Night Reading | Charming yourself, you will gradually mature

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Human maturity has nothing to do with age and age. People who are often immature have these characteristics.

1

Always anxious to return

A pedestrian saw a wife by the river and was worried about crossing the river.

Although he was exhausted, he still crossed the river with his mother -in -law.

The mother -in -law hurried away without saying anything, and the traveler was annoyed.

A few hours later, when he was so tired, a young man rode his horse and chased him:

"Thank you for helping my grandmother, she is a deaf and dumb, she asked me to bring something to you."

The young man took out dry food and gave him the horse's horse.

Unbalanced people are always in a hurry to return. They do not understand that even if they are broadcast, they must be poured hard to gain.

They also wanted to do a career, but when they did not gain at first, they wanted to give up, and slowly giving up became a habit.

Mature people know more about paying in their careers, and they will also get double returns in the future.

Sprinkle seeds in spring, then water, fertilize, weed, insects, and the final return is dozens of times, hundreds of times.

2

Desperately find a reason

Faced with a career opportunity, many people did not start to do it, and they said it was difficult everywhere. They didn't even try to understand, and they found a bunch of unspeakable reasons based on intuition.

He did not try, did not investigate, and did not like other people's suggestions.

What they delayed may not be a chance, but the whole life ...

The real pain of immature people comes from the continuous anxiety caused by delay, and it also comes from the deep regrets that have lost many opportunities.

The maturity and success they expect will always be far away!

3

Refuse to change

Some people have many bad habits: smoking, alcoholism, delicious laziness, delay ...

They know that these habits are not good, but they are unwilling to change. They would rather accept bad lifestyles, nor did they want to endure the pain caused by changes.

Immature people ignore it, how to treat life and how to treat him.

Mature people often have good habits and put enough self -discipline.

The feedback they get is also very obvious, and the life is organized, because strict self -discipline, they can liberate their thinking without having to monitor everything.

As long as you act in accordance with your own plan, the extraordinary results will naturally come to the door.

4

Zero

Why can't someone achieve a second leap after a successful experience?

Why is someone immersed in the halo of the past and gradually depressed?

Because they gradually filled themselves in their hearts, they had no time to take care of the more exciting world outside.

When we fail, we forget to return to zero; when we succeed, we are unwilling to return to zero.

However, not everything can be added.

The calculator needs to return to zero to the next operation. The same is true of the mature life. In order to clear the past, you can re -embark on a new journey and continue to climb the new peak.

A mature person has strong independence in thought, feelings, action, and economy.

Clarify what you want to do, have a clear life goal, and have practical actions.

If you can defeat your immature, you will gradually grow, and the kind of life you want will not be too far.

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