A word on the well -known male star dining table, how many years of wake up: The top masters know how to give up

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Some time ago, the variety show "Happy Again" was very hot, and I also chased to watch a few episodes.

After watching it, I found that this variety show Douban score is as high as 9.6, which is not without reason.

In this economic downturn, natural disasters and disasters are frequent, happiness and hope becomes more precious than diamond epidemic era. It is like a light in the night, which brings pure happiness and provides high emotional value.

What's more valuable is that in addition to happiness and funny, it also leaves a lot of topics worthy of aftertaste and deeply.

For example, on the dining table, a word of Lu Hu gives many people a sense of pouring.

The reason is that in order to live the "debt" of the show group, several old brothers proposed to go to the crew to act as group performances, and really found a crew that was about to kill.

After everyone was busy for a day, I decided to use the money I made to eat.

After the wine was full, the six people talked about each other, and Wang Lixin asked Lu Hu a question.

He said that Luhu had been involved in the actor industry more than ten years ago, and he has also been an actor for several years. I don't know if there is any change in psychology this time back to the actor?

Lu Hu bowed his head for a few seconds and said from his heart: "I hate acting."

As soon as the words fell, everyone was silent.

After all, under the situation where all artists are trying to bloom in full bloom, it is not easy to bravely say this "hate".

Lu Hu then explained that he did not continue to be an actor because he didn't like it. No matter how hard music is, he can stick to it because he likes it.

"No one doesn't like to make money, but I want to do what I love."

As we all know, actors are a high -paying industry.

Many small fresh meat plays a TV series, or if you shoot a few minutes of advertisements, there may be dozens of or even millions of income. Let's not to mention those head actors with a well -known and top -level ability to attract gold.

So you will see that many artists who do not act at all will test water such as "I am an actor" in order to have the opportunity to enter this industry.

How many people who want to squeeze into this circle, how many are those who really love acting?

But Lu Hu is an exception. He not only dares to admit his "dislike", but also can decisively abandon this occupation that may bring more income after recognizing his goals.

This requires great courage.

So many netizens said that they were poked by his sentence.

02

Many people always want everything on their way to their self -realization, try everything, and do nothing in the end.

Especially in things that have invested a lot of time and energy but have no effect, knowing that the direction is wrong, it is still lonely, because the cost of sinking is too high, and it is a pity to give up.

But the three hearts and two intentions, everything is involved, and in the end, it is often only possible to step in place.

Because it is impossible to focus on one thing, the goal cannot be clear. This is like a train without power, which can only stagnate.

The so -called "skills do not support their homes" are the truth.

French writer Mo Pange said to Fulou before he became famous:

"I read and write in two hours in the morning, and played the piano for two hours.

In the afternoon, you can play football in three hours, and you will go to the barbecue restaurant to learn to make roast duck at night.

On Sunday, you will go to the countryside to grow vegetables. "

Flou asked: "What are your specialties?"

Mo Passa thought for a long time and could not find the answer.

Flou smiled and said:

"I read and write in four hours in the morning, read and write in four hours in the afternoon, and four hours in the evening. I am also reading and writing.

My specialty is writing. "

Mo Pusang's epiphany, so worshiped the worship of Fufu Tower, put all his minds on reading and writing, and eventually became a famous novelist. He wrote many well -known works and passed down to this day.

The same is true of singer Lu Hu. After giving up actors, he encountered many difficulties and setbacks on the way to insist on making music.

At first, because there was no money and no one, he could only smash money for music by himself, and even used the only 40 square meter house to place his audio equipment with one fifth of the space to create a small job with all five internal organs. between.

For more than ten years, Lu Hu has written more than 200 songs, but few reds.

The only red song was not sung by myself, because at that time, it was not well -known, and I could only sing a lot of good songs to others.

On the shelf at the Luhu's house, a box of own album records were stored, all of which were not sold.

Fortunately, he has a clear understanding of himself. With his love and good talent, he finally encountered Boy Lezheng on the way to insist on music, and then the popular "The sound of snow falling" was later.

There is a concept of economics called "compound interest", which means that every time after a period of interest, the interest they have added to the principal to calculate the next period of interest.

In this way, in each interest -to -estate period, the interest period of the previous interest rate will become the principal of the interest, that is, the benefit of benefit, which is commonly known as "profit -making profit".

In other words, there is a period of brewing in everything. This process is slow and lasting. Until reaching a critical point, it will create continuous returns.

However, the premise of realizing compound interest must be that concentration of energy at a point and pouring forces.

The philosopher Sissero said:

"No matter how fragile people are, as long as they devote all their energy to the only purpose, they will be able to make it achieved." You can't agree.

The top self -discipline starts from learning.

03

Computer scientist Wu Jun mentioned in the book "Softness" that the first element of action is efficiency.

This efficiency is not only the efficiency of doing things, but also the efficiency of our lives.

He believes that the efficiency of life can be roughly expressed in the following formula:

The denominator in the formula is not the time to do things, but life expectancy, that is, all the time we have in our lives.

If a person has done a lot of things in his life, he is half -way, then his life efficiency is not high; if you do all the trivial matters, the efficiency cannot be considered high; although there are not many things to do, the influence is very influential, but the influence is very very influential. Great efficiency is very high.

The role of a big thing may be far better than the role of thousands of small things.

Just like von Noonman, although he only lives 53 years old, he has made important contributions in computer science.

A set of the above formula to von Noonman will find that the elements are very large and the denominator is very small, so his life efficiency is particularly high.

Similarly, all the film emperors who have won the awards are all actors who are focusing on acting; and those "both needed" walls, most of them did not make much outstanding achievements in the end.

Some people may disagree with this view and think that they do n’t try more, and they may miss a lot of opportunities. What if the thing that gives up because I do n’t like it, will it be achieved?

But have you ever thought about why we go to bet on that "in case"?

Once a person thinks of "in case", use these two words to guide his actions, just like when you are rushing, pick up each grain of sand and look at it, and the efficiency is very low.

Instead of spending energy on your own disgusting and not sure if there is a future, it is better to do what you like well.

Wu Jun said in the book:

Our life is limited. Whether it is doing things or associated with others. If we want to improve efficiency, the correct approach will always pick up the large particles directly from the mineral sand, instead of picked out every piece of gold in the mineral sand out. Essence

In this world, there are a lot of opportunities. If you are afraid of losing opportunities, you will consider everything you encounter and screen it again, and the efficiency will be too low.

Because of the screening and judgment, it has to spend a lot of time, resources and energy.

If we save time spending on things that are not interested, we will have more time to do what we really love, and the efficiency will be higher.

Knowing what to pay attention to and seeing what you need to see is the key to improving the motivation.

Life is limited. Learn to give up to make the boat of life better.

mutual encouragement.

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