My sister is difficult to give birth to the death, my sister and my brother -in -law reorganize the family, and the two responded publicly
Author:Harbin Daily Time:2022.09.18
Sister is difficult to give birth to death and leave a pair of children
In order to take care of the two poor children
Choose a new family with your brother -in -law
recently
The story of Li Diao and Han Jiantao in Bozhou, Anhui
Treating attention online
Li Diao explained her thoughts to the reporter:
"My sister and I have no father in my teens
Living in an incomplete family
Don't want to let two children again
There is an incomplete childhood ""
she says
She will work hard to take care of the two children
You can afford the children who call her every mother
At present, although the two have formed a family for three years
But there is no wedding or a marriage certificate
"Wait for the future economic conditions to be fine
I will make up a beautiful wedding for the drift "
Han Jiantao said
Women are difficult to produce and leave a pair of children
At the end of 2012, Han Jiantao, a 23 -year -old young man in Anhui, married Li Minmin, the same age, and established a new family. Soon after the wedding, the two went to a clothing factory in Pinghu, Zhejiang. In order to increase the income, after get off work, the young couple often set up a stall on the side of the road, from evening to late at night.
"When Minmin was a teenager, her father died in a car accident. Min Min had four younger sisters and a younger brother. The conditions at home were very bad. She was willing to work hard." Han Jiantao recalled.
In 2014, Han Jiantao and Li Minmin's family ushered in new members, and their sons were born. In 2016, Li Minmin returned to his hometown to give birth after another pregnancy. In order to pay off the 160,000 yuan foreign debt owed by the new house at an early date, Han Jiantao stayed in Zhejiang to work.
Because her mother -in -law was in poor health, she couldn't stay up late. During her pregnancy, Li Minmin had been taking care of by the big sister Li Diaiao.
Unexpectedly, the bad luck came, Li Minmin suffered difficulty in giving birth to a second child. "The doctor and the family did their best. In the end, only the daughter was kept, and the adults could not be kept." Han Jiantao recalled the scene at the time and was still sad.
The wife who got along with each other said that it was gone. Han Jiantao couldn't accept such reality for a while. He once suspected that he had depression, his speech became unnatural, and has not fully returned to normal.
Later, Han Jiantao took two young children from Anhui to Jiangsu, and his mother -in -law and aunt Li drifted by his mother -in -law and aunt Li. "At that time, the son was 3 years old and his daughter was just born. His life was particularly difficult. Thanks to the drift and his mother -in -law to help take care of it." Han Jiantao said that this care is more than two years.
Li Diaohe Children (Picture Source: Screenshot of Video of the Interviewee)
Auntie and brother -in -law reorganize the family only for two nephews to have a complete childhood
Li Diaoyao took care of the two children, both aunt and mother.
"My daughter has drifted since I was born, and kept drifting called her mother. In 2020, the son changed his mouth and called her mother." Han Jiantao said that his daughter was very similar to the drift. Others think they are a pair of pro -mother and daughter.
One day in 2019, his mother -in -law called Han Jiantao and Li drifting in front of him, proposed to form a new family. "After hearing this, no one we saw, it was embarrassing and awkward, and there was no psychological preparation at all, because I never thought so." Han Jiantao said that his mother -in -law had never discussed with them before. They carefully considered this suggestion and finally recognized.
About a week later, Han Jiantao, Li Diao and his mother -in -law returned to his hometown in Anhui. The elders on both sides sat together simply for a meal, even if they became home. "We have no wedding. When the economic conditions are good, I want to make up a meaningful wedding for the drift." Han Jiantao felt owed from the bottom of his heart.
Li Diao said that her requirements are simple, and hoping to take a beautiful wedding photo in the future.
Han Jiantao told reporters that although he and Li Diao formed a new family, the two did not receive a marriage certificate. "Actually, it is not troublesome to apply for a certificate, but I want to leave the drift to leave the road. I am afraid that I can set up a new family at that time in case of something wrong. Marriage. "Han Jiantao explained this way.
Li Diao said, he lost his father since he was a child and lived in an incomplete family. She doesn't want to let the two children have an incomplete childhood, which is the main reason why she is willing to form a new family with her brother -in -law.
Han Jiantao was grateful for Li Diao, saying that she was a child and his great man. They did not want their own children. Many people advised Li Drifting to have one. She always replied: "Now the conditions at home are not good. First take care of the two children, let them read well, grow up, and talk about it. ","
"I hope my sister can rest assured in the sky"
The aunt's married brother -in -law is controversial whether it is reality or on the Internet.
"Rather than letting everyone talk about it behind, we might as well talk about themselves boldly." In May 2022, Han Jiantao and Li Diao posted the first video online, and they chose to publicly respond online in this way.
After the video was released, some netizens expressed their understanding, sending them blessings, praising Li Diao, and advising her to have her own biological children as soon as possible. However, some netizens believe that the establishment of a new family for the formation of a new family is against morality and ethics.
"If you don't do something wrong, you are not afraid of words." Han Jiantao said that in order to take care of the children and give the children a complete home, they no longer go out to work, but chose to live and bring goods at home. He is responsible for making Taomu handicrafts, and Li Diao is responsible for selling goods online.
"On the one hand, I speak unnaturally; on the other hand, there are often netizens who said some swear words during live broadcasts. The live broadcast. "Han Jiantao introduced that now they live for seven or eight hours a day, and their income is not very stable. When they are less, they can earn more than 100 yuan, and they can reach four or five hundred yuan. "We have no talent. Although some companies are optimistic about cooperating with us, we want to make a solid money and raise a child." Han Jiantao said.
Han Jiantao is responsible for making handmade (picture source: screenshot of the respondent video)
Li Diao said that she would work with Han Jiantao to take care of the two children, and she would be able to deal with each mother who called her.
"Although I can't give their real motherly love, I will always accompany them until the brothers and sisters will start a business. I hope my sister can rest assured in heaven." Li Diao said. (Han Jiantao, Li Minmin, and Li Diao in the text are all pseudals)
Source: Jimu News
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