When love is gone, after crying, scolding, and hate, the most important thing is to thank yourself!

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Foreword

When love leaves yourself, have you ever thought of thanks except for pain?

Some people, when she came out of her feelings and had new love, she was grateful to the one who forgotten her and abandon herself.

It is a minority in such a state, because most people have experienced emotional setbacks, often entering the next relationship with traces of trauma, and will show the sequelae of trauma in the new relationship.

Therefore, my opinion is that in general, don't talk nonsense. It is the fact that you are injured. You do n’t have an exaggeration to vent this, such as scolding, busting your feet, and splashing like a vixen.

Of course, if you feel that you have a demeanor and temperament, you can only be alone, or a secluded space, or choose a high -cold treatment method.

02

When Xiao Ai and I cried about her grief, she was in the story of her love relationship just over.

Xiao Ai and her boyfriend are college classmates. This love was pursued by Xiao Ai.

Because Xiao Ai lost her father since she was a child, she longed for a gentle and tolerant boy to take care of her.

When her boyfriend appeared, it was her father's anniversary. The other party's "Hello" broke the atrium of Xiao Ai, and she was moved by his timely greetings.

As a result, her boyfriend became her entrusted relationship with her father, and began a period of not pure love.

03

The simple information of her boyfriend brought her comfort, and she was restless when she couldn't find the news.

Sometimes she also makes a small temperament, hoping that her boyfriend will give some warmth. At first, her boyfriend still accounted for some of her, and then the other party showed impatience. She was angry and didn't coax her.

Xiao Ai was afraid of losing him, and turned to lower her head to take the initiative to reconcile.

Gradually, Xiao Ai has no sweetness in love, more of grievances and dissatisfaction, and uncomfortable uncomfortable.

In countless noise and the Cold War, the two were tired. It turned out that the bland feelings also quickly consumed, and love inevitably ended.

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After falling in love, Xiao Ai, without a smile, became unwilling to speak, and was immersed in pain.

After a long time, the family found that her state was abnormal, and Xiao Ai was depressed.

"No one can stop the coming of love, and no one can stop the pain. What we can do is to face them in what attitude we can do."

Because of your heart, what kind of love will be. Similarly, what you look like, what you will look like.

Xiao Ai accepted the facts, she said, "Thank him for letting me know herself, and thank my parents for their care."

I asked, "Is there any more?" Xiao Ai thought for a while, shook her head.

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Most women are like Xiao Ai. If they can't go out of emotional siege, they will complain about the sky, and they will regret and hate themselves. If they come out, thank those who hurt and encourage her.

One thing in common is to forget themselves. They forgot to thank the person who hurt the most in the relationship — myself.

Sympathy often points to others, but ignores himself. Love others, just forget to love yourself.

No matter what kind of feelings you have experienced, no matter success or failure, what you remember is to thank yourself.

Thank you for his tears when you are alone, your self -comfort in pain, self -relief in hatred, and care about the usual tossing and turning on the side, there are still many ...

Even the help of relatives and friends, it is difficult to come out without painful self -efforts. Even if you are still in the vortex of emotion, you also thank yourself for your persistence and struggle.

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Conclusion

Love, to say it, not only tell the other party, but also to say it to yourself.

"You are worthy of rewards" "You are a respectable person" "You are superb people", "people who love yourself more" ...

When you say you love yourself, you may be shy and embarrassed. It doesn't matter. This is a thin layer of self -obstacle. After speaking, you will feel different from the past.

You can try it. Life is constantly breaking through yourself in order to usher in a brand new you.

Hidden hostility and jealousy: The birth of a report, pick a picture of your ugliest photos

Half of my life has passed, and I have ushered in the afterglow. At the age of 50, I still have the sun.

My belief in my three times: If love needs to work hard for it, it means that it is destined not to belong to you

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