Evaluation 丨 Boy cuts all the banana mother in the shop to buy and apologize. This is what the tutor should look like

Polar News commentator Wu Shuangjian

Recently, Ms. Li in Guangzhou bought fruits in the store and turned around and found that her 4 -year -old son cut the bananas on the stall several times. The broken banana could not be sold. She immediately guided the child to apologize to the boss, and then bought all the cut bananas. (According to Beiqing.com on September 18)

Banana cut by the child (source: video screenshot)

This is a small episode in life, but it has been pushed up by netizens. The mother and mother were praised by netizens. They said that "the mother is right" and "the mother's three views."

To say that this mother was very responsible, not only bought the banana cut off the child, and then bought some other fruits, and also apologized to the boss.

With a little attention, the bear child had a matter of doing one thing, which was really speechless. To be honest, as a mother, it is normal to handle things like this. Why is it highly concerned by netizens, and even rushed to the hot search first? I am afraid that because of some parents, they lack discipline of their children, disapprove of children's trouble, and take care of the responsibility of "what are you with your child" and "he is still young". When the two compare, they come out at high.

Therefore, public opinion believes that in order to manage the bear children, we must first control the parents of the bear. This time, the child is a real bear, but the parents are really not the parents of the bear.

Because the child is harassing others or a disaster, the guardian is responsible. First, children should stop children and strengthen discipline in time; the second is that if the other party loses losses, they must also apologize and make compensation.

With such a simple truth, many parents seem to understand? In August of this year, one thing was not allowed online. During the movie theater watching in the theater, the children in the back row kicked their chairs many times. After stopping the fruitless, the child's father was angry and kicked the back of the seat. Essence The Internet exploded, and the police asked the police to investigate and deal with the responsible person according to law. Later, the public security organs found the parties and made administrative detention decisions to the back row man Gan Moumou, which made netizens angry.

Regardless of teaching, he does not do bad deeds to others, and there must be laws to discipline.

In Shenzhen, Guangdong in September 2021, a news about bear children also attracted the attention of netizens. When a boy was shopping in the supermarket, he mixed red beans and mung beans together. After the parents discovered, they picked the beans for two hours with their children. The preciousness of parents is to let the child learn from the beans to develop good behavior habits. Isn't it necessary to pay for the wrong behavior when doing the wrong thing? The child's mother Ms. Li said that at the time, he wanted to give the child a lesson, and later he regretted it.

When parents do not need to take the qualification certificate, but to manage their own children, it is a topic facing every family. In recent years, there have been many news that bear children have caused trouble, but whether they have the responsibility as their parents, whether they are out of escape from their children or have the courage to take responsibility, they will bring very different evaluations on the Internet.

All kinds of small things have attracted high attention of public opinion, because there is a expectation behind it, that is, I hope that parents can lead by example, manage their children, and be good examples of children. This is also an important part of family education. In this way, the family is fortunate and the society is lucky.

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