The 58 -year -old Su Min returned for two years: divorce, and they were free

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How can a woman who completes her mother live? Su Min, a 58 -year -old in Zhengzhou, Henan, has gone out of different ways.

Two years ago, in the autumn, he was trapped in a marriage without temperature for many years. After retirement, Su Min used a self -driving tour to find "redemption" with an unreasonable self -driving tour. She is no longer her daughter, wife, and grandmother. She strives to make herself. Instead, she has become popular. She has become a "awakening" female representative image on the Internet, which has changed the popular impression of the general public about middle -aged and elderly women.

In the past two years, Su Min went into Qinling, crossing Yunnan, and down Hainan, eating dipped in water in Shaanxi, and watching the train through the residential building in Chongqing ... I felt "the wind is free." In the fall of 2022, Su Min, who walked alone in nearly 200 cities, returned to Zhengzhou. Faced with her husband and family who still had no temperature, she was 58 -year -old decided to divorce and still be free to each other.

This is another difficult road. Su Min said that one was to predict her husband's disagreement, and because of the loss of the marriage certificate, they needed to make a marriage certificate before applying for a divorce certificate. But Su Min ironed his heart -even if he was in a litigation, even if he went out of the house, he had to let each other.

Return

Su Min under the camera is a kind and pro -pro -relative. He is not tall, a round face, and his laughter is like a dusty bean crackling. At first glance, it looks like a neighbor who lives in the next door with his grandson. But on the Internet, she is a well -known figure in the fans of the entire platform. These achievements are the results of the two years after the retirement of Su Min's calendar, and even she can't even imagine it.

On September 8, 2022, on the eve of the Mid -Autumn Festival, Su Min returned to Zhengzhou's home for the first time two years after leaving home. After returning home, she visited the 80 -year -old mother, younger brother, brother -in -law and other family members, and spent this Mid -Autumn Festival with her daughter -in -law's grandson.

Su Min said that her mother had always lived with her younger brother and was healthy, and she could help see the child. This also allows her to go out to travel with peace of mind. After meeting again two years, Su Min and his mother embraced each other tightly. Mother supports her daughter to travel by car, but her words reveal that they are worried about Su Min's safety. "((You) are also 60 -year -old people, and they still drift outside. Other things. "Su Min hugged his mother and kept weeping:" It's okay, don't you want to read it, mom. "

When I came back this time, Su Min was mostly staying at her daughter's son -in -law's house. The two grandsons were over 5 years old, and they would go to elementary school in two years. Two years away from home, she cherishes the days when the family is together, and is ready to take care of her dishes to express her heart.

The kitchen is still the home of Su Min.

One day, she decided to make a pot of fragrant nepeta soup for her family, drilled into the kitchen to wash the nepeta cut tomato and wash the gluten, and quickly made a pot of soup. She also made chili fried eggs, fried bean sprouts, etc. "For two years on the road, I haven't eaten my hometown cuisine for a long time." Su Min tasted the long -lost hometown flavor and enjoyed rare reunion.

The daughter remembered Su Min's body, after all, her mother was almost 60 years old.

Because Su Min had previously damaged her arm, she had seen a doctor while traveling in Yungui. Her daughter strongly asked to take her to find an expert in Zhengzhou to seek medical treatment. "Physiotherapy, acupuncture, concentrate on cure the arm." This is the plan to return after Su Min returned.

emotion

When I went home this time, in addition to visiting her family, Su Min also had an important purpose, to want to communicate with her husband in the future.

In fact, the reason why Su Min's self -driving tour has received great relationship with her life attitude and emotional state.

She had publicly talked about the original intention of "fleeing" alone to escape the family -in her family life in the past few decades, Su Min, like all women, played the role of wife, mother, and grandmother. However, when she was young, she had frequently quarreled and fighting when she was young. After an old age, she had nothing to say and could not talk about it together, and even consumed the AA system, prompting her to find her "redemption".

For two years, Su Min's emotional state has been attracting attention from netizens. Since 2020, Elephant Journalists have interviewed Su Min many times. Each time she asked whether her relationship with her husband had improved, she always said in a calm tone that the two had no contact. "Nothing to talk about, there was nothing to say. The two loved to lift the bar as soon as they spoke, why bother?"

Su Min said that he had left for two years, and his husband did not take the initiative to pass it. Therefore, she was also embarrassed on the way home, fearing that she was still the home without temperature. The car drove into Henan Province, and she even wanted to turn around.

On September 11, Su Min and her husband met with her daughter's house. According to the video that Su Min met with her husband, the atmosphere of getting along was very nervous. The husband saw Su Min and said, "Do you still know how to come back?" In the face of myself, I said again: "What to shoot, I am not afraid of taking pictures."

So she decided to divorce.

"He is usually like that. If you are unhappy, you will say two sentences." On the afternoon of September 14, Su Min told Elephant Journalists that she was going to propose a divorce to her husband. "If he agrees, I agree. If I disagree, I will sue divorce. We have no property disputes. I bought the car by myself. There is a house at home. He wants to give him The idea of ​​divorce.

The reason why he was so firm at the age of 58 to divorce, Su Min said that the two could not resonate at all. Since both people are painful, they might as well be free to each other. But this is destined to be a difficult road. Su Min said that one was to predict her husband's disagreement. Secondly, because of the loss of marriage certificate, she needed to make a marriage certificate before applying for a divorce certificate. Without her feelings, she had to get a marriage certificate to make her "weird".

But she was iron -hearted -even if she went out of the house, even if she was in the lawsuit, she had to let each other.

Go towards light, become light

Emotional dissonance has prompted Su Min to find a breakthrough in emotion. She used a journey to embrace freedom and found a lot of humanity.

Two years ago, Su Min drove the car with the bedding alone on the road, and the destination was the warm south. Her pension was 2380 yuan per month, and before leaving home, she brought 2,000 yuan. After departure, Su Min uploaded a video that had just learned to explore, sitting in a car to tell the camera about his mind. It was a gray -faced woman image.

In the past two years, she entered the Qinling Mountains, crossed Yunnan, and went down Hainan, ate dipped in water in Shaanxi, and watched the train through the residential building in Chongqing ... self -driving more than 80,000 kilometers and walked nearly 200 cities. In Qinling, walking on the Panshan Highway, which even the old driver was afraid of three points, Su Min said that "the wind is free." For the first time, I ate dipped in water in Shaanxi, surfed on the seaside of Hainan for the first time, and the first time I watched the train through the residential building in Chongqing ... Yunnan, Tibet, Xinjiang, Guangxi, Hainan, Shanghai ... Go down her footprint. Su Min took the scenery and feelings on the road and recorded the moment with short videos.

Now that two years have passed, Su Min has changed to laughter, and sometimes he has giving himself a delicate makeup, and his eyebrows are free and easy.

Before departure, her daughter was Su Min's fifth fan, and now the fans of the entire platform have reached more than 2 million; she took advertisements, publish books, learn from English, English, live broadcast, and bought the long -lasting RV; Leaving, but the family became her strong backing on the road -her daughter was responsible for cutting the video, her son -in -law became her agent, everything was getting better.

Su Min said that she was ready to go to Hebei after eleven, and the C6 driver's license was her goal. Then continue to travel by car.

She once said in a public speech: "My first half of my life was trapped in the tunnel, and I couldn't feel light. Later, I chased it until it appeared in my life. I have been discovering the light all the way, chasing the light. "

Now Su Min has been chasing the light and is working hard to become light. "In the past two years, I really have passed the mode of life I want. You can leave if you want to leave. , I just forgot myself. "

Su Min said that her future is still on the way.

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