used a trick -the formula of the gold medal speech.
Thoroughly sweeping the terrible problems, so as to get leaders and fill the vacancies in charge.
After a period of further studies, it was not just a job. I also "changed someone" in my life:
When she encountered a strong mother -in -law, she no longer said no, but used the "teammate principle" to communicate the position uniformly.
Now that the old man sees me, he can't help but boast: Now Huihui speaks, and he has listened more and more.
After eating the sweetness of "talking", I feel that my life is no longer restricted as before.
At the same time, they agree with the same sentence:
Many times, how do you say, what is it important than you do.
If you think about it, when you were young, children with sweet mouth are more likely to get love for adults.
After growing up, many key occasions are inseparable from talking:
Graduation defense, finding job interviews, blind dates, vocational campaigns, public speeches, get along with family ...
It can be seen that when we speak, we can't escape from birth every day.
Since you speak every day, why not say that it is pure?
To tell the truth, I know so much that because I ca n’t talk about being ignored, I ca n’t wait to recommend it to your communication teacher.
She is the former host of CCTV and the current deputy director of CCTV's creation of media art. She follows the show through the show. I read no less than a hundred books every year.
She is -Wang Xuechun.
Talk well, it is the elegance she engraved in her bones
Many people know her from "Zhengda Variety Show".
In the 1990s, "Zhengda Variety Show", as the first knowledge variety show at that time, became a must -see file for countless families on weekends and evenings.
To this day, many people are still thinking about the show across the country.
"I don't know, the world is really amazing." The opening of this sentence, Wang Xuechun said it was eight years.
And she also gained the love of the audience with her professionalism without losing her unsuccessful hosting style.
Following "Zhengda Variety Show", she has hosted a series of well -known variety shows such as "Guinness China Night" and "Happy Street", becoming the host of the Spring Festival Gala, and serving as a large variety show producer such as "Come on to the Future". Won the "Golden Movement" award, Starlight Award (the highest award of China TV Art) ...
After passing thousands of mountains and rivers, watching the warmth of the world, she always became gentle and firmly doing herself.
She helped millions to get out of the dilemma of communication
She said, talking well is actually very simple
In the past 30 years of work, she left the deepest impression on the people around her: talking.
She was a master of communication with ice. When she was a host of the outside, she used the principle of "saying more words" to quickly make a piece with the locals, saving the team's running -in time.
She is a big friend of the children. She and a large group of children sitting on the ground outside the camera. "Change the perspective of communication". In the heart of the child, there are still many secret gardens that are not seen by adults.
She is also a gentle control king, using the "teammate strategy", no matter how chaotic the shooting scene, she can always carry out in an orderly manner under her queue.
It is not surprising that she has also become the "communication treasure" of the people around her. Often, she is pointed out one or two, and the problems are resolved.
The host Jing Yidan boasted her: "Xuechun is gentle and wise, and will not put pressure on people when communicating with people." Sister Moon, the host of the main station said, "It is a flowing person, like water, encounter any ditch Kankan , Can go through smoothly, and the difficulties are solved. "
In the past two years, she also shared the experience of communication to the Internet, because what she said was always transparent, pointing directly to the hearts of the people, and quickly attracted the attention of nearly one million people.
In the comments, there are both white -collar workers, young treasure moms, and parents of the previous age. They are all useful!
She summarizes her methods into 20 communication tricks that use, that is, almost covering various communication scenarios such as workplace, family, and intimate relationships. The point is that she doesn't talk about the deep theory, but uses big vernacular to tell why and how to speak clearly.
If you are still worrying about daily communication:
The meeting was not the point, or the expression was not in place, and it was slowly marginalized; communicating with her husband with an attitude of solving the problem, and the result was unhappy and dispersed; Still intensified ...
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After 30 years of age, "words" are 1,000 times more important than face value
I often listen to people around me complaining, read a lot of books, and learned a lot of speaking tricks. Not only did I not learn anything, but I became more and more tired.
That's because you really missed.
As Xue Chun usually said, most of the communication issues are divided into three cases: dare, unwillingness, and not.
In fact, as long as you see through the essence, many problems will be solved.
For example, the secret of marriage communication, the important one is "opening the topic, don't let the problem boring."
Mr. Lili's Mr. Lili was once obsessed with online games. When the two discussed, they flushed, and they were uncomfortable in their hearts. Emotions are in my heart, and they always have stabbing. Finally, one day, like a volcanic eruption, the two of them became more noisy and fierce, and even moved the idea of divorce ...
On the surface, neither of them want to show weakness in front of the other side, and in essence, the real needs of the two in their hearts are not expressed:
Lili wants to accompany more, and her husband is digesting her emotions, and playing games is decompression.
When the two use "teammates strategy", they sincerely say their feelings and needs step by step, slowly reach consensus, and understand each other.
You see, speak well, and the plain chai oil and salt can also become sweet pet dramas.
In these years, Xue Chun has seen many people who lived in place because they did not understand communication skills, or went downhill step by step in life;
In fact, learning to communicate is one of the ways to change the most cost -effective life--
In the workplace, talking is your armor, which will make you unconsciously more confident and confident, and you can calmly cope with the soldiers in the workplace more calmly;
In life, speaking not only reveals your lifestyle and personality cultivation, but also affect future love and marriage ...
In the family, children who grew up in a good communication atmosphere, and children who grew up in the quarrel environment have lived a different life.
So don't let your "mouth" drag your hind legs.
Don't say that you don't like to speak in introverted personality, because:
It can be said that the other party can't get your point. No matter how much it is to communicate, sometimes, silence is also a kind of communication.
It will be cunning, knowing the world but not the world.
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