Wuhan Good Man | A "Director Mom" let her support her special custody class.

Ji Mu Journalist Sun Tingting

Photography: Jimu Journalist Zou Bin

Correspondent Zeng Yingqi

Intern Qi Xun, Wei Xin Chen Yuxuan

At 9 pm on September 17th, 60 -year -old Zhu Mingxia took a inconvenient left leg, staggered towards the desk, preparing for the teaching content of class, and writing poetry in some homework books from time to time. Silver wire. This stack of homework comes from 6 intellectual disabled patients. They are a group of "children" about 32 years of age and actual average psychological age. They follow Zhu Mingxia to study and class.

Zhu Mingxia gives the children class

Zhu Mingxia is the head of the "Sunshine Home" assistant studio in Baza Garden, Hongwei Road Street, Qingshan District, Wuhan City. She suffered from her left leg to her lifetime disability because she was 3 years old. The "principal mother" in the mouth of the intellectual disabilities has become the head of the special "custody class".

With a "principal mother", she became a special "custody class" parent

Zhu Mingxia

In the Party Member and Mass Service Center of Baya Garden Community, Hongwei Road Street, Wuhan, there is a room of about 40 square meters. This is Zhu Mingxia's "Sunshine Home" help studio. If you walk through the window, you can always see a lady with a smile on his face, sitting around a group of people, they sings, recite poetry, and do handicrafts together. This lady is Zhu Mingxia, as well as the public welfare positions of the disabled Ye Xin and the other two other disabled people to help her take care of the Sunshine Home.

Zhu Mingxia wrote writing

There are 6 special students in Sunshine Home. They are all intellectual obstacles. The average age is about 32 years old. The actual average psychological age is only about 10 years old. They are Xiaoyun, Xiaoco, Xiaowang, Xixi, Nan Nan, and Beibei (the guardian requests a pseudonym). They like to shout "the mother of the principal" around Zhu Mingxia. Zhu Mingxia teaches them to write and read every day, and to take them handicrafts, learn housework, and exercise their own ability to take care of themselves.

Zhu Mingxia, who should have enjoyed family life, became a special friendship. In 2007, Zhu Mingxia, who was a member of the community disabled, met Xiaoqiang, a 28 -year -old Tang family syndrome patient.

Zhu Mingxia often visited the disabled people in the jurisdiction. When he visited Xiaoqiang's home for the first time, Xiaoqiang's dodge eyes deeply stabbed her heart. Xiaoqiang is different from ordinary people because of his illness. He is afraid of the strange vision of the outside world and dare not go out. He is locked alone at home all year round. Since then, Zhu Mingxia has often been inconvenient to the left leg, and came to Xiaoqiang's house to accompany him to practice and paint. Gradually, Xiaoqiang became cheerful and even took the initiative to go downstairs. Two years later, Xiaoqiang died of illness. Xiaoqiang's mother deliberately thanked Zhu Mingxia for his previous companionship, so that her child had a happy time.

"The disabled is a disadvantaged group. Their family's psychological burden is heavy, and their self -esteem is easy to be injured. They need more care." As a disabled person, Zhu Mingxia deeply realized.

In 2010, Hongwei Road established an institution to provide custody and care services for the disabled people in the area. In 2015, Xiaoyun, Xiaowang, Xixi, and Nan Nan were successively sent by their parents. During this period, Zhu Mingxia participated in assistance to manage. In order to benefit more disabled people, in 2018, with the support of Hongwei Road Street, it helped Zhu Mingxia to set up a social worker organization, build Mingxia Studio, give special funding support, and in the Baza Garden Garden. The community has a larger venue and improves facilities and equipment for Zhu Mingxia and her "children".

"We are all families with dual employees. Children suffer from intellectual disability, have no ability to take care of themselves. It is easy to make temper at any time. It is difficult to discipline. It is very difficult to take care of. We can only keep her at home. . "Xiaoyun's mother Ms. Wu said. Zhu Mingxia became the head of this special "custody class" in this way.

I am inconvenient to learn hand -made lessons from the left leg, and I think about finding a job for the disabled

"The principal mother, I am back today." On the evening of September 17th, Zhu Mingxia and Xiao Ke video were across September 17. Xiaocke is 36 years old, and the actual psychological age is only 10 years old. Ms. Zhang said that Xiaoco's memory is always not good, but the habit of reporting the learning situation to the mother's mother every day has never forgotten. Okay, Xiao Ke's heart can settle down and sleep with peace of mind.

