Women who change WeChat avatars are often these 4 character

In recent years, WeChat has become a social tool for everyone.

It is a bridge that we communicate with the outside world, and it is a world of ourselves.

In this world, WeChat avatars have become an important criterion for us to judge a person.

However, the frequency of everyone changing the avatar is different, especially the sensual and delicate female group.

Some women change their avatars across three differences, keen to pursue freshness and presence;

Some women do not change them for three years and five years, as if they have been immersed in their own small world.

The former is easy to leave a lively and interesting impression, but the latter actually has a little -known flash point.

Those women who do not change WeChat avatars for a long time are often the following four character.

There is a saying: "People with long love are always old, so they are not willing to throw everything anyway."

The more a woman who reads the old and loves, the more I like to give things to everything, and even a WeChat avatar is no exception.

I have seen a story shared by a netizen.

Xiaowei fell in love with a gentle and beautiful girl and managed to reach the other party's WeChat.

After adding a friend, Xiaowei found that there was almost no content in the circle of friends of the girl. The last day was two years ago.

Her avatar is a small yard with a garden. It looks good for a long time. It is said that it has been used for a long time.

Xiao Wei did not care about the avatars at first, only to make every effort to pursue the other party, but he never got the response from the other party.

Every time he invites girls to go out to eat, go shopping, and watch movies, girls will find various reasons to get back;

The gift he carefully selected, the girl refused to accept it, and even transferred the flowers he sent to others ...

But he was frequently rejected, and he was unwilling to give up, and went to ask an acquaintance to inquire about the girl.

It turned out that the girl had a unforgettable relationship with her ex -boyfriend. The two intended to cultivate a positive result and bought a house with a small courtyard to get married.

But two years ago, the ex -boyfriend suddenly died unexpectedly. She has not forgotten the other party so far, and she is reluctant to change her avatar.

Xiaowei realized that the girl seemed to be indifferent and alienated, but in fact, she read the old and long love, so she decided not to force it and let go of each other.

Those women who are nostalgic for the old days are always unwilling to let go of a person easily and cannot give up a period of past.

In their hearts, avatars often represent unknown affection and persistence.

It may be a beloved token with a lover, it may be a souvenir for his family, or a memory of youth.

Women who do not like to change their avatars have their own exclusive memories. They are not paranoid, and they are also affectionate.

They may not open their hearts easily, but once it is determined that you are forever;

They may not express their favor enthusiastically, but as long as you care, you will treat it with your heart.

Pushing your heart like such a woman will not be disappointed or hurt.

Many times, a person's WeChat avatar is the barometer of emotions.

Those who frequently change their avatars not only want to release their inner emotions, but also want to attract others to pay attention to their own worries.

Most of those who do not change their avatars are mature and stable, and they are self -defeating.

My former colleague Juan used the same photo as the avatar for a long time, and has not changed it for several years.

It was a simple landscape, as calm as she was.

She has the ability and qualifications, but the development of the workplace for a while is not smooth.

At that time, she should have been promoted to raise her salary, but disrupted the rhythm of work due to accidental pregnancy.

When she returned from maternity leave, the leader could not help but adjust her from the Ministry of Technology to the Ministry of Executive's Ministry.

Faced with unfair treatment, she did not argue with the leadership, or submitted his resignation as soon as he became hot.

She understands that it is not easy for novice mothers to change jobs, and complaints cannot solve the problem, so she obeys the arrangement of the leaders silently.

Everything starting from scratch, at first she often encountered problems such as poor communication with other departments and low efficiency.

But she never complained about the heavens, but actively tried to solve the problems, and even asked young colleagues with an open mind.

However, in just one year, she was promoted to the leadership of the Ministry of Administration with her outstanding ability, and her salary was better than before.

During the period, she also saw the technical knowledge of sewing.

After the child went to the kindergarten, she resigned and re -made back the technicians.

In the end, she did not delay her growth and her career development.

A truly mature woman will never rely on changing the avatar frequently to beg for others' care.

They will carry heavy pressure alone, swallow their hearts, and do not have a burden on anyone.

The world of adults is a lonely practice, and can only survive a journey of bumpy and hard -working journey by themselves.

