At the age of 58, "escape" aunt Su Min: ETC will be asked by her husband after ETC, and the divorce has not had time to talk about

Two years after living outside, Su Min returned home.

Choosing back is not because of being tired of playing, or any other reason, but "just passing Zhengzhou, the children came to me in August, and I also sent them back by the way."

On September 14, she posted a video saying that she lived in her daughter's house now.

In 2020, 58 -year -old Su Min walked out of the house, drove a car, with a tent on the roof, and embarked on the road of self -driving tour.

She said in her video that from marriage to the present, the couple have been economically AA. Sometimes I use the husband's ETC to run at a high speed, and he will ask her to ask for money. "I don't feel like we are like a family, and I feel very troublesome to live with him."

After the grandchildren went to kindergarten, she decided to "escape" and play with a person outside.

This is two years.

Many people praise Su Min's courage and admire her dare to pursue herself at this age. Some people think that she is "throwing a husband and abandonment."

Come back, Su Min said that she wanted to divorce.

On September 16, Su Min told reporters that because of her shoulder pain, she was being treated in the hospital, so the divorce had not yet had time to talk to her husband, but the idea of ​​divorce was firm.

"Actually, we do n’t have to divorce now. It seems that it is not very different. We have no economic exchanges early. The only common economy is that house. Another, we have been separated for so long, and we feel that there is no hindrance. "she says.

As far as her, there is no marriage that has long been a common topic, and there is no need to continue. "If you separate, I think we may leave a better space for each other, which is good for everyone."

Su Min's daughter expressed support for divorce. In her impression, Dad is relatively strong and often bully her mother. "I don't think it is necessary to make up like this, and you don't spend his money. Why do you make it like him?" The daughter said.

Two years ago, Su Min decided to travel. To this day, Su Min's daughter still feels incredible.

For her mother's decision, she was in a complicated mood, but later saw that her mother had a good life outside, so she let go of her worries and instead support her. She feels that her mother is good to travel, "I can see more things."

For Su Min, in the past two years, she became more free and confident.

In the conversation, Su Min repeatedly mentioned "freedom". This "freedom" may be that she eats whatever she wants to eat, and work if she wants to work. It may also be that she doesn't have to worry about what food to prepare for her family today.

She and the reporter shared some experiences in the past two years, talked about her favorite Xishuangbanna, talked about the donkey friends along the way, and talked about her self -media.

On the way, on the one hand, she felt that there was plenty of time, "Because we have been on the road, this time I can't go, the next year is the same, I will not feel regret, regret."

On the other hand, she also lamented that time urged people, "If we stop, we may stop for one year and one year. So while the body is okay, run as much as possible, cultivate sentiment, exercise the body, and be full of eyes. ","

She said she was very satisfied with her current life.

She said she was going to the road.

Dialogue

[1] Divorce: Separation is good for each other

Jiupai News: Do you say that your shoulder hurts, did you go to the doctor?

Su Min: After seeing, it was stretched on the shoulder. Before I took a lot of things, it may be tired. It may take about ten days to do physiotherapy now. It was not too serious once before.

Jiupai News: When I went home now, when did I come back?

Su Min: I came back in the Mid -Autumn Festival, because I just passed by Zhengzhou, and the children came to me in August, and I sent them back by the way. My children often come to me. I have been here once in the Chinese New Year, and this summer is here again.

Jiupai News: After returning this time, do you say you want to divorce?

Su Min: I think so, but I have not officially talked about it because of treating my arm now.

Jiupai News: Will you worry that your husband does not agree?

Su Min: Because we haven't talked about it, there will be any results, and I can't say.

In fact, it doesn't seem to be very different from the divorce. We have no economic relationships early. The only common economy is that house. Another one, we separated for so long, and felt nothing hindered.

Jiupai News: If divorce, what are the plans in the future?

Su Min: I'm okay now, so I can continue to live. When she was so old, her daughter said that she asked me to come back, and she was filial.

Jiupai News: Will divorce be worried about the pressure of public opinion?

Su Min: There must be concerns in this regard, but I think life is my own. What others say are the opinions of others and cannot represent you, and you do what you think.

In my video, we (referring to my husband) have no common language at all, and sometimes quarrel. If we separate, I think we may leave a better space for each other, which is good for everyone.

[2] On the road: not to find restraint, but to find freedom

Jiupai News: Do you plan to go out alone?

Su Min: When the arm is cured, talk to my husband again, and then go out after talking.

The next stop may continue to the south, because the north has begun to be cold at the end of September, and the south is warm.

Jiupai News: Where do you like the best place to go to so many places?

Su Min: I like Xishuangbanna in Yunnan the most, where winter is more comfortable. In the New Year, I stayed there for almost two months. The climate is very comfortable and the cost of life is relatively low. Jiupai News: You mentioned in the video, often with your partners, how do you get along with? What are you talking about when you are together?

