Cover comment | Jump out of the network social anxiety, let the intergenerational reconciliation be available

□ Jiang Yanzheng

During the transition period, family relationships, intergenerational relations, often the focus of public attention. Under the "spotlight" of the new media, intergenerational differences and conflicts have been enlarged infinitely. Intergenerational relations are the epitome of social relations. What major to choose in college? After graduating, stay in a big city or go back to his hometown? When will you be married? Scientific parenting or experience? Do you like the network circle you like? Will you open the health information reposted by the elders? Different ways to look at the topic in intergenerational not only increase the possibility of misunderstanding, but also reduce the frequency of communication. (Guangming Daily)

It is more difficult than digital gaps. In reality, the intergenerational communication occurs, and it is often ended with the ending of intergenerational conflicts. Between older parents and new generations of children, it seems that they can't understand each other and cannot compromise with each other. Over time, "looking at each other" replaced the warmth. The distance between the two sides is pulled further than the space distance between the two places. Some people have become the "fear of returning people", and they have a shielding of their families in the circle of friends -digital communication medium, not only without promoting communication, it seems to play the opposite role. The status quo is so sighing.

Many young people lamented that almost every major issue was on the left with their parents, including and not limited to further education, career selection, marriage, and parenting. This is by no means a coincidence, but has a series of inevitable attribution. Although intergenerational differences exist in each age, it must be seen that today's intergenerational differences are larger than ever before. Between this young man and their parents, the growth environment, educational background, cultural identity, and value belief are all very different. In essence, this is the projection of the times, while the individual is a concrete carrier of the time axis vertical "difference".

This generation is different from the previous generation. In the digital age, various technical tools and community media have deeply enlarged this heterogeneity. In the Internet ecology, the friction and confrontation between groups are normal. Similar people are attracted to each other. In constant collection and groups, they quietly strengthen themselves and are paranoid, so there is a so -called "same temperature resonance" phenomenon. The elderly have the circles of the elderly, and sharing all kinds of true and false health essays with each other are always amazing and worried; young people have young people groups, they are happy to stick themselves to various fashionables. "Tags", sharing the latest pop words, hustle and bustle ...

In the context of the digital era, the personalized feeding of thousands of people has made us "more ourselves", and at the same time, we slowly lose our emphasis on the same reason and lose our heart than the heart. Between the father and the children, the situation is very different, the sadness and joy are not interacting, and the alienation seems to be a fate. Is it true like that? It should be noted that intergenerational communication is still internal affairs of the family. Regardless of the external environment and the overall trend, we should finally work hard and do our heart, and talk with our parents for a while, a little more patience, and more daily high -frequency interaction, then at least more than ourselves. In words, intergenerational reconciliation and harmony are accessible.

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