My sister is difficult to give birth to the family and my brother -in -law reorganized family: I just want to make two poor nephews have a complete childhood

Author:Pole news Time:2022.09.17

Jimu Journalist Ding Wei

Video editing Ding Wei

Sister died and left a pair of children. In order to take care of the two poor children, the sister chose to form a new family with her brother -in -law. The story of Li Diao and Han Jiantao from Bozhou, Anhui, attracted attention online.

Li Diaoyu Xiangji's journalist explained her thoughts: "My sister and I have no father in their teens. They live in an incomplete family and don't want to let the two children have an incomplete childhood." She said She will work hard to take care of the two children and be worthy of the children who call her mother.

At present, although the two have established a family for three years, they have not held a wedding or a marriage certificate. "When the economic conditions are good in the future, I will make up a beautiful wedding for the drift." Han Jiantao said.

Han Jiantao and Li Diaoling (Source: Screenshot of Video of the Interviewee)

The woman died for a hard time, leaving a pair of children

At the end of 2012, Han Jiantao, a 23 -year -old young man in Anhui, married Li Minmin, the same age, and established a new family. Soon after the wedding, the two went to a clothing factory in Pinghu, Zhejiang. In order to increase the income, after get off work, the young couple often set up a stall on the side of the road, from evening to late at night.

"When Minmin was a teenager, her father died in a car accident. Min Min had four younger sisters and a younger brother. The conditions at home were very bad. She was willing to work hard." Han Jiantao recalled.

In 2014, Han Jiantao and Li Minmin's family ushered in new members, and their sons were born. In 2016, Li Minmin returned to his hometown to give birth after another pregnancy. In order to pay off the 160,000 yuan foreign debt owed by the new house at an early date, Han Jiantao stayed in Zhejiang to work.

Because her mother -in -law was in poor health, she couldn't stay up late. During her pregnancy, Li Minmin had been taking care of by the big sister Li Diaiao.

Unexpectedly, the bad luck came, Li Minmin suffered difficulty in giving birth to a second child. "The doctor and the family did their best. In the end, only the daughter was kept, and the adults could not be kept." Han Jiantao recalled the scene at the time and was still sad.

The wife who got along with each other said that it was gone, and a good family broke up instantly. Han Jiantao couldn't accept such reality for a while, and borrowed sorrow through wine. He once suspected that he had depression, his speech became unnatural, and has not fully returned to normal.

Later, Han Jiantao took two young children from Anhui to Jiangsu, and his mother -in -law and aunt Li drifted by his mother -in -law and aunt Li. "At that time, the son was 3 years old and his daughter was just born. His life was particularly difficult. Thanks to the drift and his mother -in -law to help take care of it." Han Jiantao said that this care is more than two years.

Li Diaohe Children (Picture Source: Screenshot of Video of the Interviewee)

Auntie and brother -in -law reorganize the family, only for two nephews to have a complete childhood

Li Diaoyao took care of the two children, both aunt and mother.

"My daughter has drifted since I was born, and kept drifting called her mother. In 2020, the son changed his mouth and called her mother." Han Jiantao said that his daughter was very similar to the drift. Others think they are a pair of pro -mother and daughter.

One day in 2019, his mother -in -law called Han Jiantao and Li drifting in front of him, proposed to form a new family. "After hearing this, no one we saw, it was embarrassing and awkward, and there was no psychological preparation at all, because I never thought so." Han Jiantao said that his mother -in -law had never discussed with them before. They carefully considered this suggestion and finally recognized.

About a week later, Han Jiantao, Li Diao and his mother -in -law returned to his hometown in Anhui. The elders on both sides sat together simply for a meal, even if they became home. "We have no wedding. When the economic conditions are good, I want to make up a meaningful wedding for the drift." Han Jiantao felt owed from the bottom of his heart.

Li Diao said that her requirements are simple, and hoping to take a beautiful wedding photo in the future.

Han Jiantao told Jimu Journalists that although he and Li Diao formed a de facto new family, the two did not obtain a marriage certificate. "Actually, it is not troublesome to apply for a certificate, only a few dollars, but I want to leave the drift to leave the road. I am afraid that I can set up a new family at that time in case of something wrong. She has not married in the law. "Han Jiantao explained.

Li Diao said, he lost his father since he was a child and lived in an incomplete family. She doesn't want to let the two children have an incomplete childhood, which is the main reason why she is willing to form a new family with her brother -in -law. Han Jiantao was grateful for Li Diao, saying that she was a child and his great man. They did not want their own children. Many people advised Li Drifting to have one. She always replied: "Now the conditions at home are not good. First take care of the two children, let them read well, grow up, and talk about it. ","

"I hope my sister can rest assured in the sky"

The aunt's married brother -in -law is controversial whether it is reality or on the Internet.

"Rather than letting everyone talk about it behind, we might as well talk about themselves boldly." In May 2022, Han Jiantao and Li Diao posted the first video online, and they chose to publicly respond online in this way.

After the video was released, some netizens expressed their understanding, sending them blessings, praising Li Diao, and advising her to have her own biological children as soon as possible. However, some netizens believe that the establishment of a new family for the formation of a new family is against morality and ethics.

"If you don't do something wrong, you are not afraid of words." Han Jiantao said that in order to take care of the children and give the children a complete home, they no longer go out to work, but chose to live and bring goods at home. He is responsible for making Taomu handicrafts, and Li Diao is responsible for selling goods online.

"On the one hand, I speak unnaturally; on the other hand, there are often netizens who said some swear words during live broadcasts. The live broadcast. "Han Jiantao introduced that now they live for seven or eight hours a day, and their income is not very stable. When they are less, they can earn more than 100 yuan, and they can reach four or five hundred yuan. "We have no talent. Although some companies are optimistic about cooperating with us, we want to make a solid money and raise a child." Han Jiantao said.

Han Jiantao is responsible for making handmade (picture source: screenshot of the respondent video)

Li Diao said that she would work with Han Jiantao to take care of the two children, and she would be able to deal with each mother who called her. "Although I can't give their real motherly love, I will always accompany them until the brothers and sisters will start a business. I hope my sister can rest assured in heaven." Li Diao said.

A family of four (picture source: screenshot of the interviewee)