"Bear Children" cut off the bananas in the shop, this mother's approach is too praised!Education "Bear Children", these three points are very important!

Yesterday (September 18)

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Ms. Li buy fruit in the store

Turn around and discover

The 4 -year -old son cut off the bananas on the booth several times

Seeing that it affects normal sales

She immediately guides the child to apologize to the boss

Then I bought all the broken bananas

This mother told reporters

She felt that the child was wrong for the first time

In addition to buying the cut fruit after the apology

Children must pay for their behavior if they do something wrong

Can't let the boss lose money

Netizens have praised this mother's handling way

Parents are children's first teacher

Also a lifelong teacher

Different educational styles of parents

Will cultivate different children

Many parents think

The child is still young

When you grow up, you will naturally be sensible

There are also parents reflected

I don't know how to educate the "bear child" at home

@Parents

Education "Bear Child"

These three points are important

Positive discipline

Nowadays, many children gather thousands of pets, and the whole family always turns around the child.

Such a dense love can easily cause children to have an illusion.

Over time, children will be used to "bad".

I have seen such a "bear child" story.

A lady named Liao parked the car in the underground garage. Unexpectedly, she was scratched several places on all sides.

After checking the monitoring, she found that a child took a knife.

Ms. Liao drove the car for maintenance. The 4S shop was priced at 9,600 yuan. She negotiated 2000 to her parents, but the other party refused to transfer.

She called her parents, but was mad by her parents.

Parents' attitude reflects the child's education.

Parents to protect their children one by one will only make their children black and white, and go further and farther on the naughty road.

In the end, the pressure of public opinion, the parents and children apologized together, lost 10,000 yuan, and paid the price for their own casualness.

Blindly changing the child will eventually hurt the child; only the child will become a device in time.

Parents' "cruelty" education is an indispensable medicine in the growth process of children. Although bitter, it can recover the disease.

Correct guidance

In the movie "Young You", "Bear Child" Wei Lai has always bullied his classmates. When Hu Xiaodie jumped off the building and committed suicide because of his indifference, the police found Wei Lai's mother, but she said unsatisfactoryly: "The child's heart was too stressful in his heart. Is it big? You can't jump off the building! Our children will not be like this, you have misunderstood. "

Originally, she should stand up to guide Wei Lai's mother who knew her mistakes and lost her. Instead, she ignored and protected her, which caused Wei Lai to be even more unscrupulous and bullied Chen Nian, so that Chen Nian was killed by missed hands.

Her mother did not shot when she should take a shot, but pushed Wei Lai to the wrong abyss when she was shot.

It is also the "bear child" in the hit movie. In "The Day Meteor" in "My Motherland", Liu Haoran and Chen Feiyu played the two brothers, but they were fortunate to be pulled back on the edge of the cliff.

They ran away from home, stealing things, and in jail, and still did not know how to repent, which made the older uncle headache. He had to ask Uncle Li for help.

Uncle Li took the two "bear children" home and saw that they were shy and hungry. They first ate them and changed their laundry to let them feel their family -like care. However, they staged "Mr. Dong Guo and Wolf" -the money after eating and wearing a warm and wearing it.

When the police came to win them and prepared to hold them in the case, Uncle Li stood up and said, "I gave them the money, not they stole it."

Although the brothers were revenge, Uncle Li taught them to complain with virtue, and their cold heart began to thaw. The prodigal son was rare. What is even more rare is that they met Uncle Li, who did his best to summon the prodigal son back.

Children are a critical period for character development when they were young, and parents must discipline them in time. If you miss the growth period, you can't control it in the future. When you find that the small mistakes, your parents will stop it in time, and the correct guidance can avoid developing a real "bear child".

Avoid "emotional discipline"

We do not know the harm that "emotional care and parenting" brings to the child, but after being a parent, we usually find that it is really a "magic weapon" with emotions.

Unfortunately, the child's emotional understanding ability is often easy to be trained by "negative" in emotional discipline.

Shouldn't the child make mistakes, shouldn't you be angry? Shouldn't the child stop wrong when we see us angry?

Yes, these are right. Of course, raising burnout is also real. No one can be perfect parents.

But as what "Don't let emotions destroy your efforts", "If a family loses the emotional vent, then no matter how much victory is won elsewhere, it is in the inner world of the child. Great failure. "

Therefore, maybe we can do some small things to avoid such "failure":

Shake your head in front of the door, try to use a small "ritual" to throw away the feelings in the work, and go home to face the child and family;

It is admitted that I have no ability to do some of my children, or even not interested, instead of covering my true intentions with emotions; temporarily leave the environment where they live with children, slowly release "integration of anxiety";

If there is an emotional state, it is necessary to explain to the child.

May all parents in the world

Be a child's leader

Source of this article ｜ Comprehensive from Weibo@本 本, China Education News, Reading (ID: dushu259), deep parenting (ID: baomabaobao), Zeng Qifeng Psychological Studio (ID: zqfxlgzs), etc.

Editor in charge ｜ Wang Jiashi

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