16 hidden rules in the adult world

When I was young, happiness was a very simple thing.

A pack of snacks, a new clothes, and a box of videos are all the source of happiness, which is particularly easy to satisfy.

After growing up, it is a very happy thing to find simply.

Without considering this, worrying, without having to hook the corners, the authorities are gone to get along simply.

The meaning of desire and expectation is actually not yet owned.

We look forward to simple, because we are in complex, unable to have simple, and even worse, this status quo is difficult to improve for a while.

If you can't change it, accept it.

If the world of adults is destined to be complicated, then we strive to survive in complexity.

Let's share the social hidden rules in 20 adult worlds.

Don't easily evaluate others, and point your life to others' lives.

Unknown others are suffering, so I do not advise people to be great.

You have never experienced the life of others and do not know what others have experienced, then your evaluation will not be objective enough and is not eligible for evaluation.

In addition, it is easy to recruit right and wrong without verifying and defining others, especially behind it, especially behind it.

The words you say are often passed to the other's ears, and it has been added with oil and vinegar.

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Speak well in everything, don't take care of unreasonable temperament.

It is often difficult to distinguish the heart and mouthlessness.

Many times, you think your true temperament and boldness are likely to have no education, which is mean.

As the saying goes, the illness comes in from the mouth, and the disaster comes from the mouth.

If you don't think about or weigh before speaking, you will easily offend people if you say it.

Those who can speak well often become the winner of life.

Don't take your heart to everyone.

When you trust a person without reservation, there will be only these two results in the end:

Either the person in your life or a lesson in your life.

Unfortunately, the probability of the latter situation is greater.

It is necessary to treat people sincerely, but don't get heart to everyone.

If you take your own details, minds and minds, it is often wrong.

Not everyone deserves to be friends. Don't overestimate your position in the minds of others, otherwise you will be injured and disappointed.

If you can solve it yourself, try not to be troublesome.

Do not use human feelings to spend money to solve; if you can spend time and energy solve, you can find a way to get it yourself.

A good relationship is troublesome, and this sentence does have a certain sense.

However, there must be a sense of boundaries and a sense of proportion. No one likes to be disrupted. Each adult has its own life, and often it is difficult to protect themselves.

Never be a righteous reaching party.

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Don't despise, bully others, be kind.

At any time, do not see others, or even bullying people because others look so bullied. There is no strength.

First, it is easy to look at the eyes, be beaten, and regret it.

Second, it is better to be a good person. This is not only a character, but sometimes kindness can also save lives.

Don't ask others to borrow money, don't borrow money easily.

As a last resort, don't borrow money from relatives and friends easily.

If you can't borrow, add it to yourself; borrow it to add blockage to others.

In fact, finding a reliable platform borrowing is far more reliable than looking for friends. It will not be embarrassed, nor owe anyone, and the probability of borrowing is still high.

Regarding borrowing money, when you need help, those who can borrow money to you must be grateful and return the money to others on time. For those who don't lend you to you, don't be resentful, because everyone is not easy, not everyone in the family.

At the same time, don't borrow money easily.

Sometimes it is easy to borrow money and it is difficult to debt.

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Do not make a big voice at will.

Today, whether it is work or life, the frequency of WeChat is high.

When chatting with people and communicating with people, some people like to post voice, and they are tens of seconds of large voice.

You are convenient, but the other party may not be convenient to listen.

One is that the occasion may not be allowed, and the other is that it may not be smooth or the environment is noisy. The other party often listen to it several times to hear what you are talking about.

In addition, there are some details that WeChat social networking needs to pay attention to:

Similar to information such as bank accounts and ID cards, do not send screenshots if you can copy it;

After receiving the information, you can reply as soon as possible, and you may forget to drag it as soon as possible.

The more familiar people around, the more likely you don't want you.

Beggars will not be jealous of millionaires, but they are likely to be jealous of beggars who have higher income than him.

The more familiar people around, the more I don't want you to live well, at least I don't want to see you better than him.

This sounds sad, but this is the reality.

Therefore, do n’t show off if you have money. Others may not really bless you;

Don't complain about no money, people who listen may not really sympathize and care about you.

When others laugh, just listen, don't go to peace.

Many people have the habit of mocking and self -hacking.

Whether he is ridiculous or humble, he really criticizes himself.

As a listener, just listen, don't take it seriously, let alone reconcile.

No one likes to be denied.

Don't complain, either bear silently or leave decisively.

I do n’t have a good job in work, I do n’t go well with my friends. When I encounter such things, do n’t talk to people everywhere. Especially at work, don't complain to other colleagues anymore, you have only two options:

The first is to bear silently and find a way to reverse the situation; the second is to resign and leave, leave right and wrong.

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If you promise others to do it, don't agree if you can't do it.

Credit in the world of adults is a high level of quality, which will determine our overall impression in the minds of others.

If you ca n’t do it, it ’s better not to agree to start.

If you promise others, you must work hard. If you can't do it in the end, you must also give timely feedback and reasonable explanation.

Otherwise, it is easy to leave an unreliable impression.

Money is really important.

There are few money in this world that cannot be done. For example, it is not necessarily out of poverty from getting out of poverty, but there is a high probability that poverty alleviation will take off.

If you want to get a person or to achieve one thing, please talk less about your feelings and talk more money.

Few people can resist the temptation of interests. If the price you drive cannot impress each other, then it is often not difficult to make money, but that the temptation is not big enough.

Keeping a distance from friends of the opposite sex is due to the consciousness.

In interpersonal communication, even if a relationship is intimate, pay attention to the size and distance.

In other words, walking too close to anyone may be a disaster.

In particular, the relationship with friends of the opposite sex should maintain a certain distance. This is the consciousness of an adult, otherwise it is easy to have problems in the end.

Don't have a big temper when you don't have the ability.

People are divided into three -class:

A first person, have the ability and have no temper.

Second -class, have the ability and temper.

Three -class person, no ability, temper.

What is the most taboo for being a man is that the ability is not big and has a small temper.

This character is easy to suffer in the work of life, because no one will get used to you.

Please don't shout if you can't get out for more than three times.

If a person can't make an appointment several times in a row, it is likely that he does not want to go to an appointment, not without time.

This is not limited to dinner, WeChat chat and so on.

If a person is sent to a person, the other party always does not return. It is not that he did not see or did not have time to return, but just didn't want to return.

No one cannot be separated, sometimes there is no need to be too wronged.

Don't overestimate the relationship with anyone, this sentence has two meanings:

First, don't think so importantly; second, don't think of others so important.

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If a relationship makes you feel very painful and you need to try your best to maintain it, you can end.

No one is really inseparable from anyone. Many times, there is really no need to cater to, please others and make themselves wrong.

When you turn around and leave, you will find how stupid you were, and how comfortable your life is now.

The most important rule in the adult world is actually a bit happy.

Author: Twelve Twelve, Source: Twelve (ID: tongshier2).

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