"Fleeing Housewives" Su Min, who can't explore another life for who can not replace

Zhejiang News Client commentator Zhang Ping

How can a woman who completes her mother live? Su Min, a 58 -year -old in Zhengzhou, Henan, has gone out of different ways. Two years ago, she decided to escape from a depressed marriage, drove a car, and opened a person to travel. Two years later, when she walked home after nearly 200 cities, she decided to divorce. Su Min made a heart -even if she was in a litigation, even if she was out of the house, she had to let each other. This idea made her attract countless eyes again.

From the return to the return to the plan to cut a seat with her husband, Su Min's choice allows so many people to watch, because her experience reflects a typical social problem, that is, women who lose themselves in marriage. Find yourself? Many people see the shadow of women or women in her or family. But Su Min found his own resistance.

In the past few decades of marriage, Su Min has been waiting for it. After completing the "prescribed actions" of being a wife, raising children, and bringing good grandson, she finally chose to run in middle -aged -she used an atypical way, she Breaking through the lives of the typical unfortunate blessing, it is inevitable that people will be mixed with surprise and envy.

The booming self -media in the times provides her with the guarantee of leaving material, and has spread her deeds wider. As a result, after "Nara ran away", he really harvested a free mood and a happy journey. This is the era of we are in, and the new ending that can write for "Nala's running" is undoubtedly gratifying.

Now, Su Min has made a decision to divorce. Some people began to tease her "for two years, and returning to divorce", and some people sarcastically "went out to meet the world, some fans held it, and felt that she was terrible." A little unkind. When she became popular, she repeatedly emphasized that she was not "escaping". After returning home, she was determined to divorce. It was her decision based on her own life experience, not who's script. Regardless of whether it is in line with Volkswagen's expectations, it is her personal rights. Public opinion should not be kidnapped or encouraged, nor can it be responsible for her life.

Some people say that Su Min's story is like a reality show that lasted two years, and everyone saw themselves from this show. In a wider sense, her story reflects more than only women's issues, but the dilemma of human beings. The conflict between traditional concepts and free thoughts, the conflict between the social role and the real heart, the conflict between love and loneliness, etc. Many people want to take a look. Is this middle -aged woman who has no culture and savings, whether it can explore another one in life Possibly. There is a saying that although it cannot be arrived, the heart is going. Slowly, the onlookers seemed to have a real connection with her out, as if her choice was also responsible for the public. This is wrong. Su Min has no ability and no one has this ability.

There is a classic word in "Shawshank's Redemption": What really trapped a person is not the cage of steel casting, but a high wall standing in his heart. There are a variety of dilemma of people, and the "siege" of marriage is only the most eye -catching. In essence, breaking through various restrictions to pursue the true meaning of life and the truth of life is the impulse hidden in everyone's heart. No one can replace this process of exploration. Su Min used her own way to find her beam of light, overcoming many difficulties that everyone could not see, and giving many people the courage to change. We are all willing to bless her to continue on this road to find their own happiness, but this road may not be replicated, and she must be controlled by herself.

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