Women who do not like to change their avatars are exactly the nature of life and refine the strength of Zidu.

Even though the world becomes impermanent, they will move forward without changing the color.

In life, many women use WeChat avatars as the facade of their own online world.

With a little achievement, you can't wait to let the world know that avatars and circle of friends have been renewed.

In the past, I also liked to update my dynamics frequently, showing all the highlights of trivial daily life anytime, anywhere.

However, as I get older, I do n’t think it is necessary to show off my life with anyone.

What promoted me to change my concept was the girl Xixi I met on the way in the past few years.

Xixi graduated from a prestigious school, worked in foreign companies, loves to play photography, is good at writing, and has several musical instruments. In a few days of contact, she did not show a sense of superiority, humble and low -key.

Since the separation of the journey, we have gradually lost contact, but I occasionally turn over her circle of friends, thinking that she will actively share her wonderful life.

Unexpectedly, she rarely sent a circle of friends, and her avatar never changed, and she could find her in a dense communication list at once.

In the first half of this year, we started chatting again because of some opportunities to understand each other's current situation.

It turned out that she had already resigned and ran to start a business. She had already opened a company and bought a house in the city.

She still travels around every year, took a lot of good -looking photos, and received a large number of fans through sharing photos on social platforms.

Obviously, she had lived in the water, but she never proactively preached all this to the outside world, but just moved forward silently and lived freely.

Writer Feng Jicai said such a sentence:

Low -key is to live in their own world, and high -profile is for living in the world of others.

Women who rarely change their avatars often disdain to show off to others, but pay more attention to their inner self -growth.

They know how to converge their light, avoid stabbing others and the enemy around;

I also know how to abandon the outside of the outside world and live a better look.

They don't care about the "face" of nothingness, but only pay attention to the down -to -earth "li".

Do not show off, do not work out, so that you can have the richness of spirit and the prosperity of the soul.

I have seen such a topic: How much can a person care about others?

Among them, the answer from a netizen is impressive:

"Some people say that my WeChat avatar is not good -looking. I changed the new avatar in one afternoon.

I don't like new pictures, but he finally stops saying it is not good. "

In just two words, the pain of countless people's hearts was poked.

In this world, too many people have excessive views in the accident, and always want to live as what others are looking forward to.

Even if it is just a word, a photo is afraid of causing the disgust and disgust of others.

However, once you are used to using other people's ruler, we can measure your own way, and sooner or later you will trap yourself.

Those women who do not like to change their avatars are usually not abducted by anyone's ideas.

Fa Xiaorong Rong likes to travel around, often taking photos of eating, drinking, and fun in the circle of friends.

When she dressed up, she smiled confidently, sometimes shot like a heroine heroine, and sometimes turned into a capable urban beauty.

But her avatar has always been an old photo many years ago. She tied a ponytail and dressed in dark work clothes. She looked rustic in the soil.

Every time a friend meeting, someone always spit out her avatar out of date and asked her why she would not change to a beautiful photo of delicate makeup.

She smiled and said, "I'm too lazy to change, it's not good -looking, and the avatar can't represent anything."

Yes, if you live well or not, it has nothing to do with your avatar, mainly on your own mentality.

Some women have used a avatar for a long time, not lazy or boring, but loyal to their own heart and real life.

For such a woman, life is their own, have nothing to do with others, and there is no need to cater to others' minds.

I care too much about the views of others, and every step is careful, and the rest of my life is destined to have a hard time.

Only if you please yourself and face life freely, your life can be everywhere.

Psychology believes that a person's attitude towards his belongs reflects his inner quality.

In other words, we can see a person's personality characteristics and living conditions more or less from WeChat avatars.

Women who do not change WeChat avatars for a long time often collect each bond in delicately, and will also confidently and firmly operate a better future.

But WeChat avatars are just a small part of life, and it does not represent a person's whole.

There is a saying in "Little Prince":

"The meaning of life lies in life itself."

Whether you like to change your avatar will not affect the people in front of you and love the current life.

Light at the end of the text [Looking at], I hope that we can all have love, strong inner heart, abundant, and lively.

Author | Xu Chaomu, move forward, keep walking.

Picture | Visual China

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