Big Love!Paralyzed her husband for the paralyzed husband for 14 years.
Author:Ningbo Evening News Time:2022.09.16
In Xingshan Village, Huangjiabu Town, Yuyao City, Zhejiang Province, when it comes to Shen Xingxian, the villagers are unknown and no one knows. Over the past 14 years, she has worked hard and resents, and she has taken care of high -paraplegia husbands, and silently supports a warm home with a weak body.
Husband's plunging causes high paraplegia and paraplegia
Shen Xingxian is 65 years old, and her husband He Hai Miao is 68 years old. 42 years ago, the two were consecutive, and had a son, and the family lived a bland and happy life.
However, one day in 2008, a doom came to the family. On that day, when He Haimiao, who was doing the mud watermaker, did not work accidentally from the construction site and fell from the second floor. He saved his life, but caused a permanent high paraplegia. After discharging, He Haimiao's body was paralyzed from the bottom of the neck. Only his mouth could speak, his head could shake, and he was not in the bed all day or on a wheelchair.
He Hai Miao was 54 years old at that year, and it was the pillar of the family. After the accident, he not only lost his ability to work, but also lost his ability to take care of himself. The burden of the family was all pressed on Shen Xingxian and his son. Fortunately, the son is an adult and a source of economic sources, Shen Xingxian secretly resolved, no matter how hard it is, he must support this family.
At about 5:30 in the morning, Shen Xingxian got up to burn breakfast first; then take care of her husband to get up: change the urine, brush his teeth, wash his face, and feed; then clean the family and do rehabilitation training for her husband. After busy, 2 hours passed. If there is no food at home, she has to go to the streets to buy food, and then prepare lunch. In the afternoon, she will give her husband an hour of rehabilitation training, and then prepare dinner to feed and wash her husband.
Shen Xingxian massaged the legs for her husband
"It was very difficult at first. I had no care, and I couldn't do anything well, which caused bedsores to grow." Speaking of this, Shen Xingxian wiped tears with his hands. Later, she slowly learned daily care such as turning over, massage, toilet, and enema. She also carried her husband on the wheelchair in his spare time, pushed it outside to bask in the sun, chat with his neighbors, and diverted his emotions.
For a long time, He Haimiao often cramps. Therefore, even in the middle of the night, Shen Xingxian woke up every two or three hours, turned his body, pinch his legs, rub his hands, and minimize his pain.
During this day, year after year, Shen Xingxian has persisted for 14 years. Regardless of your body is uncomfortable, thunder can't move every day.
Shen Xingxian washing his face for her husband
Her biggest wish is that her husband can live
"Wife like Xingxian can't find the second one when I lanterns."
"Xingxian is really good, take care of her husband carefully, and has not complained for more than 10 years. Our neighbors are looking at it."
"I think such a good wife only watch on TV, but I didn't expect it to be in reality."
Native
When I came to Xingshan Village, talking about Shen Xingxian, all the villagers praised.
"As long as he is alive, this home is complete, we are always happy." Whenever the villagers asked Shen Xingxian who was not tired and suffering, she always answered like this.
After He Hai Miao was paralyzed, some people persuaded Shen Xingxian, "You're not forgetting, why bother." In this regard, she answered firmly: "What should I do if I leave this house? Who will say that in the future, I will turn my face with whom." From then on, no one mentioned this sentence. Some people also proposed to send He Haimiao to the home for the elderly. She said, "You can go, but go together."
He Haimiao also had a bad mood, but Shen Xingxian always laughed and said, "He is harder than me. It doesn't matter if he says a few words. Which family is not contradictory, and who does not mix on the couple, I will not go to my heart. "
Shen Xingxian pushed the wheelchair and took her husband to disperse outside
Not looking forward to rehabilitation, this is the biggest wish of Shen Xingxian. Now the husband's life signs are good and the complexion is rosy. This is her greatest comfort. "Some people say that I have suffered, but if things have happened, they must be accepted frankly. As long as he is at home, it will not matter how difficult it is." Shen Xingxian said firmly.
Reporter He Yan Correspondent Zhu Yifei
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