Recalling Xiaoco's first scene to Sunshine Home, Ms. Zhang tears fell. On the eve of the National Day 2019, Ms. Zhang passed by the community square. At that time, the community was celebrating the performance activities. A lady in the center of the stage was behind a group of children with irregular movements in the square. But they were staring closely at the Red Vests in front of them, imitating the movements, and the audience applauded them to cheer. This scene moved Ms. Zhang very much, and the residents next to her told her that the performer suffered from intellectual disability, but did not expect that the dance was pretty good.

Ms. Zhang was shocked. Her daughter was also a patient with intellectual disabled. She did not like to communicate with the outside world and couldn't take care of herself. She was almost at home every day. "When can my daughter stand confidently in the center of the stage?" Ms. Zhang thought that she didn't wait for the performance to end, she hurried to the background to wait, when she saw Zhu Mingxia, she grasped her hand and asked what she was going to do. Do you allow children to learn from Zhu Mingxia? Zhu Mingxia told her that it would only come.

"Now Xiaoco often go home to show us what learned every day in Sunshine Homeland, memorizing poetry, writing diaries, and doing counting questions. Sometimes he helps to do housework at home. Thinking of my daughter can have such a big change. "When talking about Xiao Ke's changes, Ms. Zhang showed a little pride on her face. She said that Zhu Mingxia didn't worry about the children, and encouraged them to write a diary every day, which was very patient. The 36 -year -old Beibei laughed very much. Now, in addition to going to Sunshine Home, I am most looking forward to going to work in the Garden Property of the Babu Garden every day. Mr. Hou, the father of Beibei, said that he had never imagined that one day, his daughter had the ability to go out to work, regardless of earning more and less, which was a huge encouragement and support for his family. Mr. Hou told reporters that this job was recommended by Zhu Mingxia. His daughter was very timid, do n’t have to talk about people, do n’t like to talk, and likes to work at home. He had to go to work before. After Zhu Mingxia, the child changed a lot, willing to speak actively, and his teeth became clear.

Mr. Hou said that in order to let them have a craft, Zhu Mingxia took a bus to Hanzheng Street to find a master to learn beads and learned woven woven through the Internet. In the exhibition area of ​​Sunshine Home, there are woven table cushions, handmade beaded, etc. on the wall. These are handmade products Zhu Mingxia led the children.

Zhu Mingxia gives the children class

Because this group of "children" has poor hands -on ability, it is also very difficult to find the right project. Zhu Mingxia once took the initiative to find the pharmacy, talked about the work of manual packaging, and contacted a teaching assistant agency with the help of the street. , But these projects have not been able to continue for a while.

"We all know that children lack their ability to take care of themselves, and it is good to take care of themselves, but the principal's mother did not give up, and found a way for the children to think about the future, to find the skills of making a living, and we often come to help the project as parents." Hou Hou Mr. said he thanked Zhu Mingxia from the bottom of his heart.

Parents lament the sunlight of love to their hearts and come to cook for colleagues for four consecutive years for colleagues

Ye Xin and Zhu Mingxia, 36, have worked together for 8 years. Before Ye Xinlai, there was also a disabled person Xiao Xiao (the interviewee asked the pseudonym). He experienced three strokes and had a car accident. The body became more and more difficult to maintain daily life. In 2018, Xiao Xiao went home to recuperate. Because Xiao Xiao lives alone, he is worried that Xiao Xiao will not take good care of himself. Ye Xin told reporters that under the initiative of Zhu Mingxia, everyone set up a volunteer service team, who came to the door twice a week. Cooking, cleaning the house, and washing clothes. "The head of the principal to us with sincerity, I will always insist on following her." Ye Xin said.

In the opinion of Ms. Yin's mother, Ms. Yin, Sunshine Home is not only the home of these special children, but also the soul harbor of their special family parents. "Actually, each family has a sense of" inferiority '. Others are embarrassed to talk about children in front of us. We don't know how to say. Everyone is suffering, but we can speak happily here with the mother of the principal. "Ms. Yin Said that Zhu Mingxia often organizes parents to gather, everyone cooks, make dumplings, and eat dumplings. "She really helped us solve the sense of inferiority in my heart. The sunlight of love came to her heart. Red eye circles.

Talking about the future of Sunshine Home, Zhu Mingxia admits that she hopes to find the right manual work and sales, so that these children to participate in. At present, the handicraft products they make are mainly for sale by the street. "They get income through their own labor, so that they can truly help them integrate into society, confidently, and recognize themselves." Zhu Mingxia said.

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