Su Min: We get along well. We rarely talk about things at home. Unless someone is willing to say, we will not talk about it. Some things may arouse the bad memories of others. I don't want to talk about my family myself.

We usually talk, where are you going, what beautiful scenery we meet, for example, I think this place is good, you have been there, if you have n’t been, I recommend it to you if you have n’t been. There are some places after they recommend it before I went.

Because from different regions, there are differences in life, and we will not force everyone to eat or do anything together. Or do you do it and share it with each other.

Jiupai News: Are they respect each other's habit?

Su Min: That's it. When we come out to travel, we are not looking for restraint, but looking for freedom. No one can say that for everyone to live together, they hide their hobbies.

The journey is not ending in a day or two. We have been on the road for a long time. No one will wronged ourselves. We can walk together for a while, and we cannot separate.

Jiupai News: When the next stop is the next stop?

Su Min: It may be to listen to a friend's introduction, saying that it is good to go. There are also planning at the beginning.

With other people, there will be differences in, but we will walk together in the same opinion. Maybe one day later, we met again and walked together.

Jiupai News: Will you feel like you have a long time to meet again?

Su Min: There is no feeling. The donkey friends on the road seemed to be normal, and everyone was used to it.

Jiupai News: Do you prefer to travel with others, or are you alone?

Su Min: I prefer myself. Because a person is more free.

[3] Mental: I feel that I am very capable, and I rely on myself

Jiupai News: In the past two years of traveling, what changes in their own mentality?

Su Min: I feel that my state of mind will be a little better than before, so I don't have to consider complicated things.

For example, when you are at home, you have to think about cooking for your family, and you have to worry about this spicy food. Now come out, I want to do whatever I want, and it is more free. And after coming out, many things have to be done by themselves, and they feel that they are very capable and more confident.

Jiupai News: Because of the epidemic and other reasons, the place where you want to go can not go for the time being. Will this situation regret?

Su Min: No, like this, just go later, I will change the place first.

Because we have been on the road, we can't go this time, the next year is the same, and we will not feel regrets, regrets. Driving a RV is equivalent to bringing my own home, not rushing, and not tired. I don't want to leave, I stop, because I have a house to live at any time.

Jiupai News: Some people say that if you get away from the previous environment to do what you like, people will find themselves. Do you have this feeling?

Su Min: Yes, when traveling outside, some people want to see the scenery. Some people want to change the climate, and some people just want to be self -media. I came out because I liked travel. I used to walk everywhere, but I did n’t have that time and money, and I did n’t have that ability. Every time I saw others going out on the Internet, I was very envious.

Jiupai News: When traveling outside, which moment will it feel very happy?

Su Min: When I was outside, I felt very happy. What I wanted to eat, I worked if I wanted to work.

[4] Later: I don't want to stop, I want to keep on the road

Jiupai News: I have been living for two years. Have you ever thought about stop?

Su Min: No, I feel pretty good outside, just adapt to my own life model, I don't want to stop.

If you do n’t wait for someone at this age, if we stop, we may stop for one year and one year. So while your body is okay, try to run as many places as possible, cultivate sentiment, exercise, and be full of eyes.

Jiupai News: Some people want to live after watching your deeds. What suggestions do you have?

Su Min: For those who have never tried, I suggest that it is best to try short -term travel around the city where he is located. Some people may not be suitable for life outside, so it is best to try first.

Jiupai News: Do your current income mainly come from advertising?

Su Min: Yes, advertising is to subsidize tolls and fuel costs within the scope that he can do. After changing a RV this year, the oil cost is really expensive. I don't want to reach out to find children for these expenses, so I have to earn myself.

Jiupai News: My daughter says that you have a good learning ability, like video editing, etc. It is all of you to do it by yourself. Is it difficult to learn these new things?

Su Min: It is not easy anyway, it also takes some energy, but if you do it seriously, you can do it. Don't set a limit for yourself, feel that you ca n’t learn when you are older. In fact, people should live even more. This can keep up with the pace of the times. If everything depends on the child, the child will be annoying.

I like to learn, I do n’t want to be an outdated person. I hope that when I know others, or when talking to others, I wo n’t understand anything.Jiupai News: Looking back in the past two years, will you feel that life has changed a lot?

Su Min: I haven't thought about what will happen in the future, because the future is unpredictable. Only by walking, can I know how difficult it is or smoothly.

I did n’t know that it would be like this now, just like I was doing self -media, and I did n’t want to do much at the beginning. I can earn a toll.

I am very satisfied with the current state of life.

(Source: Jiupai journalist Wen Yanli Huang Jialiangwen's pictures are provided by the respondents)

【Edit: Wang Rongfei】

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